MyLot on my mind

By ARM
India
June 22, 2016 11:36am CST
Something strange is happening to my thought process. They seem to be heading towards this particular place I discovered around three weeks back. Not consciously, no not at all. I still go around doing my daily business of living. There’s lots to do. College and counseling . Cooking and cleaning . Chores . Calling up family and travelling . Celebrations and family visits. In the midst of all these activities a particular chain of thought creeps in unintentionally directing itself to the site on my desktop. It’s like this, the bright red china roses that greet me next to my classroom are suddenly the avatars of two folks who dwell in that place. So are the next door kittens. And the horse picture in my neighbour’s living room. The expression "The cat's whiskers" has taken on a whole new meaning. The Botany department people are talking of their project of producing organic manure…I start reflecting on begonias , red roses, petunias and bee balm. And the butterfly on flowers that makes for happiness. I work in the kitchen and look out on the last of my laburnums that I love...."see you next year " , I say and "from now on I'm going to call you by your new name with which you've been christened from across the globe ...golden rain." I open my fridge door to take out the milk in the morning. Today my eyes are directed at the few magnets stuck there. Why am I thinking of a certain Venice mask one and a rule to revisit the ‘Port of Magnet’ if one of them gets broken? Last weekend when I sat and watched a couple of movies with my husband. One had England as the locale and the other Greece and Turkey. I wonder if the traveler through Turkey and the residents (especially a special one) walked the streets shown on the screen. I told my husband” this is a date “ , because friend let us know she would be dating like this later on. Odd as it may seem, I saw a family wheeling and loading a sewing machine on to the train last weekend. Wasn’t it only a couple of days ago there was this ‘discussion’ on sewing machines…Coincidences??? I take down my Mary Higgins Clark book , musing whether C S has finished his .The Le Carre books on my shelf , gets my mind directed to JH who listed Carre as an author he likes The bamboo groves that dot the country side and flash past through my train window makes me reflect on another gardener whose garden has been invaded by bamboo shoots and slugs. The young boy who has recently joined my workplace asks me if I know of a place he can rent. As I give him a few directions , I contemplate that we are keeping our fingers crossed in another house hunting episode. A colleague who is about to leave for a seminar chats about the outfits she is thinking of taking with her. Isn’t this just like the post about the matching outfit for the end of the year party, like a flash the thought crosses my mind . Another friend talks about a wedding coming up in their family.The boy and girl are from different communities but the families have met and now its 'arranged' to everyone's satisfaction."I've been there', I smile inwardly as I think of the huge discussion I participated in. They say it’s hard to make friends as you grow older and I never thought I would do so . But I guess life teaches you to expect the unexpected. So here I am in this new place with people who were kind enough to welcome me warmly. And it’s all thanks to the girls Maud and Daisy. They may be silly. But I like them, really. Because , they led me to you. photo: pixabay.com/en/woman-girl-balloon-thought-bubble and I worked on it on 'PAINT'
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31 responses
• United States
22 Jun 16
ya did such'n paint?? i ne'er could figure that program out, lol. i hear yer words, they carry the same meanin' fer myself. i see somethin', hear somethin' that reminds me'f the flowers'n my garden here daily. sometimes to the point'f distraction. with @Corbin5 's obsession with toads, i find myself takin' hundreds'f pic's 'f 'em e'ery single day. thinkin' someday i'll get 'em all printed 'n set'n a coffee table book fer her - a gentle reminder that i think'f her oft. i could go'n, but'd fail to put't all's eloquently's yerself :D i'm wonderin' who those to gals're? sure'd love to hug their necks fer sendin' ya this direction. yer take'n life 'n livin' a breathe'f fresh air. big hugs!!
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• United States
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme i love to sit'n listen to the toads here 't night, with a chorus'f crickets joinin'. takes me back to more peaceful times :) i'm so glad that'cha came 'n found those gals 'n decided to stay with's. i've tried doin' such'n paint'n usin' other software also - i fail't the task'n wind'p with more'f a young'uns scribblin' than anythin' else, lol. i leave those talents to folks like yerself who've the patience 'n "eye" fer such. proud'f ya fer takin' those tasks 'pon yerself :D we're ne'er to "well seasoned" to learn new crafts, eh? big hugs!!
