Following members in myLot
By aeisle
@aeisle (377)
Philippines
March 27, 2017 11:25pm CST
Back in the old myLot, we can add other members as friend and I'm not sure if we can still do that now. Being friends in myLot means you automatically follow each other. In this new myLot, there are only three things we can do to other users when checking their profile. We can Follow, Send Message, or even Block. Since we can no longer add others as friends, we can just start following them. But what really makes you follow someone in myLot? For me, it could be when we had a good discussion over comments, most of the topics he/she discuss is also of my interest, and lastly, as simple as following them back.
So can you share what makes you follow a myLot user?
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
28 Mar 17
Yeah that pretty much the same for me as well.. but if someone starts to follow me I will follow back.
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@moirai (2853)
• Philippines
28 Mar 17
One reason why I would follow someone here in myLot is if they responded to my discussions. This is partly to show some support to someone who has shown me support by joining in my discussions. This way, there is a way that I can (more) easily reach their profiles (by finding them in my list of follows, or by looking into activity of follows) and look into their discussions.
However, the above is not a 100% sure way to get me to follow someone.
Because sometimes, there are people who respond to my discussions, but I don't really feel much sincerity in their answers. For instance, they come in and give a one word answer to the question I posed... That's not really very encouraging.
So another factor would be... if I like the way they respond. I find these people both on my discussions, and other people's discussions. If I happen to go to someone else's discussion and read through some of the responses and find some that I find interesting, I might follow that person to their profile and if I like the discussions/topics they make or join, then I might follow them, too.
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@aeisle (377)
• Philippines
28 Mar 17
@moirai yes sometimes we get those one word responses that we can't really think of how we can make a comment out of it and it doesn't really start a good conversation or interaction. Maybe we should also comment back with "Okay" I guess?
With regards to the support part, I don't think I can consider that to be a reason to follow someone because I don't take the responses as a show of support for me although that should give me more earnings. I'm happy if someone follows me but I don't really expect them to respond to all my discussions because I'm sure not all my discussion would be of interest to them. I would rather take my followers as someone who has found same interests as me which could also be the reason why we find ourselves responding in almost same discussions.
I like the way you respond though as you really stir some thoughts so I'm instantly following you now.
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@moirai (2853)
• Philippines
28 Mar 17
@aeisle Thank you!
Nah, I probably wouldn't even comment back with "okay" but that's just me. Hehehe.
If it's as I described above where I feel no sincerity in the response, I will most probably just read it, then move on.
But if it's just a case of the conversation being exhausted already and we are down to the last "hahaha!" or "true" or "i agree", I would probably just like the last comment - as an acknowledgement that I saw it - and we'll probably see each other again in the next discussion.
I also do not expect all who follow me to respond to all my discussions, because in addition to the fact not all of my discussions might be interesting to them, I also don't expect they would necessarily be able to see all my discussions amidst all the other hundreds and thousands of other discussions on the site.
To be very clear, if I follow someone because they 'supported' by previously by responding to one of my discussions, it does not necessarily mean that I expect them to respond to each and every one of my other discussions.
But anyway, you bring up a good point that I think I forgot to mention earlier. One of the things that would make me want to follow someone is if it seems their interests are the same as mine as evidenced by the posts they make.
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@aeisle (377)
• Philippines
29 Mar 17
That's right @moirai. We may have common interests but it doesn't mean all our interests are the same.
About having the last comment on conversations as sort of acknowledgement, I haven't thought about that. More often, I just hit the like in their comment when I feel like I have nothing to say anymore. I'm not sure though if that should give them an earning but I guess what you do is better so maybe I should start doing that too from now on.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
28 Mar 17
If someone follows me and has discussions that i am interested in, or if someone comments me alot i do follow them back and try to find some of there posts that interest me more then others.
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@aeisle (377)
• Philippines
28 Mar 17
Yes @chrissbergstrom. There are some that I started following instantly after having one good discussion but more often, it also take me few more discussions with them before I start following them. It's like we already built a relationship through our interactions so we would already want to follow them.
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