How to deal with difficult roommate?

Mumbai, India
March 27, 2017 9:39pm CST
Hell All, I am a working professional and staying in a hostel with a roommate who is too difficult to handle. She makes sure to create trouble for me whenever possible. She disturbs my sleep every morning, is unhygienic and I am fed up of her hairfall everywhere in the room and she wants things to happen in the room at her convenience. I cannot complaint to the hostel authorities as she has been backed up her by reference so nobody will bother about my complaint if i ever do that. Do help me with suggestions to deal with the situation as it is my everyday struggle while I am back home from long working hours.
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8 responses
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Mar 17
I think my fellow responder has a good point bu t I will go further talk to your roommate make it clear what bothers you, tjen if that fails do go to the authorities they may listen
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
28 Mar 17
That's very bad for you. Maybe you should talk to her or can't you book another room
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
28 Mar 17
@anushreem oh i can understand. You are used to this room. But however if she is causing too much annoyance it would be better to look for another room. You will be free
• Mumbai, India
28 Mar 17
It is one of the very nice room in the hostel where I have been staying since 2 years..she has shifted 3 months back so didnt wanted to change.
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@Shavkat (139933)
• Philippines
28 Mar 17
Heart-to-heart talk is fine. If it is not possible, you can request to find a new room.
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
28 Mar 17
deal with it, save up as fast as you can and move out !
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28 Mar 17
I think conversation is always the best solution (before any drastic decision).
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• Mumbai, India
28 Mar 17
Have tried it many times, she stops doing things for few days and then gets back to her behaviour
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28 Mar 17
@anushreem So, it's time for some action.
@Allan12 (86)
29 Mar 17
you need to tell this to her frankly if dont then thing will not change
@shivamani10 (11035)
• Hyderabad, India
28 Mar 17
Better you distance yourself when other is not caring for you.
• Kolkata, India
28 Mar 17
That's bad. Don't you have option to change your room, or something. What's her problem, why seh does all these? Is she mental??