~Life Changing Decision~

I don't know what sort of decision you may be making but for me if possible I do a lot of research. If it's more personal I ask people I trust. The good thing about this place is that you've literally hundreds of people to ask about something so maybe take advantage of it?? I don't go down the religious lines as I do not believe in current religions so I'd obviously not be a fan of praying and such. If I can help in any way feel free to send me a message and whatever you say will go no further.

I pray, like you are doing, then I often get input from people I know who are wise, and that I can trust. It also helps me to think about the worst thing that could come of it, and then the best thing that can from it.

It depends on what the huge decision is. Of course, as many know, I am not happy with my current employer. I have begun the process of looking for another job. Still, I am torn between leaving and staying. There are many clients that I will miss. I weigh the good with the bad and if one outweighs the other, I make a plan. Yes, sometimes I turn it over to the Lord for guidance. There have been times when personal issues were troubling me. I prayed.

Sometimes, I do need to think about it, but I do also try to listen to when my gut instincts are telling me.

First i really make a big thinking about it . Then , i ask for my husband's opinion . And if we came up with what we think is the right decision , i pray for it .

I always look for guidance through prayer when making a huge decision. Right now I"m leaving a big decision in the hands of God. Hope things work out for you with the decision you have to make

I dont think I am the one to ask about this, as many of my decisions turn out to bite me, in fact most of the major decisions I have made, have. However, you have to do the best you can with the circumstances you know to be true at the time.

Oh dear. That is scary and tough. As I read through the interactions above on the discussion, I am feeling worried. As you have not mentioned what decision and how it is going to affect, it becomes more difficult to say what would I have done if in your shoes. I do agree with all of them who say you should consult others and keep the faith on the Lord. I only pray that you stay sane while taking such a life changing decision and also stay sane after.

I list down the pros and cons. Do a lot of thinking and praying for guidance.

I pray, research as far as I can and then make the best decision I can.

I usually come up with all the scenarios that help me understand about that decisions.

When I have a big decision to make I do a lot of research about what it is I'm deciding about, talk it out with my wife, measure the pros and cons, pray, and then decide.

I pray about it and talk to someone.

I would write out all the pros and cons especially the ones about how it would affect other family members. And pray a lot to ask God to show you what He wants you to do.

Sometimes we can make a decision and after sticking with it for a while we can rethink it and make a new decision.

I think about it. I make a list of the good and bad of the various choices. I talk to appropriate people about it. (people who have had similar situlation and/or the people involved) Then I decide and make the best of my decision. It doesn't mean I never look back and wish I had decided differently, but I never beat myself up about it and I live with my decision. take care.

Before I make a huge decision, I think about it many times. I ask guidance from Him and suggestions from other persons. I also consider the positive and negative side of my decision to make.

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Choosing an apartment was a life changing decision for me.

You started this discussion on my birthday.