How do you go along with your mother-in-law and father-in-law?

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When we got into a marriage, we have another pair of parents. They are mother-in-law and father-in-law. Someone says, it is a tug-of-war between a girl and her mother-in-law, a man and his father-in-law as well. "My mother-in-law is tearing us apart!" "My mother-in law hates me and is influencing her son too!" "My husband is torn between his mother and me!" "I dont like my father-in-law, even dont talk with him". "When I see my father-in-law and my mother-in-law, i just keep silence." "I am not their son or their daughter, our realationship is just so so". Do such statements ring aloud in your mind as well? How to tackle the problems happened on this realationship? I like to listen to your opinion or your practices. Family is the core of our life, we hope that we can get happiness, and this hapiness not only comes from building the good realationship between couples, but also need to be good realationship with his or her original family members? how about your wisdom?