Sometimes You Have To Show Up Your Bad Side

By Tokz
@ilocosboy (45156)
Philippines
August 22, 2016 3:27am CST
There is nothing wrong to be always a good boy, but I see remorse sometimes you show up your bad side also. You don't need to always smiling even your mind is already boiling 100 degrees. You don't always to be cool when you are heating up. If you need to be monster in a while, be that. If you need to shout, do it. Of course its not your nature to be like that because people known you as good and kind. Its not you to be yelling and screaming. Being kind is a good trait but sometimes bringing out bad side is normal.
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14 responses
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
We can't be nice everyday and every time hehe
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
that is very true, in tagalog we have a saying "kapag puno na ang salop" or means "the the can is full"
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@Mich1987 and this is not we want to happen.
@Mich1987 (160)
• San Jose, California
22 Aug 16
That is correct if we're too nice we'll be abused
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@skysnap (20153)
22 Aug 16
yes it's hard to be good all the time.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
that is when our dark side come out.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
Yes, i do show my bad side when i cannot control the anger in me over something bad done to me .
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@Bluedoll But why can't you imagine . Maybe you think that this face of mine is so kind all throughout .
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
@SIMPLYD I've noticed in your writing there isn't a lot of the angry witch of the.. trying to remember what direction now on the yellow brick road ...at least haven't come across it yet.
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
Something must be wrong with my imagination. I can't imagine this at all.
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22 Aug 16
Yes! I Could not agree more. Right now I want to slap someone ten times on each cheek lol
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22 Aug 16
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
Every time I hear this word, I often say "relax". Slap em... just once, he he.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
Yes, letting the steam out will tell them not to mess with you, or else!
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
@ilocosboy who is backing off eh???
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
haha, this is a warning.
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@Bluedoll ... or else better back off he he
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
I think that is what others call being true to yourself, like show what you truly feel and not mask it behind the smiles. But then behind those smiles lies the dark, awful side.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
That only means we all have a little dark side which sometimes come out depending on the situation.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@Yadah04 that make us legit to be angry sometimes.
@Yadah04 (3363)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
@ilocosboy exactly. We are just but humans anyway.
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@allen0187 (58582)
• Philippines
23 Aug 16
'Yes... yes... yes! Let the hate flow!' ... said Emperor Palpatine to Anakin Skywalker!
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Aug 16
In this world, people respects people who are not too good and not too bad. The negative side of your goodness, earns your that much needed respect and gives a reason to understand you much better. Being good to everyone is a trait deemed a 'weakness' and someone might be tempted to exploit it for personal gain. If one needs to live an almost perfect life with other people, be minimal to anger but exploit it when you believe that is the only way to make someone change his mind towards you.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
It think that is what we are, in yin yang, the white side will always have the dot of black which is the dark side. Dark side is recognize in our but we not just let this darkness will rule us.
@1creekgirl (41447)
• United States
22 Aug 16
In the Bible there's a verse that says there's a time for everything under heaven. But we also need to remember the Golden Rule that Jesus taught...treat others like we want to be treated.
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
Such a good point to remember Ma'am Vicki, so I think I'm for the second rule so that I may give good bread so I receive good bread also.
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@Shiva49 (26686)
• Singapore
22 Aug 16
I am myself in the way I behave and I am a calm person. However I know who to trust and who to avoid. When we are upfront people can judge us how we will react - siva
@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
22 Aug 16
yeah, some people don't improve until we show our bad side
@Mich1987 (160)
• San Jose, California
22 Aug 16
We need to decide to whom we should nice or not.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
We should decide but sometimes we cannot wait that moment of decision.
• Delhi, India
22 Aug 16
yes sometime also show bad side
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
its all part of us, being a person.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
It is all a part of life. There are going to be times when you are angry and when you melt down. That only makes you human. It would be great if you could be happy all the time but that is not realistically possible.
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
That is the good reason, because we are just human.
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