Don't You Remember Me?

Why forget me?
@cacay1 (83577)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
July 20, 2016 8:50am CST
My cousin arrived from Saipan three nights ago.She works there as an accountant, then two years ago , she married a handsome and brilliant Architect from Makati, Philippines. My sister did not tell me that our cousin arrived. Their house is just three meters away from our house.I learned she arrived home when I noticed lots of Toblerons chocs keep in the refrigerator.My sister does not eat chocs afraid of her arthritis and blood pressure that keeps on fluctuating. Then she told me our cousin Almira arrived home and gave her many stuffs bought from Saipan. I also wonder why she never sees me everyday passing in the adjacent lawn and on their open French Windows.We are very close first degree cousins.It is so impossible that she does not notice me passing by the adjacent lawns morning and early evening.Maybe she does not remember me. Whatever will be her reason, she is entitled to it. Maybe she is thinking why I remain sexy.LOL. Image by Pixabay
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jul 16
That seems unnatural for her not to greet you, as she obviously knows you are there.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Jul 16
@jaboUK, That is so true, and I am hurt actually.I will never be the first to greet she might think that I am going to ask many things she brought from Saipan.She is changed, it's okay as long as she us successful in her marriage, career and love.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Jul 16
@jaboUK, good night friend, I am so tied from work, 7 hours teaching this day.Take care of yourself.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
20 Jul 16
@cacay1 I hope that she will soon come to see you, but if not that is her loss. Anyway you have many people on this site who care about you - you are going to feature in my next post too.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
Send the Toblerons to @Luck15 and @brokenbee so you'll remain sexy hehehe!
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@sunrisefan hehehe already consumed by our visitors here my cousins from other cities to console my cousin.The reason why she comes home is to seek advise from her family and relatives.Her husband chested her and their months old son.He left them for another woman and after 2 years, he wanted to come back after diagnosed with prostate cancer,His mistress left him after knowing his sickness. My cousin is very problematic to accept or not to accept her husband back.She is here to ask advise from her family and relatives.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
@cacay1 You're cousin's problem is serious indeed. She needs the emotional support from you and other close relatives at this time.
@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
20 Jul 16
Hum...perhaps she will visit you soon. Maybe she is just busy on something. As you said, you were very close with each other, so I think she will find a time to see you and have a chit-chat.
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@annierose (21571)
• Philippines
21 Jul 16
@cacay1 Have you visited her already today? How was everything?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@annierose, you might be right friend.I will know it later. I will go to their house which is only 3 meters away from our house.Thanks dear.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@annierose Yes friend, and I already posted here the reasons.She is troubled. Her husband left her and their months old son and it's almost 2 years that her husband lived with another woman and also have a son.The problem now is , her ex is sick with prostate cancer and his mistress left him in misery. He wanted to reconcile with my cousin,but she needs the advise of her family and relatives that is why she has this sudden coming back home. She sobbed so hard when we met in their house and she told me everything.She will be back to Saipan tomorrow.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
20 Jul 16
Maybe she didn't recognized you. I am sure she will have the chance to surprise you.
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@Shavkat (140102)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
@cacay1 I think it is fine to pay a visit to her. But, people change and we need to prepare ourselves for that.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@Shavkat, today is her 5th day stay in Ph and we are first cousins and neighbors only 3 meters distance.I am going to knock at their door tonight and ask her why?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@Shavkat ,I already visited her friend.She has a very big problem.Her Architect husband has a mistress and he left her and their months old son.Now, the husband wants to reconcile for he is so ill due to prostate cancer and his mistress left him.They also have a son with his mistress. She comes home to seek advise from her family and relatives.She will fly back to Saipan tomorrow.
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Jul 16
Maybe you should go over there and find out why and let her know who you are just in case she doesn't remember you.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@just4him, I supposed to this day. I went home earlier, but their service vans were not arrond.I hope tomorrow.I am going to ask her why she is forgetting me.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@just4him Yes Valerie, she sobbed so hard. She was ashamed of her fate with her husband having another woman.Her husband left her and their months old son.Now the husband wants to reconcile, but she has to ask suggestions from her direct family and relatives.They had a meeting the other night with her family and relatives. I also gave to her the suggestions of the mylotters which helped her a lot.
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@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Jul 16
@cacay1 I hope she will remember you when you meet face to face.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
20 Jul 16
Well to me it's weird she didn't come to say hi if she just arrived??
