Have you ever felt ignored and lonely ?
By ajithlal
@ajithlal (14716)
India
15 responses
@toniganzon (72516)
• Philippines
31 May 16
I find somebody else who doesn't ignore me.
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@toniganzon (72516)
• Philippines
31 May 16
@ajithlal I don't allow people to have that satisfaction. If they ignore me, I ignore them. I don't have time for those who can't give time for me.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 May 16
@toniganzon Sometimes I do try my best to get their attention even if they ignore me and most times I do feel sad when they ignore me.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
31 May 16
No one is exemption in this situation
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@perry8912 (28)
• China
31 May 16
yeah. i have been through the two situations...
i always consider myself not good enough so that others ignore me. so i will fullfil myself to make me important
while i am lonely,i would go outside running to distract my attention to the " lonely", also it is able to meet new friends
then everything will change!
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
31 May 16
It is always nice to have people who respect you and also care for you. Now a days some people look what they can benefit from friendships and if they see they do not gain anything they do just try to ignore or try to show they are less interested in friendships.
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@sabashekh (1218)
• Bhopal, India
31 May 16
Yea lonely but never ignored .. My friends never make Me feel ignored .. Yea lonely coz friendships are long distance but never ignored
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@itsmejing (606)
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1 Jun 16
@ajithal i felt that many time at the office, i get used to it, i just kept quiet my i really felt so sad.
@jerry260188 (247)
• India
31 May 16
I faced this loads of time, my heart trampled and crushed all the time by my so called friends. Due to this I have developed this habit of not letting people in.Whenever I feel anyone becoming my friend i would start maintaining distance eventually they too stopped making efforts.This has led people to believe I am an arrogant person, what they don't know this is my defence mechanism.Earlier I used to do this unconsciously and then one day someone pointed out my odd behaviour which led me to think about my actions and ended up with this conclusion that I just explained.Don't follow my lead because I used to do this unconsciously and ended up lonely.Although its difficult, but I m now trying to change by giving others and myself a chance to become friends.
@jerry260188 (247)
• India
31 May 16
I faced this loads of time, my heart trampled and crushed all the time by my so called friends. Due to this I have developed this habit of not letting people in.Whenever I feel anyone becoming my friend i start maintaining distance eventually they too stop making efforts.This has led people to believe I am an arrogant person, what they don't know this is my defence mechanism.If I get emotionally entangled with anyone i m surely going to be made a fool.
@manithan (5)
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31 May 16
Yes., I felt I was ignored by my friends several times and think still I am. Notwithstanding, I have never been shattered by this. It's my family (Mom), who remains my strength enhancer that keeps me bold for ever, even I failed 1000 times. In fact, the loneliness let me explored the hidden stuff that I have in myself.
@Bluewhirlw1nd (1)
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1 Jun 16
I find that life gets busy some times. I have friends who are good when I push to hang out with them. However they rarely find time to see me because they are busy too. I always make an effort though. Because everyone feels lonely and sometimes need a little push. If they refuse to ever see you, maybe you need to reach out to more people.
@BlackSpade (25)
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31 May 16
As we are growing, our life is changing, our preferences change because of which the people around us change...So the people who once were your friends try to ignore you because it might be that you are not the person they want to be with...Everyone feels bad when things like this happens no one wants to be lonely...Its not just with human beings, it's with animals and plants also...You can try it if you want keep a plant alone away from other plants,it will start drying up...When it starts drying up keep it with other plants it will become healthy again...So my friend if they change towards you and ignore you because changing is a part of life then they were not your true friends...So in order to be healthy make new friends leave those who ignore you in the past and move on in your life :)