BEATING YOUR WIFE IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN

Zimbabwe
September 8, 2006 9:42am CST
Do one expect to have controll over your children or a confused famly?
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82 responses
21 Sep 06
Beating your wife anywhere is unacceptable, more so in front of your children. The act it has makes little sense. Surely beating the hell out of your wife because you are weak and inferior in every aspect just drives to prove the point more so?
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@kstanley7 (1171)
20 Sep 06
I'm not married but I have been to the aid of my friend who was married, I ended up breaking his arm because he would not stop from attacking her and I had to restrain him but he kept on resisting, then SNAP. needless to say he has never hurt my friend again. All in all I have the lowest regards for anyone that has hit a woman, as I have never struck a woman even though one woman kicked me in the genetalia, I could not bring myself to raise a hand to a female. as thats just cowardice.
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• India
20 Sep 06
it will destroy all the essence of your family.Children prefer when their mother and father are happy together and they love the peaceful atmosphere at home.Dont ever do it.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
8 Sep 06
this is all just rubbish......practising such a thing totally shatters your child's confidence in U...n destroys his development in all wayz.......like my dad used to practise this n today he regrets it.....as v just don't have a positive impact abt him anymore.....
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@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
20 Sep 06
I think it is horrible to beat anyone especially your wife whom you claim to love, and definatly not in front of your kids, that will make them be mean as well.
@loved1 (5328)
• United States
20 Sep 06
The man who beats his wife in front of their children is teaching the children a few undesirable things. First, that it is ok to treat mom badly and beat her when you are angry. Secondly, that the wife should be beaten if the husband feels it is necessary. Would you want your daughter to be beaten by her abusive husband when she is old enough to marry? There are much better ways to resolve conflict! If this woman is so disrespectful that she would spit in your face then maybe you should seek counseling or seperate or whatever but not beat her. Just my opinion and I understand that different cultures have different values and traditions. Good for me I don't live somewhere that this practice is accepted! Good luck to you.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
8 Sep 06
this is the most obnoxious thing one can do, totally uncivilized, rude and uncultured person can only do this. If it is done in front of the children, the ill-effect of this incident on their minds cannot be repaired.
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@MGlassco (220)
• United States
8 Sep 06
beating your wife perriod is a weak and cowardly act. Do it front of your kids and you are scum bag 100%. It disgust me to think there are ignorant enoguh people to actually perform these acts
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@krishna183 (2284)
• India
20 Sep 06
you should never do that .. you WILL never do that if ur a guy .. the ones who suffer the most are the innocent children
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@My2Cents (291)
• Canada
8 Sep 06
There should no violence in the house whatsoever
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• United States
8 Sep 06
I was married for 12 years...left him off and on and finally left for good in our 9th years of marriage. I was a battered wife and my oldest son had seen it a few times. It did shatter his selfworth and self esteem and made him feel like he had to be my protector. I know how hard it is for women who are in relationships like this, but they have to keep their child as their priority and know that your child will start thinking that this behaivor is acceptable and thus a cycle begins. I had my ex up on charges several times and nothing came about untill I moved to Ohio..he broke into my apt and threatened to kill me and my roommate and her bf and he ended up going to prison..FINALLY! It's been 2.5 years and am engaged to a wonderful man and father who has shown my children that abuse and violence is NOT acceptable and my children are now able to be just that..children
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@DeborahWY (306)
• Singapore
27 Sep 06
How wrong is it for him to do that! Beating his wife is already bad enough and worst still in front of his children. He can never expect to have control over his children or family. He should be reported so that his wife and children will be spared the abuse - they need to be protected. His wife & children should seek protection orders or similar laws of protection for women and children.
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• United States
23 Sep 06
First of all, what gives you the right to beat your wife. Is the same privilege allowed her when you do somethng wrong? Children are able to pick up on tension in the house even if there is no argument or beatings.It is very damaging to their psyche.. much more intense than being confused.
@yipster (74)
• Belgium
22 Sep 06
it gives yer kids a trauma and they will be affraid of u when u do that.
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• India
22 Sep 06
it is not at al advicable. cos i wil create bad imprints on the mind of the children and they too may folow this violence in their future life
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@Lillith (774)
• United States
22 Sep 06
My father never beat my mother at all. He would beat me instead. What I learned from this is to be afraid and dependent. It took several years of therapy to regain control of my life but I did it. I would never allow my husband to beat me, either in front of the kids or not in front of them. It is a very unhealthy and sad situation when this happens. Any man who does this should have a special punishment.
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• India
22 Sep 06
It is not a good thing to beat our wife infront our children If it happened it will worsely affect our child's mentel health and he may feel that we are very cruel to their mother It may lead to think against us or finally leads to our family life unhappy
• India
22 Sep 06
beating you wife in front of your children, means you are becoming a bad model to your childrenit means that you are spoiling the life of your children. not only the life of your own children but also the life of your own, the life of your wife, you spoils your family.and many other things. so never do it
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• United States
22 Sep 06
It is AWEFUL enough to beat YOUR WIFE.. The one you are SUPPOSE TO LOVE MORE THAN ANYTHING.. BUT TO DO IT IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS, YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO LOVE THEM MORE THAN ANYTHING TOO... THAT IS "A-W-E-F-U-L"
@Miranda (728)
• South Africa
22 Sep 06
never, never and never again should a man hit a woman, nevermind beating your wife in front of your children