Catcalling, Compliment or sexual harassment?

Calgary, Alberta
June 15, 2016 3:19am CST
This is an old news from my country but I was able to make a discussion about it way too late because I have no internet connection for weeks thanks to the incompetence of my service provider. My country's incoming President have a controversy weeks ago because he offended a female reporter during a press conference. The female reporter is attractive so he decided to whistle because he thinks she is hot. She go offended about it and she got support from the feminists groups because of it. I wanted to ask the opinion of the ladies here. Would you will flattered when a random stranger cat called you? Or would you feel violated if a man whistled on you because he thinks you are hot?
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
I would be offended. i don't even want to be stared at. Just my personality.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
Usually drunk bums on the streets do this. I can understand why most women hated this attention.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
18 Jun 16
I don't like it. In Denmark it is not very common, and I have only experienced it a few times. When I was living in Italy it happened a lot, and it made me uncomfortable.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
21 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker I couldn't image the Danish prime minister doing the same thing. He seems like a serious person and definitely not very flirty
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• Calgary, Alberta
21 Jun 16
I really dont know why some men thinks it is something okay to do. Imagine the President of my country just did this.
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• Calgary, Alberta
22 Jun 16
@Porcospino Our new President is a lose canon, Aside from publicly harassing sexy female reporters, He is involved on vigilante killings of criminals.
@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
15 Jun 16
I hated when unknown men whistled when I was walking in the streets, it is offensive.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
The President thought the female reported wont mind just because he is in power.
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• Calgary, Alberta
22 Jun 16
@LadyDuck I cant believe that he will be leading the country in the next 6 years.
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@LadyDuck (471456)
• Switzerland
15 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker I know and this also happens when you work in an office and the boss thinks he can do this because he is in power. It's very annoying.
@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
It depends on who catcalled me.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
Double standards? Cute guy= flattered, Fugly guy-Harrasment and should be arrested
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@Lucky15 (37374)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker haha. Family member or closest relative only. Haha
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@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
If my friends and relatives do it to me I am fine because I know they just enjoy teasing me (they must not do it in public or else) but I hate it when other people do it to me.
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• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
So if it's someone you know it is okay but it would be creepy with a stranger.
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@AkoPinay (11542)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker if someone I know do it in public it's not ok for me too. It's ok if only in our circle.
• United States
10 Mar 17
This is one reason why women are nasty to men. Women feel objectified by men when they receive any kind of attention. Not all guys treat women this way. But, when some do, they feel turned off by any compliment they receive. I don't mind if someone says I'm pretty, gorgeous, cute, or beautiful. But, if you 'compliment' me in an objectifying manner, I will feel pissed off and very uncomfortable. I know that some men grow up learning that. It's very common for Hispanic men to whistle at women they find attractive. That doesn't mean that it's okay for some women. It's either a cultural thing or a form of harassment. I will say this: For that President to treat that woman that way was very unacceptable. It was also very unprofessional. If I was that woman, I would've flipped out, too.
• Calgary, Alberta
11 Mar 17
I only compliment women I know because I know they are conformable with me. Yeah some women wanted attention while some wanted to be left alone and mind their business. I dont catcall though because I know that it is disrespectful.
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
16 Jun 16
I am not comfortable when a man whistled at me. I know only ill-mannered canto boys do that and so sorry that a President would misbehave that way.
@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
15 Jun 16
That is conduct unbecoming of a President. I think the reporter will not mind so much if she is in a beach wearing bikini, but not when she is in her professional role. I think this kind of President spells trouble for your country. If he does that to a first lady in other country, that will cause a lot of problem.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
He has always been flirty, even during the presidential debates, he was flirting with the female presidential candidate he is competing against. He have a good campaign team that is why he won.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
16 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker If he does not behave, then he will cause a lot of embarrassment internationally. If he dares to do that to the first lady of China, China will cut all ties!
@much2say (55668)
• Los Angeles, California
27 Jun 16
Well, in the case of an incoming President whistling during a press conference, that's just inappropriate period. As far as that happening to me personally, I guess I feel flattered more than offended. I don't mind a whistle, but I do hate googly eye comments from men who literally drool and have their tongues hanging out - that disgusts me.
@much2say (55668)
• Los Angeles, California
30 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker Eek - well if he's married with a mistress, then right there I would have a low opinion of him - not only for whistling at another female. This guy is not the ideal role model, that's for sure.
• Calgary, Alberta
1 Jul 16
@much2say I really dont know why people voted for him. Some people are fascinated how he lowered the crime rate of his city by vigilante justice.
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• Calgary, Alberta
30 Jun 16
I wont be shocked if the incoming President will do that one of these days. He is still married with his wife but they were separated because he lives with his mistress. So I have no idea who will be the first lady. He is openly lewd.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
It has been a notion in the old days and i think until today , that to whistle to a girl passing by is offensive and only done by those who are always in the streets doing nothing but watch people go by . I would feel offended too because you can just very well tell me "You are a sexy woman " . It would be flattering if they do that instead .
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker Precisely , my friend . Because it is known to be that , it becomes offensive to women .
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
I notice that usually cat callers are unemployed drunkard bums on the streets. A decent man for sure wont be howling on a woman in public like a wolf seeing a baby deer.
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@Shavkat (139942)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
This is a president with no decency. Wolf whistle is not good for a man to do it. This is really a bad behavior.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
Well the majority voted for him so people should reap what they sow. I expect more scandals with his manners soon.
@skysnap (20153)
15 Jun 16
it used to be compliment in the past now harassment. people these days are extreme from either end.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
I remember some rapist begins from cat calling women on the streets.
@skysnap (20153)
15 Jun 16
@CaptAlbertWhisker in old days perhaps. in reality rapist just wants to rape. why he or she wastes time catcalling or doing things to their victim?
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
some people are just blind to their leader, and that's not right. some one'e out of line, and they should be punished.
• Calgary, Alberta
22 Jun 16
His fans were as blind as Justin Bieber fans. The more he does ridiculous things, the more they love him.
@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
15 Jun 16
Usually it's very annoying to get catcalled. It makes me feel uncomfortable.
• Calgary, Alberta
15 Jun 16
and unsafe as well. Pepper spray is all what women need to those whistlers.