Do you enjoy chatting with your colleagues at work?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139397)
Philippines
June 18, 2016 5:17am CST
During the time that I am working in my former company, I never tried to chat with my colleagues. You might say that I am a weird individual. I have my own reasons why. The reason, I don’t like gossip. What do they normally chat about? They normally talk the people working in the company. Most of my colleagues are so unprofessional in this part of socialization. If you are going to question my personality, I am a person with the mixed up of introvert and extrovert. Basically, I just do my job and run off the company in a regular basis.
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@Chungshop (2355)
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18 Jun 16
Sometimes we can't avoid talking to each other, but if the topic is about others rather than works is better we avoid it.
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@Shavkat (139397)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
@Chungshop I totally agree with that. I don't do chit chat with such people if it is not job-related.
@cacay1 It will have the chance to file defamation with these people.
@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
I am a quiet person and I just talk with my colleagues if I have questions to ask about our task at work. I always think of what I need to do in my job and if I have free time I just spend it in mylotting or reading something. I consider it very unprofessional to talk about the life of our other colleagues. It is not of my business anymore I think since I am very busy with my own life.
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@annierose (21588)
• Philippines
19 Jun 16
@Shavkat With or without the presence of our boss, we shoud always be professionals. I think gossiping will not do any good in the workplace.
@Shavkat (139397)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
@annierose I also do the same thing. I never even look at them while working. It is better to focus at my work and be the early to accomplish the tasks in the company.
@sunilparthan (6302)
• India
18 Jun 16
Yes i love to chat with my colleagues. I love to. It makes me to be cool and happy. and also will help to understand the different things.
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@Shavkat (139397)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
@suniparthan It is nice to chat if aiming for self-develoment.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jun 16
In order to remain a good relationship with my colleagues, I will try to change myself and it is OK for me to chat with my colleagues at work. Although we have quite different interests, but I can choose some topics that they like. I think in this world sometimes when we make others happy, others may make us happy, too. It will be a good cycle.
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@Shavkat (139397)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@youless That's good relationship with them. As for me, I will only change myself if things are not right. But if I changed myself just to fit in to these people, I think I can't do it. I don't need to change myself just to be accepted in the crowd.
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
7 Jul 16
I used to be chummy with coworkers and thought they were my friends. I was what you called a too friendly person and trusting to a fault. I thought that because I was honest, genuine and kind that others would treat me the same way. I live by the code do unto others as you would have men do unto you.
I was awaken out of my naive state when a coworker whom I did not talk to much stopped me one day and said to me to be careful of the people I think are my friends because they are the same ones who cause me not to get a promotion -I was stifled for almost 16 years because of this. I was placed in higher positions to work for people but when these post are vacant I was never considered. If I applied for an internal position my resume was not even read and I was devastated for all these years.
Gossiping is a a killer and it hurts more than people want to admit. Yes it is enjoyable and lovely to chat a person but what does that say about you or me? So like you I work and if it has nothing to do with the work no one comes to my desk. It can be a bit lonely at times but guess what you are focused and you get more work done.
We need more professionalism in the work place and you remember that you do not go to work to make friends but to work. If you find some genuine ones give God thanks and if you are like me dont give a heck what others think as long as my work is done efficiently and effectively then all the more power to you.
I thought that life would be lonely this way but guess what I get recognized by bigger managers though people tried to hold me down through gossip, backbiting and just saying rotten things. I say rotten things too but if I do it its never behind your back and its always to make you do something better than the manner in which it was being done.
Thats me!
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@Sharon38 (1912)
• Jamaica
8 Jul 16
@Shavkat and being the brunt of those chats are not easy. My work environment is as such and it hurts me at times to see them doing that to anyone so I dont partake, When I say that i say rotten things, i meant that if the work or something is not being done properly and I speak about it more than once then I normally get really hard on the person until the thing is done properly. I dont gossip... It hurts me and it hurts others so I do not endulge .. I work until its time to go to school or home
@TheHorse (217891)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Jul 16
I do. But only when it's positive. I don't gossip much. One colleague, whose first language is Spanish, and I talk to each other in French as much as we can. We're both trying to learn French and are at the same level. Sometimes we correct/help each other. Other times we just laugh. I see that as healthy. We also all help each other out professionally, whether it's finding the right word in a progress note, or something else.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
30 Jun 16
You sound quite professional I like your attitude .It is like be the way you should be depending upon the environment you are in.You should be completely into that thing and not distract yourself by gossiping and meaningless chatting.
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@loyedlopes (2)
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12 Jul 17
it is better to interact with colleages because u feel fresh at work and also can share ur feelings because at work we will be spending more time in office
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@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
24 Jun 16
In an organization, you can't avoid it. There will be gossips everywhere. It is how you handle it. The gossip will die on my end because I don't like talking about it to anyone. I just listen and it ends there.
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@Shavkat (139397)
• Philippines
8 Jul 16
@rachz_kisses Same here. I never entertained co-workers. It is strictly job-related cheeky talks.
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@Sunflower_Michele54 (58)
• United States
22 Aug 17
I love chatting with my colleagues whom I'm very close with. It makes the work environment pleasant and welcoming. Talking to them while working also makes the time go by faster. It's also fun to talk about what you did over the weekend and vacations you went on. Those are things we talk about a lot at my job.