House to Myself

@paigea (36318)
Canada
August 20, 2016 11:34am CST
I have the house to myself for a couple of hours. My husband and I pretty much go about our own day anyway so I am not sure why having the house to myself seems like a treat. There are some things that are just easier to do when I am home alone. I can wash the floors and no one will walk on them while they are wet. I can empty out a cupboard or a closet and sort through without anyone complaining about the mess. I can take a long soak in the tub and read a magazine. I can myLot without anyone asking, "What are you doing on there?" Now to choose what to do for the next couple of hours. I think the floors need me the most! Is it a treat to get the house to yourself?
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• United States
20 Aug 16
Having the house to myself is a rare occurrence so I usually try to relax and little, maybe listen to some music louder than when other people are home or catch up on some tv shows that no one else likes to watch. I try not to waste that precious time by cleaning
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
20 Aug 16
You have a point about that!
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• Midland, Michigan
24 Aug 16
It used to be but it doesn't matter so much anymore. Rarely am I here much to enjoy being home alone anyway. It only happens when it rains and that will happen more now that fall is closer but whether I'm home alone or not won't change my plans too much.
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• Midland, Michigan
25 Aug 16
@paigea I can't wash the floors when he's home, nor can I make many calls for our business as he tends to nap in the living room when I want to begin those. But, otherwise, I can tackle other things since he mostly hangs out at his computer in the extra bedroom.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
25 Aug 16
@MarshaMusselman washing the floors while he is out is definitely easier. And as for the rest, he is just up and down, in and out. lol sometimes he is being productive but other time he is just puttering around. I do the same but I don't bother myself. lol
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
25 Aug 16
I find my husband interrupts what I'm doing a lot.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Aug 16
lol Yes it is but as the wife of a retiree, it is not something I get often
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
26 Aug 16
@paigea I retired early 6 years ago and he retired 3 years ago. I had it good for 3 years lol
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
26 Aug 16
My husband is retired as well. I work so he gets the house to himself!
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
26 Aug 16
@BelleStarr I might never retire. I work part time; it's great.
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@jhechorain (1198)
• Susanville, California
1 Sep 16
Well not much any more for me. Sometimes it is but lately I have the house to myself a lot. I understand the need and feeling of freedom though for sure.
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• Susanville, California
1 Sep 16
That's good, balance is important.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
1 Sep 16
I am so glad hockey has started. I get some time to myself every day now, so a nice balance.
• United States
20 Aug 16
I get it to myself a lot - not that he's far - usually just out in the yard working or in the hammock napping!
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• United States
21 Aug 16
@paigea No door slamming here, unless I do it.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
@AbbyGreenhill Our doors are on springs, they just close loudly as he goes in and out.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
My husband is so busy! He is in and out in and out. TV blaring and door slamming shut.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
22 Aug 16
Yes, I always have loved it - those few hours of peace and like you said- no one noticing what you're doing. I suppose i wouldn't like it if it was for always--- but then again, maybe I would---ha!
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
I think I would like it for part of every day.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
23 Aug 16
@paigea Hah! I know I would----especially to have peace and quiet to write, etc.
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@shaggin (72023)
• United States
25 Aug 16
I suppose sometimes it is for situations like you write. Most the time I prefer to have my children around though! I am lonely without them.
@shaggin (72023)
• United States
25 Aug 16
@paigea awww
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
25 Aug 16
I used to look forward to a little peace when my children were young, but I never seemed to put that time to good use and I would start to miss them pretty quickly.
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
21 Aug 16
For me it is. It's even nice when the kids are at daycare and it's just my husband and I. Although it is to be home by myself. I love my family, but it's nice to get the house to myself.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
21 Aug 16
@paigea it sure is.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
I love my husband and I love when family visit. But some quiet now and then is a treat.
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@crossbones27 (49344)
• Mojave, California
21 Aug 16
I think what you are saying is we all need some alone time. I feel ya.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
I do, that is for sure.
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
20 Aug 16
I like being alone. I had a nice week alone when my girlfriend went to visit with her sister. I was able to get a lot more done than if she was around. Nothing against her mind you. But we all need alone time.
@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
21 Aug 16
@paigea We all do. And I had some awesome alone time. My girlfriend spent a week with her sister and I had the entire place to myself. Wow. It felt great. But I did miss her.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
Yes, I am one who needs my alone time.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
@inertia4 I start to miss my husband when he is gone for several hours. He has rarely gone away overnight. I go away a lot more and so he gets the house to himself!
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@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
22 Aug 16
I'm always home alone during the day throughout the week while my brother is at work. I do have myLot to keep me company.
@simone10 (54187)
• Louisville, Kentucky
24 Aug 16
@paigea It can get boring to be home all week by yourself. I don't have any transportation so I have to stay home.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
25 Aug 16
@simone10 I might get tired of that.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
I think I would like that!
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@Tampa_girl7 (50145)
• United States
30 Aug 16
I agree that having the house to myself can be a treat.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
30 Aug 16
I enjoy it
@Shiva49 (26649)
• Singapore
1 Sep 16
We all need a change from the routine! Enjoy the moments - siva
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
1 Sep 16
Enjoying each moment is important.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
20 Aug 16
I to do prefer to wash the floors when hubby is out,this way,he does not walk allover the place i just cleaned
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
20 Aug 16
That is what I think I will do.
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@paigea (36318)
• Canada
20 Aug 16
@miniam now suddenly I have to go out and go do a job! At least I washed one floor and got one laundry load done and hung outside.
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@miniam (9154)
• Bern, Switzerland
20 Aug 16
@paigea Enjoy the house and doing chores
@AmbiePam (92096)
• United States
1 Sep 16
It certainly was when I lived with my family! My sister recently got the house to herself overnight. She couldn't believe how much sleep she got. With no husband or daughter there was no one to bug her into wakefulness.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
1 Sep 16
that sounds like it was a real treat!
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Aug 16
it used to be but these days it is just lonely. guess its my age. can't usually do much cleaning, etc.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
30 Aug 16
One needs company too.
@velvet53 (22534)
• Palisade, Colorado
26 Aug 16
I don't really have to deal with that as I am staying with my son and his fiance. They are usually sleeping when I am up so it works out great.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
26 Aug 16
Sounds like a good set up.
@cacay1 (83334)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
25 Aug 16
Very activities, sort of exercise of the body and mind.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
25 Aug 16
That sounds relaxing?
4 Sep 16
Always hihihi. I like it when i used to have the to myself.it's like freedom lol
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
4 Sep 16
Exactly. Even though I am free to do as I please even when hubby is home. Still like that alone time.
@5thHouse (1678)
• Sheffield, England
4 Sep 16
Absolutely! My husband has gone on a conference until Wednesday and I'm enjoying a bit of time to myself, not that I don't miss him when he's away.
@paigea (36318)
• Canada
4 Sep 16
Do you get more done, or do you just relax?