..... Getting married at young age.....
By Amanda
@amandajay (23264)
New Zealand
March 23, 2017 4:36pm CST
People say it is not a good decision to get married before completing studies and getting established in a good job.
Even I got married at the age of 23, and my husband was 26 at that time. Both of us were working for a Pvt. firm here. We both got about $100 per month as the salary. (sum of both salaries) We didnt have any other earning sources either. But we faced the life together and now we are in a good position.Thats because we found the right partner.
But this can be changed if you didnt make the right decision and if you couldnt find the right person. It may ruin your life. It may cause lose everything in your life.
What do you think?
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10 responses
@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
My parents married early. They don't finish their studies. We have small income and we are just poor during our growing up years
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
27 Mar 17
@amandajay It's difficult but we manage to survive.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 17
Yeah it happens. We started our life in a small rented room with attached bath n small kitchen. Thata how life is
@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
25 Mar 17
Any age is fine if both people work to it and love each other. Honestly is key. I am glad your relationship worked out and you now have 2 beautiful daughters.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
26 Mar 17
@amandajay lol 3 kids is so much... i am okay with that lol
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
27 Mar 17
@infatuatedbby haha... I hope to see your kids soon..lol
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 17
Oh yes.. Trustworthy is the main thing.. Also the understanding...
Thanks michelle... I wish you could have 3 kids in future. Hehe
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
No, I didn't have that moment you have back in my 20's so there's no way I'm getting married any time soon.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
25 Mar 17
Getting married at very early age and without a stable career is the most foolish decision. And leaving the career for anything is also not wise.
Its so good that you got a perfect partner and you both are growing together. Even I got married in very early age and left my career. If I was more matured that time it could be different decision.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 17
Yes. You are right. Thats what happened to my parents. They married so early and my mum stopped her studies... Later they got divorced. Then my mum lost everything.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
27 Mar 17
@amandajay oh that's so terrible.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 17
Yes even here also the same. Its people around us taking the decisions not us... So sad.
@VirginiaLee (134)
• Newport, Rhode Island
23 Mar 17
When I was a little girl, my grandfather used to make me repeat after him, "I promise to not even think about getting married until I'm at least thirty-five."
I'd forgotten he'd done that until my mother reminded me decades later. The funny thing is that my maternal grandparents married young and had a lifelong love story. In fact, they're my models for a good marriage. Anyhoo, I never strayed from the idea of not getting married until my mid-30s. What Papa didn't tell me was that by thirty-five I'd be so set in my ways and cussedly independent that the thought of marriage was laughable to me.
Don't get me wrong. I believe in marriage. Just not for me.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 17
@sharon6345 sorry to hear. But i know you are a strong woman..
@marguicha (223802)
• Chile
23 Mar 17
No matter what your age is, if you find the right partner life can be happy in spite of sorrows and occational misunderstandings.
Money and good jobs come and go. Love, respect, patience and solidarity are difficult to find. I think that this is not something that you deserve or not; mostly it is luck.
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
26 Mar 17
Yes.. Nowadays woman can make good decisions. The are wise enough
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
24 Mar 17
Age has nothing to do with it in many cases. We have seen some older ones marry and mess it up.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Mar 17
getting married is a joint decision. i hope you do well with your married life.
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