10 Months Player in the Relationship: Is It Acceptable?

@Shavkat (140129)
Philippines
February 26, 2017 9:47pm CST
A few days ago, I shared the love life of my dear friend. I find things are becoming worst in terms of relationship. She stopped ranting anymore to her partner. It seems she tried to hold back not to push away her boyfriend. However, there are some concerns that it doesn’t add up into their relationship. Here are red flags of my friend’s boyfriend: 1. When they started to be steady, the man was wearing a ring but claimed to be a friendship ring. 2. There is a certain time to call her boyfriend and needs to wait for this guy to call. 3. He doesn’t want to hear personal rants of her girlfriend. 4. Spend more time with friends and neglect calling her partner. 5. Stood up despite visiting her boyfriend in another city. I cannot say more but this what I had heard from a friend of mine. Is it a sign that the relationship is in trouble? I am anticipating that if this guy continued to do this habitual behavior. My friend will finally decide to end the unusual relationship. She had wasted 10 months for being in a relationship with a player. Any thoughts about it? Image Credit: pixabay.com
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10 responses
• United States
27 Feb 17
Yes those are big red signs especially. She should not waste anymore time with this man.
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• United States
27 Feb 17
@Shavkat I hope she is understandable to you and you care for her. She's in a position where it's hard to accept because they've been in a relationship for over ten months But having a ring for a men, and can't call certain times, what the heck?
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
@infatuatedbby That's really unfair, right? This guy is a good player. I hope she have the strength to stop being played by this guy.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
That's what I am thinking. I will try to explain the impact of these red signs to her. I hope she will be enlightened.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
She better stop it now or suffer more...
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
I am also thinking about that. She seems in denial lately.
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@magallon (19279)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
@Shavkat Maybe she needs more enlightenment in order to realize and accept the fact that he is not a good boyfriend for her.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
@magallon I agree. I will give her more time to think it over. Then, if her mind is starting to be cleared out and I will give her a good advice.
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@LeaPea2417 (37386)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Feb 17
I think he is just stringing her along. The sooner she drops him the better off she will be.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
It seems like this. I hope she have the courage to do that.
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@LeaPea2417 (37386)
• Toccoa, Georgia
28 Feb 17
@Shavkat I hope so too.
• United States
27 Feb 17
10 months isn't that long. Could've been 10 years. She needs to move on. He seems very sketchy.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
I do think she is having a hard time with such relationship. It seems she lost her sense of direction.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
@DanieGirl80587 I hope she will find peace of whatever decisions she will make.
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• United States
27 Feb 17
@Shavkat Well I hope she figures out what she wants and can be happy.
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@reskyyandi (3608)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 17
MOVE ON is the best way
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
I hope she can have the guts to do it.
• Indonesia
4 Mar 17
@Shavkat yeah...
@pammooratan (4668)
• India
27 Feb 17
That's good .If he didn't care and give importance to her .She did good.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
I think it would be a wise decision for her. There are so many guys who can capture her attention.
• India
27 Feb 17
@Shavkat Yes. you are right.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
18 Aug 17
That's why I have lost my faith in relationship, I'm happy single and I will prefer do die virgin but never involve in a relationship whom i can't trust
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
20 Aug 17
You have a point. I also think that a person needs to be vigilant on this.
@carexing25 (1822)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
the problem with a person in love is that he/she decides and worst is your advise gets wasted sometimes.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
I also anticipate such action. It is worth a try to give some advice. Hopefully, she will accept it. I do believe that people who are so in love are blind with the truth of being deceived.
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@josie_ (10032)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
How old is your friend and what is the age difference between her and the boyfriend?
@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
They are at the same age 28.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
@josie_ I think what she wanted. I hope they will able to figure it out what's the bet for them.
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@josie_ (10032)
• Philippines
28 Feb 17
@Shavkat _ At 28 years of age your friend was probably looking for a marriage proposal from her boyfriend.
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@Manvi_83 (155)
• Bhubaneswar, India
27 Feb 17
She should move on...
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
27 Feb 17
I hope she will, my friend.
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