Self Obsessed or Self Centered?

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My boyfriend has a way of saying everything. Whenever we are having a conversation, he responds with such an impact as if he wants to make a point. Ya, many of the times he is right with his thoughts and beliefs. He is a great analyst for most of the time in a situational crises. And as a matter of fact, his observations and remarks proves to be true too at times. However, this has made him to be more like a "Whatever I am thinking is right" type of man. He finds it hard to accept others thinking. He has his own standards set. If one dont fall in that line, he makes such impactful statements that he dont regard others opinion. I have calmly tried to make him explain that each person is different. try acknowledge their opinion too. try to see and understand their point of view too. but he felt offended. he says that he never knew he will have to think twice before conversing with his Girlfriend. he thought he could be flawless and i wont judge him. he should have the freedom to speak without thinking to me at least. I replied, I m not judging you, rather am just making a point that sometimes listen to others too. try to understand others point of view too. he isnt wrong, but others can also be not wrong. i just tried to make him explain. But he felt offended and now he is upset with me.