My favorite purr-buddy has cancer

@TheHorse (217901)
Walnut Creek, California
April 28, 2017 5:48pm CST
I noticed that that right pupil of my favorite purr-buddy--my friend's 10-year-old kitty--seemed dilated and discolored the other evening. Him "mom" and "dad" (my human friends) said that they had noticed the same thing. They said they were taking him to the vet in three days (yesterday). Last night I got a call from them. Their worst fears were confirmed. Mom was in tears. My kitty friend has cancer of the eye. They were trying to decide whether it was worth it to have the vet check to see whether the cancer had spread. The cost would be from $300 to $600. I said heck yes! If the cancer has not spread, they can save the kitty. Our fur family members can be almost as important to us as our people family members. If the cancer has spread, I said, let the kitty live until he shows signs of suffering. Right now, he's a bit light sensitive in that eye, but that's it. They agreed with me. Would you have said the same thing? (The photo is of our barn kitty, not my friend's orange kitty.)
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@FourWalls (67384)
• United States
29 Apr 17
You'd better believe I'd pay it! In fact, I did pay it when I had the spotted skunk-head baby in my profile picture. I would have continued to pay it if it would have saved her life, too, but they said her kidneys were failing...and, at that point, it becomes selfish: putting the pet through hell for 2-3 weeks so we can have it around a little longer. I told the vet, "No, enough," and we threw her a big farewell party.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
Yes, at a certain point, it's for us, not them.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
@JudyEv I think we're in tune with out fur friends enough to know when they're suffering. There is a time when it's time.
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Apr 17
I think too many people keep pets alive for their own benefit rather than doing what's best for the animal.
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Apr 17
Poor kitty. I'm glad he's being given a chance.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
Me too. I hope it's only in his eye.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
@JudyEv Do you ever "have his teeth done," like they do with horses? We all love Herc, just from your stories!
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse Herc wouldn't eat his pellets this morning which is a bit of a worry. Maybe his teeth are making it difficult for him to chew.
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@allknowing (135331)
• India
29 Apr 17
You gave them very good advice. But animals do not show their suffering unfortunately
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
They don't use words. But I think they have other ways of showing it.
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@LadyDuck (470819)
• Switzerland
29 Apr 17
YES, I agree 100% with you about what you said. Poor kitty this is so sad, I love black cats. The lovely black kitty of our neighbor has disappeared from three days, I am heartbroken. I hope she comes back, she is lovely.
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@LadyDuck (470819)
• Switzerland
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse I hope too, she came to visit me every evening when I opened the door to add some food to the cat bowl I keep outside. She came inside for about 15 minutes to play and then "asked" to go back home.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
@LadyDuck Sounds like she has a good "kitty routine." Are there kitty predators there? Here we have mostly cars, but there are coyotes, bobcats and mountain lions as you get closer to Mt. Diablo. I hope your friend is OK.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
I'm miss our barn kitty. I'm not sure where she wound up when they closed down the barn where my horse had lived. I hope your neighbor's black kitty returns safe.
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• Banks, Oregon
29 Apr 17
Yes our fur family is so important to us i would sell a kidney, or do anything to pay for my dogs chance at life.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
Yep, our fur friends become family.
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• Banks, Oregon
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse they really do I've been trying to somehow incorporate family pets into my family tree
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom A family geneaeology would be more complete with the fur family included.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Apr 17
So sorry to hear that. Yes I agree with you. We should do whatever you can when it comes to our fur babies.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 May 17
@Happy2BeMe That cancer hasn't spread! I'm going to ask our "boss man" (the band leader) if we can don't some or all of our earnings over the next couple of gigs to the kitty surgery.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
I'm not sure when my fur friend's next Dr. appointment is. I'm sure I'll provide an update.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse I will be watching for updates
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
1 May 17
So sorry to hear this!! I believe in treating an animal unless it would prolong their misery. I hope they have the money to treat him, it sounds as if they love him very much. What I don't believe in is treating the animal for just a few more months or a year of life. I have a net friend who put her poor 16 year old dog through chemotherapy for cancer. The dog lived through the chemotherapy, miserably, only to be diagnosed with another form of cancer which took his life. I wish she would have let nature take its course. I'm glad your furry friend seems to have a treatable disease. I hope you all enjoy many happy years with him!