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@Marymargill, you are right, she seems weird hehehehe. How I wished to her " Who are you by the way?" hehehehe so she will recall where she is.My sister does not tell me what happens to her. It seems there is a secret.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@MarymargII I went to their house and I learned that my cousin is so problematic, her husband and their son left them for another woman.Then after 2 years her husband wanted to come back to her for he is sick with prostate cancer and his mistress left him too.Karma,right?She comes home to seek suggestions from her family and relatives.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
22 Jul 16
@cacay1 I don't know if I would ignore it or go and ask her what her problem is with not talking to me.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Jul 16
Maybe she is just in ending for some strange reason but sad she doesn't come and call on you or like you say maybe she is thinking you are too sexy.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
21 Jul 16
@cacay1 I think she should have let you know she was there. Wonder why she didn't. Oh well only 3 meters away is not that far, right?
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@Marcyaz, hahahaha just joking friend.There might be a reason , so tonight, I am going to knock at their door which is only 3 meters away from our house.
@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@Marcyaz I went to their house the other night and she related to me everything.She is in deep trouble, her husband cheated her and their months old son.Her husband left them and lived with the other woman.Now the husband is sick with prostate cancer and his mistress left him.The husband wanted to reconcile with my cousin, but she has to ask permission/ suggestions from her family and relatives. She is troubled.
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
21 Jul 16
Yes! Maybe that's it! She didn't expect you to look that good and she's worried that you might attract her handsome hubby .. heheehe! .. just kidding..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
22 Jul 16
@cacay1 Well, if she is short, dark and beautiful, and her hubby is tall dark and handsome , that makes them a perfect match.. Lol!.. Just kidding of course.. What matters is the beauty within.. And I hope by now, you would have greeted one another and spent some quality time catching up..
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@epiffanie Yes friend I already knew the reason infidelity of her husband.I also posted here last night about the reason and the mylotters gave very strong responses and I printed out the suggestions and gave them to my cousin with so much thanks, for through mylotters suggestions, she finally decided not to accept her husband/
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@epiffanie, hahaha, actually my cousin is black beauty , but she lacks height hehehehe.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
21 Jul 16
Your sister has no idea why she is engaging in this rude behavior. Don't worry, you are way sexier than her lol
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@BelleStarr, hehehe, I am so hurt of her indifference. I have to talk to her and know the reason why she is doing that way.Thanks friend.
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• United States
20 Jul 16
'tis most odd, her behaviour :( i hope ya see such's a slight'n her part 'n don't hold such 's sad to yer heart.
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• United States
21 Jul 16
@cacay1 i hope that'cha go there with'n open mind'n heart, hon. 'n that y'all can work't out. big hugs!
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@crazyhorseladycx yeah, have hugged her and told me everything that also broke my heart.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
Yes true, so odd, she is not this my cousin friendly, sweet, cheerful, friendly and talkative.I have to know the reasom tonght. I plan to go go to their house distance only 3 meters from home.
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@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
Just wait for her, she might be very busy distributing her gifts to all your relatives.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@ida123, I already posted the reason friend awhile ago, and you already gave your best suggestion about what my cousin do.Thanks friend.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
20 Jul 16
Maybe you're unrecognizable? Even more beautiful? lol
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
23 Jul 16
@sol_cee, wow girl you are so beautiful in your picture.I like your sweet smile. I went to my cousin's house and learned her troubles.her husband left her and their months old son for a another woman and it's been 2 years now.The problem is her ex wanted to reconcile because her mistress left him after knowing he is sick with prostate cancer.She comes home to seek advise from her family and relatives.
@PainsOnSlate (21852)
• Canada
21 Jul 16
Being rude seems to be easily to do in this era, I find it strange that adults would act that way, you expect that from teens, but not adults.
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
Yes, true, something is so unusual.It seems she keeps a secret and afraid to expose it'
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
20 Jul 16
You can never tell the reason, but she should had be excited to greet and meet you since you had not seen each other for two years. Just remain sexy! ha ha ha!
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@cacay1 (83577)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Jul 16
@acelawrites, hehehehe, you make my evening great here friend.I plan to knock at their door this evening just to get the idea what makes her forget me.
• United States
24 Jul 16
Maybe she thinks you aren't home? I hope you two get to spend time with each other.