What are you thoughts about growing older?

@ramapo17 (30441)
Melbourne, Florida
December 14, 2016 5:27pm CST
As we go through life we are usually prepared for the future. So far I have been through a youngster, a teenager, a wife, mother, grandmother and now a senior. Sometimes I wonder what the next chapter is going to be like. Will I be healthy for a long time, a grumpy old woman or a swinging senior. I prefer that last one. Have you given any thoughts to what your future years will be like?
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@LadyDuck (471482)
• Switzerland
15 Dec 16
No, I prefer not to think at the future, anyway there is nothing we can do. I am already a senior, I can only hope to stay healthy.
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@LadyDuck (471482)
• Switzerland
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 Money is important, because we cannot live without money, but health is the most important thing of all.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
You and me both Anna.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@LadyDuck Absolutely right. Without good health, why worry about money?
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
I'm just glad to have been given the opportunity to grow old - a lot of people are denied that.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 That goes for me too and I'm 77 - that's not old, is it?
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@jaboUK No, it is not old. We are only as old as we feel but sometimes I feel twice as old as I really am. Haha.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@jaboUK You and me both. I am 74 and luckily only have a few issues and aches and pains but nothing I cannot deal with. Most of the time I think I am still a lot younger than I am.
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@allknowing (136595)
• India
14 Dec 16
I am already a senior and barringr those aches and pains while getting up I have no issues. I have enough on my plate to keep me happily occupied.
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@allknowing (136595)
• India
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 Seniors should shift from their normal hectic activity and go for something what they can handle with ease.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@allknowing You are so right. Little aches and pains are part of growing older.
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@JudyEv (340277)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Dec 16
I've given plenty of thought to it but haven't come up with any answers. To a degree, you have to take what comes. :)
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
That is true but the people that just sit home and don't do anything should get up and get out. There is so much to do at all ages.
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
14 Dec 16
I'm pretty sure they're going to suck in a big way unless I get a better paid job.
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
15 Dec 16
@CoralLevang I don't think so. my worries are purely financial...so if I get a better job now at 40 I will be able to save more for my retirement and live in some comfort. Living on a very low fixed income as a pensioner is not my idea of fun
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@Mike197602 (15505)
• United Kingdom
15 Dec 16
@CoralLevang I'd rather do something about it now, with 25 years until retirement, than wait until there is little I can do. Worst thing for me was a decade ago I was all set financially and if I hadn't made some massive blunders I'd not have these worries now...you live and learn I suppose.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@CoralLevang You are right here. I think whatever we make, we will always think it is not enough.
@Kandae11 (55040)
15 Dec 16
Reaching a senior age is a blessing because no one really knows when it is their time to go. Young or old , life can be snuffed out in the blink of an eye. So I take it one day at a time, try to eat healthy and make the most of every day.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
You are right @Kandae. We have no idea when it is our turn to leave this world and things can happen from minute to minute.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
15 Dec 16
I try not to think about what is coming next and just hope that it does.
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• Philippines
14 Dec 16
As a parent... i am hoping for a better future for my son. If only i could be with him longer to guide him and to be present in every good and bad and mistakes and heartbreaks and succes of his life...
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• Philippines
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 yes i understand.. i still can't grasp the thought of me letting go of my son. I don't even want him to grow up!! :(
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@therealmaryyy Haha, that is funny. How old is he?
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
14 Dec 16
Part of growing up is learning by ones mistakes. No one wants their mother around all the time and needs to experience life. That is how we all learned.
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
14 Dec 16
I will take it as it comes. I may try to get fitter as I am shocked how tiring looking after my Grandson is.
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@Jackalyn (7558)
• Oxford, England
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 He is four. We were born in different years but only a day apart.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@Jackalyn How old is your grandson?
@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@Jackalyn Aww, that is cute. I wish my grandsons were that age again as I had them a lot and we had so much fun. Now my youngest is 16 and my oldest is 20 and in 2nd year of college. They are both over 6 foot 2 inches. I feel like a shrimp next to them.
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• United States
15 Dec 16
I think I'm already living my future and it's OK.
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• United States
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 I try to LOL!!!
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
Enjoy every minute of it Abby.
• United States
16 Dec 16
i'd many thoughts 'n those got sidelined. i'd love to be a fiesty senior kickin' my heels 'p 'n ridin' off 'nto the sunset.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
17 Dec 16
@crazyhorseladycx It does sound great, doesn't it.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
15 Dec 16
I know mine won't be good because of my spinal injuries and COPD @ramapo17 . So for me, it's just a question of how long.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
@nanette64 I am sorry you have such serious issues. At least you have the strength to be on here. My prayers and good wishes are with you.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
17 Dec 16
@nanette64 I am glad to hear that.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
16 Dec 16
@ramapo17 Thank you; I'm a tough, old bird. LOL
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Dec 16
I'd like to be a swingin' senior, but I need to get this weight off if I even stand a chance of that. I'm working on it, though with this storm the Y will just need to wait until Monday.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
15 Dec 16
I take one day at a time. The mind is willing the body not so much.
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@ramapo17 (30441)
• Melbourne, Florida
15 Dec 16
I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes the body is okay but then there are days, not so good.
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@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
15 Dec 16
@ramapo17 I definitely have my moments. Put on my shirt throw out my back, wow really lol.
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• United States
16 Dec 16
the only thing i've been thinking about lately is how screwed up this country is,and at the rate we're going i'll never see retirement. my mom is enjoying that .03% SS raise she got that medicare took most of..gee,could they spare it?
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Dec 16
Depressing as health becomes a more threatening worry as the body begins the final decline while watching the dwindling sand in the hourglass and contemplating what might have been.
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@ms1864 (6885)
• Bangalore, India
15 Dec 16
I always hope to grow old with grace. Spread the love kinda person.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
15 Dec 16
I don't think much about the future, but i surely am enjoying getting old :)
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• United States Minor Outlying Islands
15 Dec 16
I choose to be a bride of Christ! We do have choices you know. On a daily basis we can choose to turn a bad day into a good day, just by choosing to be happy rather than sad.
@GinerNut (187)
• Barcelona, Spain
17 Dec 16
personally I'm not getting older. I'm getting BETTER lol