Is It Convenient Not to Get Married?

Interesting subject. When you mentioned children everything changes? In the eyes of the law with possessions and child you are married? In religion it is symbolic. In society it is trendy yeah.

Like any other things, being single or not getting into that married stage has the advantages and disadvantages. I think it depends on your viewpoint or on how you accept it.

A lot of people nowadays see marriage is just a piece of paper which makes no real difference to the relationship. As for being convenient not to get married, depends what you mean. There are advantages of being married as opposed to just co-habiting. Then there is also the cost of a wedding which, to many, is an unnecessary expense.

I like to remain single though sometimes I long to have someone to love and be loved.I have so many loves in the past, all of them gone with the wind, they cheated me.I am happy to be single but not alone.This time, there are so many marriages broken and they have thought to let yesterday come back for they would prefer to be single.What a joke and life.

I believe it depends on the people whether they want to get married or not. It is up to them and only them. No one has to right to pressure them like lots of parents do. I wanted to have children so wanted to get married, but, did not end up having children and it did not work out at all.

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It is very inconvenient because the reward and great plans of God in their lives are totally hinder by their actions and decisions. It's is a disobedience to God. Though it is a trend now... Still God doesn't change his laws. And the kids will suffer.

I imagine 'getting married' is sort of like 'a graduation ceremony'---you went to all the needed hours of classroom-study, did all the homework; what do you need a "ceremony" for? except to "prove to everyone you know" that you did all the work & study you needed to 'not need to go to school any more.' Essntially, it's (traditionally, anyway) 'a graduation-ceremony' from childhood---in most cases (traditionally), the woman is living with her parents when the man 'takes her away' from them. And the ceremony serves to establish that 'she' is living with 'the husband,' that the parents are happy with that arrangement, & so now the world can see. Do you need to be married to live together? Just as sure as you need "graduation" to get a job!

It is more convenient for a single to spend life than a married person as after getting married one has lots of responsibilities . You have to see your kids and wife too after marriage.

If they are living together and raising their children then there is not much difference between them and any other married couple. But some societies do not view unmarried couples with children as a good thing. So it is better to get married in that case.

It can be a mess, or it can be heaven. Pick the wrong person to marry and have children and you are done. Your whole life is ruined. Choose wisely, it can be the most important decision in your life. Even more important than your job.

I don't thinking about it

Some females feel more secured if they have a piece of paper to prove to the world that their partners love them enough to go that far. (Same with some males I guess). But if one of the couple doesn't want to do it, and the other is so frightened of losing their love, then he/she resigns to that state of de-facto. If both partners don't want it, then it is perfect then. Easier to walk away from each other when the time comes.