Is It A Sign of Falling Apart?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140129)
Philippines
March 9, 2017 6:40pm CST
I do think that having a relationship is difficult to handle sometimes. There are so many situations that result to falling apart. A particular situation wherein, it is a behavioral pattern that a person feels so irritated whenever you open your mouth and say something. In addition, they always find some mistakes while uttering one's opinions. "Is it a sign that the relationship is falling apart?"
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@pumpkinjam (8769)
• United Kingdom
13 Mar 17
I suppose it could be. It could just be that you've found yourselves stuck in a rut. If communication and a willingness to contribute equally to the relationship is there, then anything can be overcome. If it's at a point where everything annoys you about the other person and they haven't actually done anything wrong, or one or both partners are unwilling to resolve issues, then it may be a sign that the relationship is breaking down. Recognising a problem, and dealing with it doesn't have to be difficult in a relationship. But if you're getting irritated by things which didn't irritate you before, there may be an underlying reason for it.
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@pumpkinjam (8769)
• United Kingdom
13 Mar 17
@Shavkat If one is trying to patch things up and communicate but the other is unwilling, then there is no real chance for the relationship to survive without your friend becoming bitter. There is no perfect time to end a relationship, though.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
13 Mar 17
@pumpkinjam I do agree on that. She is just securing her heart and not to break into million pieces if things happened so soon.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
13 Mar 17
I think they are falling apart. My friend tried to have an open communication. But the guy is refusing to all her possible way to patch things up. Finally, my friend is starting to let it go the guy. She's waiting for the perfect timing to end the relationship. I felt bad about what's happening and thought they are a perfect couple.
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@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Mar 17
When one person dominates a relationship, that is one indication: getting intolerant with the mistakes of the other. Personally, for me, it is the time to step out of it and look for a more comfortable arrangement where mutual respect and acceptance is the foundation of interaction.
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@JamesHxstatic (29413)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Mar 17
It could be, but it sounds like a definite time to sit down and have quiet heart to heart talk. Try to find out what is going on with the other person and why they are reacting in that way.
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@diosabella (4789)
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10 Mar 17
I think its a sign of bad communication that will lead to falling apart.
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@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
11 Mar 17
@diosabella It is a case to case basis. It is impossible for the two gender not to be vocal of what they feel. You have a point. But it seems traditional to categorize that men don't speak much as compared to the opposite gender.
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@diosabella (4789)
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11 Mar 17
@Shavkat Men and women are very different species when it comes to communication. Women likes to talk it out while men usually don't. Women will starts to wonder what it is all about and draw various grim scenarios and get a little crazy while the men side it was totally nothing and they weren't thinking about it. Or vice versa but that's very uncommon I think.
