Do you let him kiss you in front of your family?

@Ayuriny (5144)

Denpasar, Indonesia

October 13, 2016 7:29am CST

That's my question. I won't never let my bf kiss me in front of my family though he indicates so. Even if he just kisses me on the forehead, I would definately stop him. In my family, kissing is considered taboo. How about you?

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@AutumnSnow (4583)

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13 Oct 16

Before I got married in my younger days I never did in front of my grandparents, my grandparents are the ones that raised me. I just always felt strange to do so.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Yeah, sometimes the elder is being stodgy. So now after you got married, you don't need to feel uneasy anymore for doing so.

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@zweeb82 (5653)

• Malaysia

13 Oct 16

@Ayuriny Yay!~ I learn a new word today - stodgy, lol!~

All I can say is that due to Hollywood and media and all those kind of stuff, a lot of moral values have been diluted. Not trying to be holier than thou or self-righteous, just stating my observation which I believe is a fact

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

@zweeb82 Very true. Those are all facts, I guess.

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@Shavkat (140118)

• Philippines

13 Oct 16

For some Asian countries, it is not acceptable.

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@Shavkat (140118)

• Philippines

15 Oct 16

@Ayuriny In some places, they can do it.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

I think it relates to the tradition of each country's. Then, how about in your country?

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@zweeb82 (5653)

• Malaysia

13 Oct 16

Aiks!~ Definitely NO WAY!!!! I have no problems with others making their choice with Adam & Steve, but I'm one here Adam & Eve so no guy's gonna kiss me, lol!~

Well, of course except my son

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@zweeb82 (5653)

• Malaysia

13 Oct 16

@Ayuriny Huh? Did I mention anywhere I protect myself from guys? Shh...in fact I protect myself from everyone

Lol!~

I protect myself from harm, that's all

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Hahaha... Nobody cares of Adam & Steve! But why do you protect yourself from guys? ....

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Hmmm...then you're over protected.

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@infatuatedbby (94914)

• United States

13 Oct 16

Nope. We show no affection. Just I link his arm when we go walk but that's it.

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@infatuatedbby (94914)

• United States

13 Oct 16

@Ayuriny That is the only thing I feel comfortable doing

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

That's good. But I'm worse than you cause I even never link my bf's arm in front of my family. Lol

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

@infatuatedbby Yes, I think it's acceptable, too .

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@alexjessi (1033)

• Hanoi, Vietnam

14 Oct 16

I don't have boyfriend but my answer is Nope if I have parents and I don't have parents so my answer is Yep!! LOL

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

14 Oct 16

Lol,.... Me too. Never do so if there's my mom in front of me.

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@CaseyRoss9966 (4056)

• United States

13 Oct 16

My boyfriend and I kiss in front of my parents and siblings because they just don't care. Kissing isn't that big of a deal when you have been dating for almost 4 years. As long as we aren't making out and trying to hump each other in front of them then they could careless. I kiss him a lot when they come up to visit me or I am leaving home from breaks because I know it will be awhile before I see him again. None of us, but my parents, kiss our love ones in front of my grandmother though because she thinks it is something we shouldn't do at all until we get married.

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@infatuatedbby (94914)

• United States

13 Oct 16

@Ayuriny I have been dating my boyfriend 9 years and have never kissed infront of my parents. I feel weird. Same with my sister the only time my parents' saw them kiss was at their wedding after 10 years of dating.

@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

My family is rather assertive about this case. They would blame me if I let my bf do so. Your grandmother seems a bit assertive too. ...

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@youless (112586)

• Guangzhou, China

14 Oct 16

I will not mind it. But the fact is I think we are shy people, so he has never kissed me in public except in our wedding day

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

14 Oct 16

Yes, you're right. We are just kind of shy people.

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@IlijaMarkovski (1056)

• Australia

13 Oct 16

Kissing is perfectly normal, for most families but different families have different ways of doing things.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

I agree on that. My family has its own ways of doing something.

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@skysnap (20153)

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13 Oct 16

haha why it is taboo is beyond me.

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@skysnap (20153)

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13 Oct 16

@Ayuriny well in india people are conservative too. in fact my gf was very conservative. she studied postgraduate level but she ended being housewife.. she never liked kissing in public.. so i can understand people can be conservative.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

@skysnap She's just like me.

@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Yup. Here we are rather conservative.

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@else34 (13515)

• New Delhi, India

13 Oct 16

@Ayuriny,Kissing infront of family members is unacceptable in my country,but yes,I remember the day when my sister's boyfriend suddenly hugged her tightly and kissed her infront of me.My sister was embarrassed.

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@else34 (13515)

• New Delhi, India

14 Oct 16

@AyurinyEmbarrassed I just turned my face and left the room.What else could I do?

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

14 Oct 16

@else34 Yes, if I were you, I would also be speechless and chose to leave the room.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Yes, it's unacceptable here too. I understand what was your sister feeling at that time. She must feel uneasy. But, what was your reaction to them?

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@thelme55 (77165)

• Germany

14 Oct 16

Different countries have different customs and traditions. I live in Europe most of the time and it's normal to show affection in front of the parents. Well, in Germany that is.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

14 Oct 16

Yes, I agree that cultures and traditions play important role here in this case.

@princemaxp (2027)

• Bhubaneshwar, India

21 Oct 16

I still have to find someone to have some opinion on this subject........

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

21 Oct 16

I hope you'll find her soon.

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@XinfulThotz (4140)

• Singapore, Singapore

14 Oct 16

kissing is considered taboo? wow. my bf can kiss me in front of my family. but of course "peck" kind. nothing like long kisses or french kisses...

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

14 Oct 16

Yes, for my family. Well, so you and your family are fine with that?

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@XinfulThotz (4140)

• Singapore, Singapore

14 Oct 16

@Ayuriny they are used to it.

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@sandeep468 (197)

• India

15 Oct 16

YUP!

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

15 Oct 16

Meaning that you let her kiss you in front of your family??

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@sandeep468 (197)

• India

15 Oct 16

@Ayuriny no i am shy guy! can not do that in front of family

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

15 Oct 16

@sandeep468 Same with me. ....Lol

@zebra2222 (5268)

• United States

13 Oct 16

It's okay to do it here. However, there is a point where showing affection in public should not go over the line.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Yeah, I think it depends so much on one's culture and family tradition. Here it is considered to overstep the border.

@JESSY3236 (20041)

• United States

13 Oct 16

no. I wouldn't. My family is the same way.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Glad that some family still consider the rules of modesty.

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@ms1864 (6885)

• Bangalore, India

13 Oct 16

It's a no no for me too if i was ever in that place.

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@Ayuriny (5144)

• Denpasar, Indonesia

13 Oct 16

Yup. It's a big no no for me as well.

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@KityCat (7735)

• India

7 Jun 20

I don't know about it , some families think its okay between lovers , while some families don't accept it