Some Friends Don’t Listen

real friends
@Shavkat (140118)
Philippines
September 20, 2016 8:27am CST
I have this sentiment to some of my friends. Whenever there is a dilemma, they pretend as good listener; in fact, it is not. For some reason, I was so grateful to one of my friends outside myLot in introducing this site. I had the chance to whisper my problems out here and get some advice from myLotters. It really eased up my troubled souls. Image Credit: pixabay.com
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I thought you wrote about Delima. I misread the tag. lol
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
Rama krishna
@raki369 (1025)
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20 Sep 16
I too have some friends like this.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
It is heartbreaking sometimes.
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amnabas
@amnabas (14681)
• Karachi, Pakistan
20 Sep 16
Yes sharing here is sometimes stress relieving.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I felt so stress free after knowing the opinions of others here.
Thelma
@thelme55 (77164)
• Germany
20 Sep 16
Yes, Mylot has become our secret refuge.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I agree. We can't say things straight to concern people.
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emelsmarie
@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
21 Sep 16
Mostly, those kind of people are not genuine. They only want to be with you during happy days, but when they seem to sense that you're having problems, they try to isolate themselves from you. If not, pretend to act concern like you said. I just wish you can find real good friends. It's seldom to find those kinds. Maybe only a few but they sure are worth it.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
22 Sep 16
It is really rare to find true friends nowadays. I had some loyal friends but they were so detached lately. Perhaps they are busy on their lives.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
22 Sep 16
@EMbakes I am doing it lately. I just work alone in my own world.
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emelsmarie
@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
22 Sep 16
@Shavkat Most of the time, we always find ourselves doing things alone whenever we age.
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Cool
@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
20 Sep 16
But they want you to listen to their problems.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
21 Sep 16
Exactly. They appeared to be user-friendly.
Sky
@skysnap (20153)
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20 Sep 16
Yes some of the times friends just don't understand.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I totally agree. Sometimes they think that we in another dimensions.
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Sue H.
@CinnamonGrl (7086)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
20 Sep 16
I think myLot is a good place to release stress. Another thing is, users have time to think about replies before typing. With friends offline, it's a more immediate communication and we don't always get it right.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I agree. I felt dissatisfied sometimes with offline friends suggestions.
Kimberley
@mom210 (9115)
• United States
20 Sep 16
It is very nice to be able to put a problem out there and just get advice from people that are uninvolved.
s sivasubrahmanyam
@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
20 Sep 16
oh..very nice..How did it happen?
Shavkat
@Shavkat (140118)
• Philippines
20 Sep 16
I don't have any idea.
Shubhu
@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
21 Sep 16
Yeah many a times they actually don't listen up and tend to take things the other way.
rachz_kisses
@rachz_kisses (3838)
• Philippines
21 Sep 16
Well, I don't talk my problems to all of my friends. Some will pretend to hear you but at the back of their mind they're already judging you. Sad reality.