Marriage Life
By lucia dona
@donadunz (141)
April 19, 2017 4:07am CST
Marriage should be built on love and trust. But if one of the parties tainted trust, what to do?
Having 18 years of marriage life, faithfully accompany in joy and sorrow of life. Raising 3 wonderful and talented sons. Being truly devoted, loving and caring.
All seemed shattered when find out your spouse's secret sex life adventure in the past carried out while at the peak of a career.
Now, when your spouse's financial condition is worse, is it wise to ask directly and having conversation about it? But in the other hand it hurts you so deep.
What to do ?
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
19 Apr 17
I would move out but everybody has to make their own decisions
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@donadunz (141)
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19 Apr 17
@responsiveme and just leave him when he is down ? Needs a lot of courage to do that
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
23 Apr 17
It can be so devasting when you learn that you partner is cheating on you. My uncle was cheating on my aunty. When she discovered about it she decided to talk to my uncle about it. He promised that he wont do such a thing again. But he never kept his promise. My aunty had a daughter and didn't want her to feel fatherless and so continued to stay with my uncle. However one day she saw him chatting with another woman and she couldn't bear it anymore. She was suffering from depression at that point. She left my uncle. And today she is a happy woman living with her girl. As for my uncle he is still not settled
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@donadunz (141)
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19 Apr 17
In this case, I would say money, power and hunger trying new things. Since the adventure is not involving a woman, but a couple.
@LeaPea2417 (37679)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 May 17
It would be hard but I would probably divorce him.
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@Dollym (3)
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21 Apr 17
really a difficult situation this is. As being in financial crises, breaks the men and he also becomes psychologically weak.
If you will raise your questions at this time, he will definitely feel guilty but can also go in deep depression.
If you consider my opinion it was his past, you should definitely make him realize his faults but should wait for the right time.
If you will stand by him in this situation even after knowing everything, he would definitely understand and respect you more than the past years.
