Reality Check
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
11 responses
@mayameen (126)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 17
It hurts when people act like this, there isn't much you can do as it only affects you. I guess you could look at it like you are the candle in the dark and they come to you because that's when they need you.
Yep in an ideal world it would be nice to be wanted at all times but I am the same, I'm the one only ever needed to offload. I'm kinda getting used to it and try to think at least I'm worthy at some point lol
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
@mayameen
I'm a sensitivr person as well and like nobody from my circle of friend notice it. I really don't like to be neglected after series of how are you, where are you and what are you doing in this hour. If a friend does it to me and she enjoy her life after her lonely times with others and not bothering about me, I feel like they just using me. Haha
@mayameen (126)
• United Kingdom
31 Jan 17
@JustBhem It is hard I know - I am quite a sensitive person, its something I am working very hard on, letting go of these peoples hold on me. I am the same very often I think to myself why don't they bother. I am always the first to contact and see how people are as well, if I dont do it, I never hear from them.
Actually right now some people I have decided not to contact - waiting to see if they bother... not yet!
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@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
31 Jan 17
I feel sad for people like this. It just means they are selfish and don't care about other people's feelings.
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@cahaya1983 (11116)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 17
It would be selfish for anyone to do that. Some people don't know how to appreciate others.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
31 Jan 17
@TheInvisibleMan
Yes. For the better.
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