Reality Check

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
January 30, 2017 7:10pm CST
Some people tend to talk to you when their lonely, sad or angry. But when the time they are happy and complete and overwhelmed. They tend to forget you, as if they don't know you anymore.
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@miesse2 (226)
• Canada
31 Jan 17
I have people in my life like that, they only remember me when they need to borrow money!
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@thelme55 (77385)
• Germany
31 Jan 17
Yes, I have some people like that too @miesse2.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
Those are thoughtless people. I don't like them.
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@miesse2 (226)
• Canada
3 Feb 17
@JustBhem I'm a sucker though they are my family and I normally give them what they want so they keep doing it, I need to learn to say no even though they are family!
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@mayameen (126)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 17
It hurts when people act like this, there isn't much you can do as it only affects you. I guess you could look at it like you are the candle in the dark and they come to you because that's when they need you. Yep in an ideal world it would be nice to be wanted at all times but I am the same, I'm the one only ever needed to offload. I'm kinda getting used to it and try to think at least I'm worthy at some point lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
@mayameen I'm a sensitivr person as well and like nobody from my circle of friend notice it. I really don't like to be neglected after series of how are you, where are you and what are you doing in this hour. If a friend does it to me and she enjoy her life after her lonely times with others and not bothering about me, I feel like they just using me. Haha
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
I feel the same way too. When she needs me and spent hours chatting with her. I feel she needs me and I am pleased. And when she's back. She don't remember me anymore.
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@mayameen (126)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 17
@JustBhem It is hard I know - I am quite a sensitive person, its something I am working very hard on, letting go of these peoples hold on me. I am the same very often I think to myself why don't they bother. I am always the first to contact and see how people are as well, if I dont do it, I never hear from them. Actually right now some people I have decided not to contact - waiting to see if they bother... not yet!
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@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
31 Jan 17
I feel sad for people like this. It just means they are selfish and don't care about other people's feelings.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
Exactly. They are selfish. They only want you because they are bored at the moment.
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@franxav (13910)
• India
31 Jan 17
This is the way of the selfish world!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
And I don't like it.
@thelme55 (77385)
• Germany
31 Jan 17
Those are selfless people and only care about themselves. They need you when you are in trouble but they are gone when they have everything they need. I avoid those kind of friendship which is one sided.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
I just figured it out. Sad.
@Kandae11 (55523)
31 Jan 17
Very insensitive to the needs of others.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
Indeed.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
1 Feb 17
I guess that's because they think that you aren't lonely anymore and don't need comfort. The one comforted should now make effort to thank them so they will continue being there for that person.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
3 Feb 17
@JustBhem That is sad indeed that she has forgotten you now that she's happy. But I assure you, she will go back to you when she gets lonely.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Feb 17
@SIMPLYD And that's what I'm thinking that is why I posted this to my fb account as well. I hope she gets the message.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
3 Feb 17
But no thank you for the comfort when the time they need someone. And now she's happy, she forgotten me. Sad.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 17
It would be selfish for anyone to do that. Some people don't know how to appreciate others.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
I can tell that now. Sad.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
31 Jan 17
One - sided people. They don't deserve to be called as friends..
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
31 Jan 17
@JustBhem Forgive them for they do not know what they are doing.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
@magallon Haha. How I wish it's just like that. Not the other way around.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
I wonder why they still have the nerve to call me friends. sigh.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
31 Jan 17
world is like that !
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
And I think I need to accept it, slowly. sad.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
1 Feb 17
@JustBhem Yeah, we all have to. No option.
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31 Jan 17
This is the kind of people I try to avoid.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
Next time. I will do that.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
@TheInvisibleMan Yes. For the better.
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31 Jan 17
@JustBhem Yeah. You gonna feel so much better.