The Weddings Off
By Sandy KS
@rusty2rusty (6763)
Defiance, Ohio
April 7, 2017 1:22am CST
Something really bad happened. Now the wedding is off. I won't say what happened. It is not something I can speak of. Just know my heart is breaking not for myself. One never knows a monster is in their midst until it is too late. Monsters that prey on the disabled, their weaknesses and their families. It is something I don't think I can ever forgive.
How can one move on after being betrayed in such a way that it is unfathomable?
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14 responses
@Letranknight2015 (51938)
• Philippines
7 Apr 17
I'm sorry that you have experience such dilemna. Well, you may have save yourself from future troubles if you have called it off.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Apr 17
Learning what I did I had no problem calling the police and turning over evidence. I wish I would have learned it a long time ago. I had no clue. None.
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
7 Apr 17
Obviously not sure what happened but sorry something bad happened to cancel your wedding and put him in jail. You will be okay. Just breathe
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Apr 17
I am glad the wedding is off. maybe one day I will be able to explain better. Right now I want the healing to begin.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Apr 17
@Courtlynn The soonest appointment with a couselor / therapist that deals with the sort fo things that happened is not until the 18th.
@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
7 Apr 17
@rusty2rusty well i hope you are talking about it fully to at least one person. Cause to get over things you normally need to talk about what happened and your feelings, then forgive and forget.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Apr 17
I am glad you had the strength to do what you did. A lot of women would have ignored it just to keep a man in their lives. You're a good, strong woman, and someone deserving will come along eventually.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Apr 17
Thank you, I can not fathom keeping that man around after what I learned. There is something broken in his head.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
8 Apr 17
I can't think of any good reason for this to happen. Unless it was my family to stand together to put in jail after he tried to rip us apart.
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@Shavkat (139828)
• Philippines
9 Apr 17
@rusty2rusty That's too bad. I don't know what to say about this.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Apr 17
That is true. I am thankful the healing can begin.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
7 Apr 17
Really sorry that it has happened to you.
Take care its only time that starts to heal anything.
@allknowing (136100)
• India
8 Apr 17
Time diffuses situations and it will happen to you as well. This is not the time for you to take any hard decisions.
@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
7 Apr 17
Hopefully one day but I don't see it happening anytime in the near future.
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
8 Apr 17
Hoping for you that this is something that will work itself out @rusty2rusty Be careful not to say anything more than could have someone claim they are not being fairly, which could help a person get off or get a lighter sentence.
@fishtiger58 (29820)
• Momence, Illinois
7 Apr 17
I'm so sorry this happened, but it could have been much worse had the wedding gone through.
