Lost a friend...good
By Babygirlrae
@carebear29 (31968)
Wausau, Wisconsin
June 21, 2016 10:43pm CST
I lost a friend today over her drama lieing bull today. She went and told my husband that I was dating one of our friends when I am clearly not. Mind you last night she wanted me to tell her boyfriend for her it was over and now she is like all protecting him and crap. My husband doesn't believe her since we all think she is jealous of me having it made. Another thing is is she is lesbian (no judge.)
I am so irritated with her right now I just not going to take her back as a friend anymore if she comes running back again. My husband knows this is going to bother me for awhile but I will get over her soon. Especially knowing her for too many years. Practically grew up together. This is our 2nd major time we are no longer talking and it is final. I am just glad things are straight between me and my husband though.
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19 responses
@carebear29 (31968)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
22 Jun 16
Yeah, didn't help much because she is older than me and mostly immature.
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@Chungshop (2355)
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22 Jun 16
That is back biting, stab you at the back. So now is time to filter your friends lo.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
22 Jun 16
You should say good-bye forever to someone like that. It sounds like all she wants to do is cause trouble.
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@RichardMeister (5328)
• Otis Orchards, Washington
24 Jun 16
@carebear29 I would think that was a good decision.
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@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
26 Jun 16
it hurts but we need to come across such things which is not good continuing
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@abhinalstrikr (4111)
• India
27 Jun 16
@carebear29 yeah we have to be moving probably living unessentials
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@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Well... that's fortunate. She shouldn't have done those things. I hope your life gets better in the near future.
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@carebear29 (31968)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
@Tierkreisze Karma will get her. But not soon enough
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@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@carebear29 I'm sure she'll realize what she did too, someday. But until that day comes, I hope she doesn't hurt anyone else, though.
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@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
She's not a friend worth keeping for. Better avoid her next time.
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@AlexGunner (2)
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22 Jun 16
What she did was absolutely immature of her but since you've grown up together & been friends for such a long time atleast try & figure out why she must have done that? Because I believe she considers you as important as you have considered her all these years and jealousy isn't just something that would make her try to ruin your relationship with your husband. What if there is something more than just jealousy that made her take such a huge step? Staying friends with her later or not is totally your call but I believe you should atleast talk it out with her first that why she did it before deciding to not to speak to her ever again! And yes even I agree that somethings just can't be fixed at times, so if it really isn't working out between you and her then you should probably stop talking to her but before ending a friendship that lasted for all these years I think you should have a closure with her!
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@carebear29 (31968)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Thank you. I am doing just so. She isn't coming back to cry wolf again. I am completely done.
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@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@AlexGunner Well, after trying to fix things with her and she's still doing the same.. would you still keep her? She tried to ruin your relationship with your husband and I think she will do it again. Whatever the reason behind her insecurities, she will aim at you anytime if she had the chance. Well, Good luck. Hope everything goes well with you two...
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@carebear29 (31968)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
She is in a way. She can be caring but way too protective
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 Jun 16
That's right .. just concentrate on your relationship with your husband ..
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@3876745Ok (174)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Jun 16
Don't be friends with her, this is not a good friend.
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
23 Jun 16
sorry all that happened, but probably best not to have this person in your life, if they bring drama and try to cause trouble in your household.
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
22 Jun 16
You gave her too much leniency..which is not good at all.
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@deniselambert (2)
• Martinsville, Virginia
22 Jun 16
Sounds like you're better off without her. I've had a similar friendship. It just ended for good a few weeks ago, and my life is much better. I loved her dearly, and still do, but my life is better without her drama. I still miss her and the good times we had over the years, but being less stressed without her lies and manipulation is worth giving up the good times.
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
22 Jun 16
I think these kinds of friends who speak lie and try to place you in an embarrassing situation are not required. You could forget her, she is not worth your friendship.
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@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
It's too bad to have a friend like that better keep away from her
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@carebear29 (31968)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Yes. Thats why I am careful who I talk to and what I say
