I'm a Frustrated Athlete

Quezon, Philippines
June 15, 2016 1:20am CST
Standing five feet six inches in height, I'm taller than the average Filipina so I should have been top pick when it comes to forming volleyball and basketball teams. But unfortunately, my limbs have a mind of their own so they don't seem to obey what my brain dictates. I am so clumsy I can't even ride a bike. I have this rotten sense of balance I never learned to do things that require balance. I feel like I've missed out on the fun all sporty people experience. I don't know how to swim. My parents and husband are all good swimmers and they've all given up teaching me. It's so frustrating since I know swimming is an essential skill one must learn. In every volleyball lessons I had back in high school, I couldn't answer a volley with my arms. The ball seemed to aim at my face, my legs, anywhere but my ears. Totally incredulous. So during practice, I get the loudest cheer (louder than most star players get) everytime miraculously managed to hit the ball right and make it land at the desired location. I wonder if there are people as clumsy as me and if there are, did they dream to be an athlete once in their lives and like me had decided to focus on other things instead? i
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
Maybe your kids will make it up for you.
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• Quezon, Philippines
15 Jun 16
ha ha ha! I don't have kids...
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
@anjalmonte OMG. Sorry.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
@nomus24g James Cook is here. And so is David Cook. lol
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
i have weak lungs but i played track and field and became a jumper too. i was hospitalized and asked to stop but i wanted to be an athlete. best days of my school life..
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• Quezon, Philippines
16 Jun 16
I envy you, girl!
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
i'm so like you.
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@sofssu (23662)
15 Jun 16
I guess you are too harsh on yourself.. Just because you have the height you cannot make a good basketball player or volleyball player. I am sure you have other talents.. focus on them,. Take care.
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• Quezon, Philippines
16 Jun 16
Yeah. I know I can do things others can't. I'm still proud of myself even if I'm lacking in some areas. Just wondering sometimes...
@theBlock (2657)
• United States
15 Jun 16
Don't worry too much about--being athletic isn't important in life. As long as you're a good person.
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@shamish (202)
17 Jun 16
Do some meditation daily.
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• Quezon, Philippines
18 Jun 16
someone advised me to do yoga or tai chi. I might give it a try
@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
I am clumsy when preoccupied. I am not into sports but tried to be sportsman during my high school days. In college, I am not active since my studies consumed all the time.
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
16 Jun 16
Quite tall indeed. Bit smaller than you, i used tomplay basketball ;)