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
6 May 17
@TheHorse That's great, and it's worth every penny!
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 May 17
@dragon54u I look forward to seeing my friend.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 May 17
I received a "text" today. The cancer has not spread beyond they eye. They'll be out about $2500, but they'll have their beloved kitty for a few more years.
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@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Apr 17
You bet I would.
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@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse ........It would seem.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 May 17
@celticeagle Fur friends are family There's no doubt about it.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
I'm glad to hear that. It looks like most are going to agree with us.
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@Shavkat (139400)
• Philippines
29 Apr 17
That's sad to hear. Hopefully, things will be fine. I will give everything to save his life.
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@Shavkat (139400)
• Philippines
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse We hope for the best, my friend.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
I hope the next news is good.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
@Shavkat Thank you!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Apr 17
I would do anything to save my animals.I know it cost a lot but it is worth it.Do it.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
I hope to hear good news from them soon.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse Good luck there.Take it slow and think
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 May 17
@amadeo The cancer has NOT spread! I think they're going to go for the surgery to remove the eye.
@sallypup (60796)
• Centralia, Washington
29 Apr 17
Poor fur person. I would have said yes. We have just paid 1,600 for fake knee ligaments for our Leah dog. She's a go get em healthy dog otherwise. We cried all night, thinking about the world without Leah and decided to keep her with us.
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@sallypup (60796)
• Centralia, Washington
29 Apr 17
@TheHorse The after recovery time has not been as bad as folks said- at first it sounded like we'd need to have to figure how to carry an 80 pound Leah down the deck steps. Oh no way. She never needed that much help. Now the worst knee has a fluid pocket on it that we are trying to figure out. Doc says it does not hurt her.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
@sallypup Will it go away on its own? "Get absorbed" into her body?
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
I'm glad you did! In the long run, $1,600 won't matter.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
27 May 17
How is the kitty since the surgery @TheHorse ?
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 May 17
Thanks for asking, Nanette! I saw him this past weekend, and the surgery was a success. He just looked like he had an eye closed. I gave him some pets, but we didn't have time for a major purr session. Maybe later this week.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
2 Jun 17
@TheHorse Poor baby. It'll take a little time for him to get used to just the one eye, so don't be surprised if he staggers a bit.
@diosabella (4789)
29 Apr 17
I had a golden retriever of 11 years that had cancer. When Aunt found out it was too late for him. The cancer spread already. So we just let him live until its time...
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
Did he enjoy his "golden years"? I love Labs and Goldens, but they often don't live as long as smaller dogs for some reason.
@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
6 May 17
@diosabella Yep, Labs and Goldens love to swim. I think they have webbed toes for swimming.
30 Apr 17
@TheHorse He surely did. We never walk him outside the gate but the yard was enough for him. He likes to jump on the fence and bark to every one passing by. Probably half the people who were passing by could had develop a weak heart because of him. He jumped pretty high. And he's always on frenzy every afternoon when he sees his "twin" brother walking around with a leash (A neighbor apparently bought a golden retriever too when they saw my dog running and jumping around). Oh, and he liked to bath on his own. We had a big wash basin and he always drag the hose to it means he's ready to dip on the shallow water on his own.
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• Prairieville, Louisiana
10 Jun 17
Sorry your pet cat has eye cancer.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
10 Jun 17
It's not my kitty. It's my friend's kitty. Sorry if I didn't make that clear in the post. They went ahead with the surgery, and the kitty is doing OK.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
29 Apr 17
I would spend the money even if in vain.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
If the cancer hasn't spread, all they have to do is remove the eye. That will cost between $2,000 and $3,000.
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
29 Apr 17
Having just lost our favorite cat a few months ago, I would definitely say yes.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
Sorry to hear that. It takes awhile to get over losing a fur friend.
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29 Apr 17
I would try to save him. I think it's worth fighting because the lives of animals are shorter. It really is very sad to see them suffer because they can't say what they feel.
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@TheHorse (217901)
• Walnut Creek, California
29 Apr 17
He'll let us know if he's not enjoying life.
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