Would You Allow Your Mother To Get Married Again?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (139828)
Philippines
September 23, 2016 8:10pm CST
My father died more than years now. I was thinking if my mom will find another love, will I allow her? For me, I think it is fine for her to find a new relationship and eventually, get married. Some of my relatives are arguing about this concern. However, my mother never thought of finding another man in her life. But I console her that she can do it and time change. If ever it happens, I will let happiness be in her life.
Old folks in my country are still conservative with this kind of issue. They can’t even accept the fact that churches allow annulment in my country. For them, it is not morally accepted. What do you think? Is it an issue?
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Janet, I had the same reaction.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
24 Sep 16
I think if your mother chooses so then she should be happy. When my dad passed away my mom didn't want no other. She always said she had the best with my dad and no other man could compare. Whatever she chooses to do is her choice and it is nice that you are supportive of her decision. You are good son.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
24 Sep 16
@Shavkat she may be content just the way things are now
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
25 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe I think she is, my friend.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
24 Sep 16
In the United States, we have no say over what our parents do. A widow or widower could easily get married without the permission of their children.
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@thelme55 (76940)
• Germany
24 Sep 16
I am glad that you are an openminded person and that you allow your mother to get married again. It is hard for a woman to live in the Philippnes because of double morality. Your relatives should think about the happiness of your mother than argueing about your mothers adult life. She is entitled to marry again whatever you and her relatives think about it. But watch her choose the man, he might be a drinker or something bad. You are there to support your mother. Happy weekend!
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@marguicha (222844)
• Chile
24 Sep 16
As I see it, even the word "allow" does not belong to my culture. I´d say, how dare my children have a say in what I do!
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
24 Sep 16
I can understand that , this culture is prevalent in India too. But things are opening up and if people find happiness again who are we to get in their way.
You are a good son:)
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Your mother is lucky to have you. 
@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
25 Sep 16
If only your mom is willing enough for a marriage then yes indeed she should be arranged a marriage cause life is better off when you have the support of one who understands you better and truely only a husband knows his wife better than anyone
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
25 Sep 16
@Shavkat thats like a good mature son, even if she doesn't plan such and she is ready to mingle I wouldn't mind it
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@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
24 Sep 16
Definitely. It may work out better for people of your age. But, not for Old people., They can move on with their life just living in the memories of their beloved partner. That is enough. What all you can do is not to raise such issues in front of her.. If not, she may feel very bad about you and may event desert you.
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@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
24 Sep 16
I think it is only fair to her after all her contributions to be able to go into a new relationship and eventually get married. 
@RADICAL11 (189)
• Delhi, India
24 Sep 16
How can one regulate mum's decision making?
How is this authority justified?
Why should Mum not start afresh?
Well, I am really hurt to observe that a child wants to regulate mum's life and her wishes and desires.
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