“Don’t complain if it is your own doing”

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There are people who do some things that their body cannot tolerate or bear. They seem to challenge how far their body can endure the strength of strenuous activities. Take the case of my sister. She is 68 years old now but she looks more than 50; in fact, when we stand side by side, I am often thought of as her older sister because I am taller than her. But I am stronger, both physically and emotionally. She is the worrier while I am the warrior. This day, she cleaned the cabinet of my brother and put back the big boxes inside. She carried the big boxes alone without assistance from me and my son. I asked her if she needed help; she said ‘no’, so I just sat down in front of the television set. Then she cleaned some cups but she knows she has skin allergies to soap and dish-washing paste. Now, she is complaining. What I told her was; “You know you have joint pains and allergies, why do you still do those things not allowed for you to do?” She kept quiet. She admitted her mistake. How would you react if somebody complains about everything and it is his fault?