Would you forigive if someone cheated on you?
By _Deatiny_
@_Deatiny_ (613)
Australia
35 responses
@kawillow74 (1416)
• United States
25 Nov 06
no way it is unforgiveable leave if you don't love that person and if you love that person you would not cheat.
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@_Deatiny_ (613)
• Australia
25 Nov 06
Okay, that's fine, thanks for your opinion and time to reply. Hope to hear from you again soon
@koushika (693)
• India
25 Nov 06
as for me, it depends entirely on the subject onehas cheated, if the reason is related to his personal cause rather than mine, i may forgive whether or not he repents, if he cheats nad hurts my personal feelings and principles or on moral values...i cannot forgive him, until unless i believe he is really changed and he fully repents on his previous deeds...
@_Deatiny_ (613)
• Australia
25 Nov 06
Very very good - I would agree to that to a point - it sucks that I am too forgiving and keep getting it happened to me however the guy I am currently with just celebrated an anniversary, and I know he is going no where
@SteelyDanFan (71)
• United States
25 Nov 06
It depends on the situation, but if I had to pick one response...I would say yes.
Everyone is entitled to make mistakes. If I choose to spend my life with someone, there was obviously a good reason for it. I doubt I would throw that all away for just one slip.
Now, if there were more heinous acts involved...that would change things. If the affair was ongoing. If this was the culmination of repeated disrespect or disloyalty. That kind of stuff.
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@_Deatiny_ (613)
• Australia
25 Nov 06
Yeah, I agree with that without a doubt - Great response, I rate everyone who replies to my discussions + I will mark you as best reponse!
@_Deatiny_ (613)
• Australia
25 Nov 06
Cool cool, I love to hear all opinions and it is good that you forgiving - but be careful! :D
@jade17901 (597)
• United States
26 Nov 06
It all depends on the situation. If he was sick,drinking and was very sorry then I prob would
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I have been cheated on before, I left him. I couldn't stand the sight of him. I wanted to hurt him so badly.
@marief2rnurse (2704)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I have done it in the past. Depends on the situation. I would prefer it though to have a faithful partner. It hurts alot to be cheated on.
@jennybeans (912)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I think it would really depend on the circumstances and the relationship. If the person who cheated didn't feel any remorse, I couldn't imagine forgiving them, but sometimes things happen between couples that push them apart and make communication feel impossible.
@mirage108 (3402)
• United States
25 Nov 06
maybe once, and I would have to hear all the circumstanses before I would forgive.
@kirankurkimath1 (385)
• India
25 Nov 06
i would forgive but it depends on the nature of the froud.. some time it becomes inavetable to cheat.. so before taking any decision i would analise well
@chiquita1977 (1706)
• United States
25 Nov 06
probabty not because they say once a cheater always a cheater
@fsustriker (826)
• United States
25 Nov 06
I think that if they do it once, and ask for forgiveness, and say that they are sorry, they should be forgiven, but if they do it a second time, they are dumped, for thats just uncalled for.