Real men
By bong
@deadreak (653)
Dagupan City, Philippines
December 5, 2016 8:41am CST
Being tough is a sign of being a real men, at home you must be the ruler and all of your word must be obeyed. A lot of time in working out to have a good body building. They drink alcohol and smoke.
Well for me i'll do the chores in our home, I wash clothes its either using washing machine or not, cook food for the lunch and dinner, wash the dishes and house cleaning.And even going to market to buy something to cook. And most of the time bathing my young son. I don not complaint for that and besides i enjoyed doing those things.
And for sure I spend quality time for my wife and son most of the time. I go to church every Sunday as a matter of fact I am a member of worship team at the church.
Sometimes I think about being real men, Am i tough? do I have good body to show as a men? I don't smoke or even drink beers. Well i can say I'm not.
I cry if needed.....
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@mommymonky (325)
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5 Dec 16
It's the heart that makes a good man. Would you rather be a "real man" or a "good man"? A real man takes care of their family, so you got it covered.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 Dec 16
Being a real man has nothing to do with being tough. Being a real man means taking care of your family, loving your family, showing your emotions when needed, being humble, being the support system for your wife, loving the Lord and putting Him first-all of those things are what shows a real man. =)
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
6 Dec 16
You're a wonderful man and care for your family (son/wife) Nothing wrong with that!
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@RiggsMortis (86)
• Canada
5 Dec 16
There is no such thing as a real man or a real woman. You are a man and feel like a man, therefore you are a man. The fact that you do not let that stop you from doing things that are typically forced onto women makes you a bigger man than those who claim to be "real men" because they have big muscles and are strong. You have a gentle heart and are more human than any of them will ever be.
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@RiggsMortis (86)
• Canada
5 Dec 16
@deadreak You're very welcome. As an individual who has to prove their masculinity every day, I can understand the struggles you must go through.
@1creekgirl (41752)
• United States
6 Dec 16
You had me concerned with that first paragraph! Glad I kept reading. You really do know how to be a real man and I'm sure you're a blessing to your wife and children.
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@IreneVincent (15962)
• United States
6 Dec 16
You sound like a wonderful man. A wonderful husband and father. Being kind and loving is more important than being tough, but I'm sure you could be tough if you needed to protect your family from harm.
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@IreneVincent (15962)
• United States
6 Dec 16
@deadreak Not necessary to be a pro fighter, but you look strong enough to defend your family if it became necessary.
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@deadreak (653)
• Dagupan City, Philippines
6 Dec 16
@IreneVincent ok got it, thank you that's a good encouragement.
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@alexjessi (1033)
• Hanoi, Vietnam
18 Jul 18
Good men! You are like a housewife 
#alexjessi
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@alexjessi (1033)
• Hanoi, Vietnam
18 Jul 18
@deadreak hmm... super level
#alexjessi
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@deadreak (653)
• Dagupan City, Philippines
18 Jul 18
@alexjessi haha really, thank you.. so sweet
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