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• India
23 Jun 16
@crazyhorseladycx never too old to learn hee hee and
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• India
22 Jun 16
@crazyhorseladycx @ jaboUK Thank you Thank you. I just woke up to a chorus of frogs who went on and on throughout the dawn and there it was again....my mind rushed off to the frog that came for dinner :) Also please do look up the edited version of my post, because there was one thing I wanted to put in and didn't...:) The gals are the 'Silly Girls' ...TAG the discussion, they were the first post I read on this site and got hooked (!) on to. I'm rather proud of working on that picture myself. You see I would depend on hubby and kids for these things but now I'm venturing out, on my own. Big Hugs to you'll too.
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@jaboUK (64355)
• United Kingdom
22 Jun 16
So who are Maud and Daisy? I know what you mean - any little thing that happens in my day i find myself wondering if I could make a post about it. I love what you did with the picture.
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• India
22 Jun 16
You should know, you surely can't have forgotten them. For me, its about the posts that I read here as well as writing out my own. I'm glad I could work on that picture .I tried a couple of times and finally it worked out.:)
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@jaboUK (64355)
• United Kingdom
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme Oh sheesh! You're talking about my own creations!! Silly me
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• India
23 Jun 16
@jaboUK . They did me a lot of good,I don't care if they were silly:)
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@LadyDuck (467585)
• Switzerland
24 Jun 16
I see that you was thinking to my garden while looking through the train window. Now the bamboo is under control. I have fond the two invading roots, cut them from the main plant and removed them. I am also winning my battle against the slugs. The temperature is higher and it stopped raining, finally it's summer. I think to myLot all the day, no matter what I look I imagine if I can write something about it.
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@LadyDuck (467585)
• Switzerland
24 Jun 16
@responsiveme There are many myLotters that I consider real friends and not only online friends. All those who left comments here are among my friends.
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• Midland, Michigan
12 Jul 16
I have a few holes in leaves of my green pepper plant which is in a pot, and I asked someone at work what would cause that. They told me snails or slugs, so it appears that some have visited me this past month or so. I've looked underneath the leaf to see if anything is still around, but didn't find the pest. When you've seen them in your plants are they on the plant or in the dirt, Anna? I'm not really sure how to look or where to look, or whether they've done their damage and have left now. Sorry, @responsiveme if I've sort of hijacked this post. This won't go on and on at all.
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• India
24 Jun 16
Thanks for reading. Glad to have made friends on myLot
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
23 Jun 16
You do have much on your mind it seems! Lovely point for point of your life and living today. This is my favourite magnet from Venice - I had one similar from my first visit and my grandson broke it - he was so fascinated with it that he grabbed it. My hubby took me back to Venice so luckily I have another one - but this one is higher on the fridge and I have secured it a little better.
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• Midland, Michigan
12 Jul 16
I've never seen any magnet quite that exquisite, Inlemay.
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• India
23 Jun 16
@Inlemay thank you for the close up:)
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• Eugene, Oregon
23 Jun 16
This is a thoughtful and interesting reflection on the myLot community and how it occurs to us through the day as we go about our other business.
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• India
23 Jun 16
I could keep adding to it . "The Le Carre books on my shelf , gets me reflecting on JH who listed Carre as an author he likes " :)
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@just4him (317038)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
I can see how myLot is on your mind as each of those scenarios is similar to what people talk about on their posts. The globe has shrunk to virtual reality on the computer screen in front of us and we laugh and cry and help each other with tips and ideas to do such and such. I'm glad you were eventually led here where you can discuss to your hearts content about each of those topics covered here.
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• India
24 Jun 16
Me too. Glad you found your apartment. Would like to know more about your books.
@annierose (21602)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
It seems that you have been thinking a lot. And you did so much reflections. So many ideas running and I love your flow of words. I do also remember about the post on sewing machines as I responded on that as well. I wonder who is Maud and Daisy. Maybe very close friend of yours?
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@annierose (21602)
• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme That is good. Your circle of friends are getting bigger.
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• India
23 Jun 16
@annierose You could say there are 'friends' who led me to friends on MyLot. look up "Silly Girls"..., SEARCH--"Silly Girls" discussions.{Hint @jabouk}
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
28 Jun 16
Tell me if I am wrong but doesn't this have everything to do with writing and writing when it is not a solidarity exercise keeps us inspired?
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
28 Jun 16
@responsiveme Sorry. You have a lot on your mind but you can write about it which is so great! Happy for you. When we are able to share our stuff and get feedback from other people it can be helpful ... specially if we think about other things to write as we go no living. At least I think that is what happens?
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• India
28 Jun 16
@Bluedoll thank you.. Its one of my stress busters. Its the first time I'm really interacting on social media.
• India
28 Jun 16
I didn't really get your meaning.
