Does your Doctor listen to you

@amadeo (111938)
United States
January 17, 2017 3:23pm CST
Good evening.We are waiting for a wintry mix of weather soon. Do you know how to talk to your doctor?does he listen. How do you greet him went walking in his office. most doctors have a busy workload and just a few minutes to each patient. Are you getting the time and attention that you need? I always greet my doctor when walking in the office. Like you have lost some weight etc.family. I try to make a human connection. I do not accept this is from aging.BS Do not be afraid to speak up.Some doctors can misdiagnosed Taking test that you do not need. The most time with each patient is about 15 minutes. Do you try to get your message across?does he or she cut you off. These are some of the things been bothering me some. Maybe time to change Dr.many are not accepting new patients. This is my rant.How do you fare. photo is public domaine
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Jan 17
I'm planning to change doctors. Mine definitely does not listen to me.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@just4him I see.Good luck in finding one.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Jan 17
@amadeo I just need to find my DD-214 and head over to the VA Clinic and see about getting a new doctor there.
• United States
17 Jan 17
I am very lucky to have a doctor that not only listens to me but is willing to spend time without making me feel like he's rushing to the next appointment
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@Marilynda1225 another winner here.Great
• United States
17 Jan 17
He walks in the exam room and greets us. we start.there is no time limit. We talk and long as necessary.he doesn't overbook!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@AbbyGreenhill you are one of the lucky ones there.
• United States
17 Jan 17
@amadeo thanks....one benefit of small town living.
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Jan 17
Our doctors are the best at listening to us, spending time, and great at making us well. The ones we see are from Yale.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@DianneN great there Dianne.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@amadeo Yes, they are. We are so lucky.
@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jan 17
We both have doctors we trust at the moment. It can be hard to find a good doctor that's for sure.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@JudyEv they always say to change doctors after so many years.I cannot find a good one also
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jan 17
@amadeo I wouldn't change doctors unless I had a reason to.
18 Jan 17
Yes, my dr. always listen to me....
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@Amansaini good for you there.One of the lucky ones
19 Jan 17
Sir in India.... if the Dr. will not listen to people... then they will do PHD. in him only....
@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Jan 17
Mine just asked questions and said see you again in six months.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@jstory.Are you satisfied with this?
@Juliaacv (51020)
• Canada
18 Jan 17
My doctor doesn't even make eye contact with me, he just stares at the computer screen and taps away on the keyboard. He will make a few comments, but it isn't "doctoring" in the aspect that I would appreciate.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@Juliaacv Mine does this also.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
18 Jan 17
I belong to a good clinic, so I can't complain.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@marlina good for you there.I can see that
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@Tampa_girl7 (50270)
• United States
18 Jan 17
I have conversations with my doctor and consider him a friend. He has been my doctor for around twenty years.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
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@Poppylicious (11133)
18 Jan 17
I am quite lucky because my local surgery has a group of well established and friendly GPs. But I still don't like going! Over here a consultation is usually about ten minutes, but can take longer or shorter depending on the issue.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@Poppylicious good for you there
@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
18 Jan 17
I only get to see mine for about 15 minutes, but he does listen to me in case he has to adjust my meds.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@teamfreak16 good for you.This is the amount of time that I get also
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Jan 17
Sometimes I wonder if Doctors really do care about us. Like if they are here to make us well, why other is still ill? Why others still undergone Dialysis and still fights cancer? Hmmm. A lot of thoughts. Anyway, whatever it is. Get well soon.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@Bhem I see your point there.
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@Kandae11 (55035)
18 Jan 17
My doctor takes about 30 minutes with each patient and I sometimes feel a bit guilty when I know his waiting room is full. Then again , it happens to me too, we all have to be patient, wait our turn and be thankful that he takes time with his patients.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
18 Jan 17
@Kandee11 that is great.Guess he is not on the fast track.
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@pumpkinjam (8767)
• United Kingdom
19 Mar 17
I saw several doctors on several occasions before anyone actually listened to anything I had to say. I'd be fobbed off over and over again. It must have taken a good few years before one doctor finally sent me for tests. I still don't really have answers, although I do have some explanations for certain things and I know there is nothing seriously wrong with me. I gave up trying to get anyone to do anything about my back pain. I also saw a doctor when my son was a baby. I knew there was something wrong but the doctor, again, fobbed me off and assumed I was just being overly concerned as a first time mother. The doctor didn't seem to like it when I pointed out that this was, in fact, my second child. A few years later, my son was diagnosed (by someone else) with various issues (including the issue which I was, apparently being over protective about) and the same doctor is now really good with my son. It's as if she didn't believe me but accepted there was a problem when told by another professional. Then there are doctors like the one my mum had when my sisters and I were little. The one who said that if my mum thought we had chicken pox, then we probably did as she'd had more experience with it than the doctor. It's not much use trying to change my doctor. I see different ones at the same practice as it depends who's available. It's also almost impossible to get an appointment whichever practice I use.
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
17 Jan 17
My doctor listens to me. Every doctor I've ever had I have told them on the first appointment that I am not stupid, I know my body, and I expect them to respect my opinion, that I will come in having researched things before the consultation and that I want a say in my treatment. If not, tell me now and I'll go elsewhere. I've never had a doctor turn me away. The doctor I have now averages about 20 minutes per appointment, longer if the patient needs it. She is an osteopath, which is a regular medical doctor with extra time spent studying bones and muscles. Osteopaths take a holistic approach, meaning that they believe your life influences your health. They are concerned about everything and they listen well!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@dragon54u good .Well nice to hear this.
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@crossbones27 (49460)
• Mojave, California
17 Jan 17
I find they only listen half the time and it usually comes when you stroke their ego. lol
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@crossbones27 that is for sure.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
17 Jan 17
My doctor always listens and is never in a hurry, we are part of a family practice group which offers excellent service.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@BelleStarr great.Nice to hear good news
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• Bournemouth, England
19 Jan 17
In the UK we get 10 minutes with a doctor unless we specifically book a double slot. I have been with mine for maybe 15 years and I have to say she is a very good and sympathetic listener.
@NJChicaa (119649)
• United States
17 Jan 17
I saw a new doctor at the health clinic this year and he was wonderful. He was the one who diagnosed my sleep apnea. That was a big deal and has made a huge difference for me.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
17 Jan 17
@NJChicaa good for you there.
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