Does a bad haircut upset you?

@shaynas (5487)
India
April 6, 2017 2:24am CST
I went to a new hairdresser yesterday as my regular one was out of town. i told him my preferences but the guy cut my locks way too short for my liking. I had pretty long hair and i loved them, and now they are very very short. It made me so upset. Though it doesn't look bad and gave a new look to me but i miss my long ones :( My hair grows pretty slow and will take me years to reach that length again. Have this ever happened to you? What to do in such case?
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
Did you pay?
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
Yeah, i did. It would have been so unfair if i did not. But i told him i was upset and he apologized.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr 17
@sol_cee - What do you mean? Should @shaynas not have paid and ran away from the beauty parlor and hair dresser would have kept chasing her for his charges?
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solxee
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
@dpk262006 I wouldn't if it wasn't what I asked the hairstylist to do. Lol
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
6 Apr 17
I told the stylists to cut only 2 inches. Gosh! My hair cut off until my shoulder. That was 2years ago.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
Kind of same happened to me yesterday. I was so upset.
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wiLLmaH
@wiLLmaH (8802)
• Singapore, Singapore
12 Apr 17
@shaynas what the stylist told you after he cut too short?
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr 17
What happened with you is really sad. It could happen if we change our barber because our regular barber knows our needs and preferences but the new one may not know. It is better not to take any chance with a new barber. It has happened with many on some occasion, therefore, I do not change my barber.
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dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
6 Apr 17
@shaynas It depends upon from person to person, not necessarily that hair of men grow quicker than women. Don't worry, your hair will grow in due course of time, till such time you could enjoy your new outlook. No need to regret as the hair dresser cannot re-fix your hair and he has no 'undo' option with him, like we have in computers.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
It's okay with a man, your hair grows back pretty faster. I will take really long to have them again. I regret changing the dresser very much!
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
@dpk262006 I know, it is something that can not be undone, so no use thinking about it.
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Nawsheen
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
10 May 17
Happened with me on many occassions. When the lafy asked me if I liked the haircut I couldnt say now but when I came back home i started crying
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Nawsheen
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
10 May 17
@shaynas i never went to.that hairdresser again
The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
10 May 17
i know the feeling :-/
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
10 May 17
@Nawsheen me too. i am never going there again!
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Notlilie
@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
6 Apr 17
Of course it would ruin my day. But since I'm wearing hijab, no one but my family members will see the damage. But I'll still sulk.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
I know, this is not easy!
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Dhoy Alahoy
@dhoyalahoy (1414)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
I hate bad haircut. I wear caps all the time if do have. That will make my day very bad.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
I can surely relate. It spoils the mood :(
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
@dhoyalahoy They will really take much longer to be back that length again. But i will be fine in few days, as i would adjust with this new shorter one :)
Dhoy Alahoy
@dhoyalahoy (1414)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
@shaynas it's for a month I believe
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rebel_woman06
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
21 Apr 17
Yes, that happened to me before. The hairstylist cuts it shorter than what I told him. I really told him I didn't like that he did that to me and never ever go back at that hair salon.
Shavkat
@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
As a young man, I would feel upset. But I will accept it. Hair can still grow.
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Shavkat
@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
6 Apr 17
Shavkat
@Shavkat (140129)
• Philippines
17 Apr 17
@shaynas I can't agree more.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
For men, it grows really faster.
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Ebenz
@writerjo (2540)
• India
6 Apr 17
Yes , It really upsets me .. But I manage any way ..
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
I think that is the only option i have
Judy Story
@jstory07 (139996)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Apr 17
That has never happened to me before.
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The Sunshine!!
@shaynas (5487)
• India
6 Apr 17
I hope it doesn't ever happen too :)
Timea
@tzwrites (4835)
• Romania
7 Apr 17
I get upset if they cut my hair too short so I rarely go
Hillary Ralston
@hillhjill (23714)
• United States
8 Apr 17
Yes it makes me very mad when they mess up my hair.. I went in one day to get a pin wheel done with different colors and they messed up so bad it looked like the dropped paint on my hair in big spots.. I was so mad I never went back and I have to get it fixed that took about four hours but it came our very good.
Tanmoy Moulik
@tom_view (6451)
• Kolkata, India
20 Apr 17
bad haircut really makes me upset.
Larry Price
@sputnik8 (690)
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15 May 17
Yup it's really upsetting if the barber/hairdresser do something to our hair which are not to our liking.
Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Apr 17
When I go to a hair dresser (which has been years ago now) I go with the mind set that anything goes. This way I'm not disappointed with how it comes out. I am sure it's upsetting to you but your hair will grow back-even if it takes a while. I'm sorry that your not happy with it.
DianneN
@DianneN (247184)
• United States
6 Apr 17
You must look terrific, even though you are not used to it. My stylists know what and what doesn't look good on me, so I trust them better than I trust myself.
Nick R Thomas
@asfarasiknow (3340)
• Bournemouth, England
6 Apr 17
I now have so little hair left that it would be difficult to cut it badly.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (342179)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Apr 17
I don't know how you can make your hair grow faster. It is very annoying and upsetting if a hairdresser doesn't follow your wishes.
Mass_Sonu
@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
7 Apr 17
@shaynas really sorry for you, never happened for me though. But you took it really sportingly, despite feeling the pain deep inside
Aarti Talwar
@talwaraarti (4)
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7 Apr 17
i feel you :( Been there done that. and hated it obviously, but temporarily. The trick to not getting a bad haircut (specially from a new place/person) is to be extremely conscious about each step your haidresser takes with you hair. Also, please keep in mind, you are always, always supposed to tell him to cut less again and again specially when he shows you how much he is going to cut off before actually doing it.