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
23 Jun 16
am I the 'cat whiskers'¿ doesn't matter... thanks for the head up, I'm on my mobile and it's like impossible to reply PM from it... and no, you're absolutely not intruding at all...
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• India
23 Jun 16
U are:)
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
23 Jun 16
Sites like MyLot can be addictive drawing us in causing us to stay (or perhaps overstay) our welcome. They are also reflective of life, how many times to people comment about something you have just seen on your journey across town. I think this shows haw people, despite their distinct locations have very similar problems or challenges in life. You are right how one thing we hear about seems to trigger similar events close to us.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
28 Jun 16
@pgiblett excuse me for asking but on a positive note this is proof that I do follow you but don't always follow you? What is creed colour? I understand creed to be about a set of beliefs. How does it relate to colour? Also you wrote something I was trying to understand. (perhaps overstay our welcome) that could actually hurt my feelings except maybe you meant something other than what I was thinking which was more on the line of computer time allegation on the big brother machine.
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@pgiblett (6524)
• Canada
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme Yes it is true that human nature is the same everywhere. Irrespective of nationality, race, creed, colour or religion we are driven by common goals. This is, in my view, what make MyLot and other social sites so successful.
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• India
23 Jun 16
You mean, the common human factor. Miss Marple used to say that human nature was much the same everywhere and solved her mysteries sitting at home. I hope I don't overstay my welcome
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@sofssu (23662)
23 Jun 16
I was kind of obsessed with my online friends many years ago.. now they weigh equally with real time ones. Glad that you love being here.
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• India
23 Jun 16
I do. And love being with my real time friends too.
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
Welcome to the site :D I am sure you will enjoy it here.
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@gudheart (12659)
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme I was the same :D If I had more free time I would be on here more.
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• India
23 Jun 16
Thank you. As you can see i'm kind of hooked.:)
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
23 Jun 16
Loved this! It was beautifully written, and I recognized a few of my fellow mylotters in there, including myself. Lol! What you have written is so true! Well done and how did you do that photo? It's awesome!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
23 Jun 16
@responsiveme I'm very impressed, although it's all Greek to me!
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• India
24 Jun 16
@DianneN thank you
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• India
23 Jun 16
@DianneN ,thing is usually I get my husband and kids to do the computer stuff for me but now being on my own I have to. ...necessity being the mother of 'discovering how to' I pasted the photo from pixabay onto the paint software and then worked on it, writing in the words in the empty bubbles.....after some fumbling I got through, .......more luck than anything I guess
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• Philippines
24 Jun 16
Hahaha. I like everything about this post. You certainly had enjoyed here. I too am having fun...!
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• India
24 Jun 16
thanks. its good to have fun together
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• Philippines
25 Jun 16
@responsiveme I agree.
@marlina (154131)
• Canada
11 Jul 16
Hello @responsiveme, You were asking if I had red this piece here and unfortunately I had missed it. So thank you for reminding me of it. I did notice that you introduce the flower "bee balm" in it. You are a very talented writer my dear!
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• India
11 Jul 16
Thank you, and I not a writer or anything. I do it only for friends and I am enjoying this site. I wrote this just after the post you did on the beebalm, it was a new plant for me.
@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
3 Jul 16
I love your post ... this place is great for making friends ... and then like you say you find yourself thinking about them ... Welcome. ..
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• India
6 Jul 16
Thank you..glad to be here.
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• Midland, Michigan
12 Jul 16
You did an excellent job with both your thought bubble, image and with the way your new mylot friends intertwined with your life in the various way. While reading, I was thinking of Janet's limericks, and this caused me to wonder who all you might be writing about. I saw your request for a read on Marie's, Marlina's beebalm post just now.
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• India
12 Jul 16
Thank you. I wrote about all the people I had got to know around that time and about the posts I had read. I guess you have found out quite a few from the responses below.
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@JudyEv (335055)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 May 17
I went scrolling down your posts to find this after getting the title from Kandase's post. And I can identify with your musings - very much so.
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• India
27 May 17
Thanks for reading...This is when I was a newbie
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
13 Jul 16
You write so well. The way you pour your thoughts and feelings is awesome. Are you sure you are a Mathematics Professor/ Lecturer?
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• India
14 Jul 16
Thank you. did you find yourself in the above discussion? You are right there you know. my love of literature is inherited from ma, she used to teach English in college. I hope I teach maths OK ,otherwise my poor students will have a bad time if my love of literature comes out in maths class
@Kandae11 (54791)
26 May 17
Yes indeed, through Mylot, we can make friends and travel the world without leaving our homes.
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• India
26 May 17
Yes, and these were the things happening in the site around that time
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