It Hurts When Friends Don't Give Responses

Please Come Bak
New Delhi, India
March 24, 2017 9:41pm CST
Hi All I am very upset today..One of my friend is not talking to me since two days. I really don't know the reason..I don't know what has happened...I dropped him message as welll But I am not getting any response. I am very confused but I don't want to spoil my relationship in anger and confusion coz it's always the negative thoughts that struck our mind first..... But I want him to reply me....I really don't want to loose my friend...Or if he wants to go I would leave him without cribbing..But atleast he must clear it....
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@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
25 Mar 17
It sucks when people just stop talking because of being mad or hurt instead of telling us what we may have done or said so things can get fixed.. i hope your friend responds to you soon.
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@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
25 Mar 17
@rupshree01 hey thats something. So good luck
• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Yes it really hurts I want people must be clear if they are anoid share and if happy then also share...Atleast we can understand better.... Actually he replied me on message that he is fine a d in a class then I said give me a call when free so he said ok and thts it
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• United States
25 Mar 17
Maybe the person is not active and is busy?
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• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Yes might be coz he just now replied that he is fine and he is currently in the class..So I told him to call when he is free. So said ok.and then gone
• United States
25 Mar 17
@rupshree01 Glad to hear that :)
@sjvg1976 (41271)
• Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
May be he is busy somewhere else and may not have paid attention to your message. Please wait and let's have talk with him then take appropriate action.
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• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Ok sure....I will...He responded me just now and said ok to call when free.ge is.my very close frnds and I am very habitual to talk to him...It hurts when we dnt talk for long..This is the first time
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@Shavkat (139367)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
Is it a friend zone? He might be busy of something.
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@Shavkat (139367)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
@rupshree01 My suggestion is to protect your heart. It would be so hurtful if we expect too much.
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• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Yes till now we are very close friends..... Yes he might be busy.......
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• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
@Shavkat Yes you may be right but thats a very hard task if being practical
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
25 Mar 17
sometimes you just have to wait, give it time, and try again. or sometimes, while waiting, they initiate contact.
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• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Yeah....I understand... We human are actually very impatient we want everything at our ease in seconds and if that does not happen we get panic and spoil everything
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• India
25 Mar 17
That's true there must be truth spoken and things clear,then the decision to move on or stay will be in your hand,hope it turns out good for you
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• India
25 Mar 17
@rupshree01 i agree,hope he turns up to you
• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Hope so I keep my finger cross.... leaving a boy friend is easy however leaving a close friend if very tuff
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
25 Mar 17
Don't think too much, he might not be like that. He might be busy and miss your posts. But if he is, just let him be. It's his lost then.
@shshiju (10342)
• Cochin, India
25 Mar 17
Don't emotional be practical and patient. Soon you could get understand the reason behind it. Then take apt decision.
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• New Delhi, India
26 Mar 17
Hey everything is fine ...We talked yesterday... He said sorry as he was unable to inform me
@delhshop (769)
25 Mar 17
just wati and give it some time maybe things be ok but you are sure true, it hurts so alot
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• New Delhi, India
25 Mar 17
Yes agreed no option other than giving time and wait