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I Held Her Hand and She Died

@akalinus (43196)

United States

November 30, 2016 10:52am CST

My son's girlfriend was visiting yesterday. She went for a walk. She called my son and said she fell. He ran and got her up. He said he would take her to the hospital. She had to go to the ladies room first. She fell in the bathroom. By then, I was on the scene. I held her hand and told her it would be alright. The paramedics arrived and said she had passed. Then the sheriff came to investigate. Then the Medical Examiner. After that, they took her away. I am devastated beyond understanding. She had multiple health problems. I know God has a purpose for everything but she was only 33.

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@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

30 Nov 16

oh my I am so sorry to hear this. I can't even imagine having to go through that. I am glad you were there for her in those last moments. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. My sincerest sympathy to you son and all those who loved her.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

I am glad too. She was making noises while I was talking to her. Then I could not find her pulse.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

@Happy2BeMe We are all devastated. We love her.

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@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

30 Nov 16

@akalinus your poor son must be devastated. Sad to lose somebody so young.

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@LovingMyBabies (85288)

• Valdosta, Georgia

30 Nov 16

Oh my goodness I am so sorry. =( I will be praying for comfort for you, your son and her family as well.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

Thank you so much.

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@buenavida (9984)

• Sweden

30 Nov 16

May the God of all comfort give you strength and remind of the hope we have for resurrection for our loved ones..

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

Thank you, that means a lot to me.

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@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

30 Nov 16

Oh my, what a terrible turn of events! My thoughts and prayers are with you, your son and all concerned. So sorry! May God give you all the comfort you need!

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

Thank you.

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@DesirousDreamer (34776)

• Peoria, Arizona

30 Nov 16

My condolences to everyone. This is very sad. I'm very sorry.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

Thank you. It is hard to believe it happened. It feels like a bad dream.

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• Jamaica

30 Nov 16

Very sad news, I pray that God will take your family through this unfortunate moment.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

Thank you, Karrella.

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@jaboUK (64354)

• United Kingdom

30 Nov 16

What an awful thing to have happened. Condolences to your son, and of course to you too.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

1 Dec 16

Thank you.

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

30 Nov 16

OMG! Hon, I am so sorry! I.... am honestly at a loss for words. (Any other time that would be funny! Right now, I just want to reach out and hold you...

)

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@DaddyEvil (137259)

• United States

30 Nov 16

@akalinus It never makes any sense, hon... Even with health problems, 33 is very young to have passed away so suddenly like that. (I wish I could take that memory from you, Dearheart...

I will keep you and your son in my thoughts... (As if you aren't there most of the time, anyway...) SMH!

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

@DaddyEvil Thanks @DE.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

It does not make any sense. This should not be happening.

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@Inlemay (17713)

• South Africa

1 Dec 16

that is a very tragic and sad say - I do hope they find the reason and you can get closure on her passing. My thoughts are with you. Very sad

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

1 Dec 16

Thank you.

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@xFiacre (13023)

• Ireland

30 Nov 16

@akalinus That's dreadful for you And your son. I'm afraid there are no answers to the question 'Why?'

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

She had many health problems. They called her doctors and had a long conversation.

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Michael Liriano

@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)

• West Haven, Connecticut

30 Nov 16

Thats very sad, 33 years old is a very young age and it must of been a very serious fall for it to be fatal, my condolences!

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

The fall did not kill her. It came from other problems. She fell because she was dizzy. She has been to the emergency room many times in the last few months. Thanks for your condolences.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

30 Nov 16

@BACONSTRIPSXXX Thank you so much.

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Michael Liriano

@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)

• West Haven, Connecticut

30 Nov 16

@akalinus Its soo sad, I hope your son can find peace and closure... My prayers are with you guys

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@JudyEv (340019)

• Rockingham, Australia

1 Dec 16

I am so, so sorry. Although of little consolation, at least she didn't die alone. Sending prayers to all concerned.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

1 Dec 16

It is not much consolation but glad she had someone there.

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• Las Vegas, Nevada

1 Dec 16

What a devastating event. I'm so sorry for your loss and for your son.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

2 Dec 16

Thank you. It is a huge loss and so sudden.

Annastasiaaaaaa

@annastasiaaaaaa (727)

• Philippines

10 Dec 16

This is so heartbreaking! I am very sorry about your loss.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

11 Dec 16

Thank you. I am having a very hard time dealing with it.

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Annastasiaaaaaa

@annastasiaaaaaa (727)

• Philippines

11 Dec 16

@akalinus I hope you'll get by soon! Pray.

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@bunnybon7 (50973)

• Holiday, Florida

6 Dec 16

oh so sorry. that is just horrible. i can't imagine such a nightmare. even if you had not known her it would be terrible. i hope you are getting better with it now. what did they say went wrong?

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

6 Dec 16

It was a pulmonary embolism. No one can predict something like that.

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@BelleStarr (61102)

• United States

6 Dec 16

I am so sorry to hear that, I am glad that you were with her though so that she didn't pass over alone.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

6 Dec 16

Yeah, I am too. I kept calling her name and she would make a noise each time. She was trying to respond, she knew I was there.

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crazyhorseladycx

@crazyhorseladycx (39509)

• United States

1 Dec 16

my deepest condolences! such's most diff'cult to e'en comprehend 'n my heart goes out to all. i hope that comfort can be taken that she's no longer sufferin' ~ but 'nstead 'tis rejoicin' in His light.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

2 Dec 16

Yes, I believe she is. She is a believer.

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@fishtiger58 (29820)

• Momence, Illinois

1 Dec 16

Oh that is so sad and she was so young. My condolences to your son, you, and her family.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

2 Dec 16

Thank you. Yes, she was young. We will always love her.

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@Julie555 (4155)

• Russian Federation

1 Dec 16

So young

.So unfair .My sincere condolences.

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

2 Dec 16

Thank you. It is unfair but she did have a lot of health problems. Those are over now.

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Robin Lightell-Pearson

@RonbinRene (66)

• Carriere, Mississippi

1 Dec 16

Payers go out to your son and her and your family. The holidays will never be the same. In am very sorry

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@akalinus (43196)

• United States

1 Dec 16

Thank you so much! That is a lovely photo, too.

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Robin Lightell-Pearson

@RonbinRene (66)

• Carriere, Mississippi

1 Dec 16

@akalinus your very welcome dear. Payers and hugs for you