Do We Need to Say "I Love You" All the Time?
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (140119)
Philippines
April 8, 2017 4:55am CST
There are times that saying "I love you" is becoming habitual. It seems that the magical words had not been said sincerely. "Is there really a perfect time for saying it?" I found it funny sometimes thinking that if your special someone is clinging to you. If you forgot to say "I love you", a special someone will be in doubt.
Is saying "I love you" should be always said at all times.
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
8 Apr 17
I think the gesture is more important than words. One can repeat whole day ' I love you ' but his /her gesture has not much sign of it then it's worthless.
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@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
8 Apr 17
@Bodyandbrain yes, otherwise, it will be mechanical and pointless, like they show in some films
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@Bodyandbrain (13797)
• Gurgaon, India
8 Apr 17
@Shavkat yes that's right, saying it genuinely at times is nice but over doing anything is boring and useless.
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@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
8 Apr 17
@Shavkat sometimes, actions speak louder than words. But, yeah, saying 'I love you' again & always is becoming a trend. It should be expressed rarely on special occasions! Anyways, as long as there is love, what's the need of words ?
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
@Mass_Sonu I just heard it, my friend. At some occasion, I had observed some women do this.lol
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@Mass_Sonu (1021)
• India
8 Apr 17
@Shavkat Ha ha, I have no personal experience in that, do you ?
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
my son sometimes tells me that, i was also told that over the phone by somebody. i still prefer the love emotion to be demonstrated and not said.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
9 Apr 17
@Shavkat indeed, because actions speak so much louder than a voice. and the eyes, they should slow the love, right? happy Sunday
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
10 Apr 17
@ridingbet Yes, kabsat. Our eyes showed the love to someone.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
@nitirrbb7 I agree. By looking someone, it can be understood without speaking.
@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
8 Apr 17
We men read it in your eyes, just like I do in my wife's
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@OreoBrownie (3755)
• Commerce, Georgia
8 Apr 17
I think it's a situational habit. Like at church all my friends say it and I have learned it as a learned response. I mean it but it's more like family love. Love of a sister, brother or parent or grandparent.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
8 Apr 17
No, I think you are right @Shavkat ; it just becomes something to say without it's true meaning. It should only be said when it is truly heart-felt.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
@nanette64 I agree. It became the usual expression that people just say it.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
8 Apr 17
@Shavkat Exactly; it becomes just a sentence. That's like the short version "Love Ya". People just say it anymore just to say it.
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@Gita17112016 (3611)
• Trinidad And Tobago
8 Apr 17
I think this depend on how stable the relationship is.If , in the courtship days you laid the foundation that 'tells' the other person how much you really value them then there is not such a need to give verbal assurances of 'I love you' so frequently. A woman on TV was once asked when last her husband said 'I love you"...she said 40 years. Then she added, 'He said he tell me if he changes his mind'! Apparently, he never did...and they were both comfortable with that! That's pretty solid.
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@diosabella (4789)
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8 Apr 17
I often say it to people I love and care about. I don't say it and take it just likely. ---- ooppps lightly I mean.
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@pammooratan (4668)
• India
8 Apr 17
It is not necessary to say always but a little.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
8 Apr 17
When you are that special to someone you don't need to say a word, love is something that words can't express.
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@Shavkat (140119)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
@nitirrbb7 I agree. It should rekindle the affection and remember how the love had started.
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@nitirrbb7 (4317)
• India
8 Apr 17
@Shavkat Yeah love at first sight always begins without words two people look at each other and they fall in love.
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@averygirl72 (37845)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
We can say I love you in different ways. Hugging a person, helping a person, giving someone a gift, cooking for someone are forms of saying I love you
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
8 Apr 17
That depends on the two who are in a relationship, not for me to judge.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
8 Apr 17
No, it can get overdone! Just at times when it is appropriate to the situation! :)
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