~She Doesn't Know I'm Hurt~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
Valdosta, Georgia
April 6, 2017 7:37pm CST
I tried to call my grandma the other day who lives with my Aunt C in New York. I talk to my grandma at least once a week-sometimes more. I love her like a mother, we are so close...
My Aunt C said I'm sorry but your grandma isn't going to be here for a month. 
She went down to NC to visit my Aunt K-who I don't get along with at all.
So, I have no way to get in touch with my grandma since she can't hear well on cell phones and that's all Aunt K has. =( The part that bothers me about it all is I just talked with my grandma a couple days before she left and she never mentioned a word to me about it. 
I just keep telling myself it must have been a last minute thing for her not to tell me. But I'm hurt that I won't be able to talk with her at all for a month! And her birthday is the 16th and I can't even wish her a happy birthday. 
She's going to be 81 and I just pray she will be okay & healthy while she's there. Gosh this month needs to go by fast for more than one reason now! I miss talking with her already.
Who do you miss talking to?
She went down to NC to visit my Aunt K-who I don't get along with at all.
So, I have no way to get in touch with my grandma since she can't hear well on cell phones and that's all Aunt K has. =( The part that bothers me about it all is I just talked with my grandma a couple days before she left and she never mentioned a word to me about it.
I just keep telling myself it must have been a last minute thing for her not to tell me. But I'm hurt that I won't be able to talk with her at all for a month! And her birthday is the 16th and I can't even wish her a happy birthday.
She's going to be 81 and I just pray she will be okay & healthy while she's there. Gosh this month needs to go by fast for more than one reason now! I miss talking with her already.
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32 responses
@JudyEv (339974)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Apr 17
Can you post a card to her at your aunt's place? I'm hoping she just forgot to tell you. Sometimes when something is talked about a lot, as it might have been at your Aunt C's place, you assume everyone knows about whatever it is. But you're right, it might be a long month.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@JudyEv I am going to send a card. I am just used to talking with her every week, sometimes more so I'm just missing her.
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@JudyEv (339974)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Apr 17
@LovingMyBabies I find it hard to believe that it was intentional.
@EMuhungi (1712)
• Nairobi, Kenya
7 Apr 17
@LovingMyBabies I miss talking to my girlfriend like all the time. She got a scholarship oversees and we are no longer close as we used to be.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Apr 17
@EMuhungi I'm sorry. =( Long distance relationships are so tough.
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@marguicha (223010)
• Chile
7 Apr 17
Basically my daughters when they are too busy or away.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Apr 17
@marguicha I understand, I am missing my children as well right now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@Shavkat Yeah I hope so. Thanks I do too.
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@Marilynda1225 (82798)
• United States
7 Apr 17
I'm sorry you feel hurt that your grandma is away and you won't be able to talk to her especially for her birthday. I'm sure your grandma loves you and wouldn't want you to be hurt
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Apr 17
@Marilynda1225 Thank you. I know she loves me, I just don't understand why she wouldn't tell me she was leaving. Especially with it being for a month! =(
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
7 Apr 17
I am sorry to hear that she went away without letting your know she was going. She may just have been preoccupied and forgot to mention it. I miss talking to my mom and dad. What I wouldn't give for one more conversation.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Apr 17
@happy2beme Yeah maybe. I hope that's all it was. I'm sorry that you don't have your parents. =( I'm not close to mine but I know if something were to happen to them I would be heart broken.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
7 Apr 17
@LovingMyBabies It is nice that you are close to your Grandma though.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
7 Apr 17
I have to agree with Uncle Joe, she may just have forgotten to mention it. The month will go by quickly and let's think positively that your aunt will just give the mail to her mother. How about not putting a return address on it so she doesn't know it is from you? Would she really want to do that to her mother, not give her your card?
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@BelleStarr Yeah I hope that's all it was. I just have a feeling she didn't want to upset me so she didn't tell me. She's like that. But I am more upset by not knowing.
I hope my aunt will give her the card I send but I just never know with her. She's not a good person at all. I might not put a return address on it.
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
7 Apr 17
Sorry about that. I have a couple of relatives I am sad I don't talk to as often as I would like.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@Leapea2417 I'm sorry you don't talk with your family often. =(
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@AbbyGreenhill (45494)
• United States
7 Apr 17
I doubt if she did it to hurt you. I wouldn't worry about her. She's probably just fine.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@Abbygreenhill No I know she didn't try to hurt me but I think she might have not mentioned it because I would be upset. But I am actually more upset not knowing to be honest.
@Tampa_girl7 (50250)
• United States
8 Apr 17
I hope that you can talk to her sooner
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@DianneN Yeah I hope that's all it is. It's just a long time not to talk with her when we usually talk often. =( And I especially hate that I can't talk to her on her birthday.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
7 Apr 17
I miss talking to old friends, who used to be my closest friends. And my daughter.. lol.
Sorry you can't talk to your grandmother for a month. Hope she calls you when she gets back to NY.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Apr 17
@Courtlynn I am sure you do miss your daughter, I'm sorry. =( It breaks my heart whenever I think about your little one and your situation. I know its not me but I just can't imagine going through that.
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@thislittlepennyearns (62506)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
7 Apr 17
Could you write her a letter or something? Or have whoever she is staying with put you on speaker phone? At least for her birthday. I hope she is okay.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
7 Apr 17
@thislittlepennyearns The aunt she's staying with wouldn't do anything for me. I'm planning on sending her a card and I'm praying my aunt will give it to her.
@thislittlepennyearns (62506)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
7 Apr 17
@LovingMyBabies Oh I'm sorry to hear that. I hope she gets her card and everything is ok.
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@Shwetasingh (1333)
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7 Apr 17
Ya you should send her a card. Don't be upset she will come soon . You know if I don't talk to my mom daily I feel lonely. But these days she is in Texas so hardly I could call her( 2-3 days gap) as the timing doesn't match and she will stay there till may. Hmmmm miss her like anything
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@Shwetasingh Yeah I am going to send her a card definitely. I feel lonely when I don't talk with my grandma as well. I love talking to her. I'm sorry you can't talk to your mom often either. =(
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
8 Apr 17
@LovingMyBabies Thanks. It's not easy for sure. I was really close to my grandmother. I'm sure it won't be easy for you when you lose yours.
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
8 Apr 17
@dodo19 I'm sorry about your grandma passing away. When mine does I think I'm going to lose my mind. =(
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@Tina30219 (81929)
• Onaway, Michigan
7 Apr 17
Sorry to hear this. Maybe send her a card and she will have it waiting for her when she gets home I would not trust the other aunt she may throw it out.
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@workathomefan (8957)
• Prairieville, Louisiana
14 Apr 17
Parkinson's disease took my grandma's life.
