~Missing her badly~
By Ranan Ghosh
@ranan1989 (385)
May 2, 2017 10:53am CST
'Mom'- an engrossing word that is always dwelling in our minds. By pronouncing this consecrate word in our lips our minds get satiated with content and nibble away all pains. Ostensibly there is no particular connotation or none of the dictionaries can construe the perfect meaning of the word.
Most of our upbringings started with pronouncing this word. Thereafter when we started to grow up we learn many words by imbibing from her mouth. In my case there was also no difference. I also thronged with my mom's love in my childhood. My mom used to coddle in my forehead until I got asleep, told stories taking me in her lap and paradoxically scolded me for my wrongdoings. She used to become delighted when I got delighted and become perturb when I became devised.
But as a natural phenomenon , I , like others , started to grow up and one day I had to leave my abode for good for study. Now I have been staying in Kolkata , a city almost 730 k.m away from my abode. I have already passed almost 7 years incessantly here without my mom. At this juncture I started to feel her blankness in my mind. While staying here I am used to watching other moms' propriety with their children and get dejected on that transient moment. Residing outside the residence it's not big deal for me, but it has become harder to spend my life without presence her enormous affection. As it is a part of our life, we have to imbibe it silently.
In the denouement of the interminable story there can not be any connotation of this particular holy name, It has inculcated in every child's mind after its birth it remains intact and fraught with love and compassion in our hearts. For every man she is a distinct character and a rapporteur of God. 
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
2 May 17
I am so sorry my friend, I know how you feel.
My story is a long one, so I will not go into it here regarding Mom.
I am unable to see my Mom too but different circumstances to yours.
No matter what the case may be, we always regard Mother, the one and only, of which we only have one.
May you receive many blessings in life for your devotion to your beloved Mother to your great credit for we must above all else in life, regard and respect and obey our parents, then we will be rewarded.
I hope you get to visit your Mother very soon.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
2 May 17
@LadyDuck Welcome Anna, I was touched by it. Thought you may like it.
Thank you for coming.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
hmm...its okk...trying to resolve the issue as soon as possible .... obviously for me :).... she is a distinct feature and an intact attachment to me... I hope the same what you think about and sorry for you also...
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
2 May 17
It is a sad thing losing a mother. It has been over twenty years that I have been without mine. But, I feel her presence daily and am so thankful for that bond. My grandmother too. There is a link, a love that out shines any I have ever known or ever shall know.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
2 May 17
@ranan1989 .....She still lives in my thoughts.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
@delerioushildaho51 I m really sorry for you... U r more unfortunate than I am...
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@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
@celticeagle I apologize as I think my post might heart your sentiment and also revamp your past memories transitively and you might be become dejected... I said sorry...
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@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
it is the most important fact in our life...but I am deprived of this ....I know I can resolve it very soon....
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@Shavkat (140097)
• Philippines
3 May 17
@ranan1989 I am sure it will come in the right time. Mothers have their own ways why they needed to be in such way.
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@LadyDuck (471969)
• Switzerland
3 May 17
@ranan1989 I am glad I met you on your first day on this site, your post is very good and touching.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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3 May 17
@LadyDuck thanx for your appraisal.....all of yours posts will motivate me for writing more beautiful post in future
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@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
@Anna Your words are true....her place can not be replaced by other people... her coddling love and compassion all things can never be filled with other persons.... this is my first post in this site after entering it today....thanx for ur comment...
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
3 May 17
losing a mother is so devastating. i lost my mother last 2009.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
6 May 17
@ranan1989 no, not wrong my friend. we are talking about the demise of your mother here, right? our comments are just fine for the discussion.
@ranan1989 (385)
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6 May 17
@ridingbet my mom still alive now but she is far away from me due to some circumstances...hope I will bring her to me within 6 to 8 months
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@ranan1989 (385)
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6 May 17
@ridingbet ooo sorry misinterpreted your saying friend... Sorry for this
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@diosabella (4789)
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4 May 17
Maybe its time to visit your mom more often when you can. 
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@diosabella (4789)
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4 May 17
@ranan1989 When I was away in college I always see my mom every week. Good thing our house is just 90 kms away from the city. That way I don't miss her that much.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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4 May 17
@diosabella you were lucky...here the different case for me... I have many friends in my hostel... They are not too far from their abode... they meet their family after a regular interval but in my case it is a different matter... After getting a Job I will be able to bring her in my place :)
@ranan1989 (385)
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4 May 17
@diosabella due to some circumstances it is not possible in this time ... but I will resolve the issue in future.... I have also writen this article as a general purpose.. :(
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
5 May 17
First of all your vocabulary is good and you have used wonderful words to express yourself.
Coming to the point of mother, you are very right that there is no one like mother in this world. We can understand that as you stay alone, you miss your mother.
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
3 May 17
my mum i only forty miles from where I live but a I don't drive getting to ee her i quite rare and awkward - always nice when possible though
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@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
3 May 17
@ranan1989 I do visit her when possible - going to see her near her birthday next month
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@ranan1989 (385)
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5 May 17
@arthurchappell keep it up friend...by this way she also fraught with love and compassion
@ranan1989 (385)
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3 May 17
@Arthur as it is an intact attachment then we should not break this attachment....don't know what your circumstances is but you have to go with her and meet with sporadically... all the mothers are same and their hearts always crying for their child...:)
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@Letranknight2015 (52072)
• Philippines
3 May 17
I'm sorry for your lost. But I'm sure your mom wouldn't want you to live in envy and anger, and sadness. She wants you to live your life and be happy about it.
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@nitsbubb (1308)
• Pune, India
2 May 17
@ranan1989 It was sprinkled with sentiments. Kindly take the way you want to!
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@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
frnd y have u become exclaimed about this word.... it's ambiguous to me :(
@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
15 May 17
@ranan1989 I'm so pleased that you see your mother regularly, for her sake as well as your own. As for being friendly, we most of us are on this site
@ranan1989 (385)
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14 May 17
@jaboUk not at all friend ... I meet with her after every 6 months timespan when I go my home ... Actually I am staying in Hostel .. Thanx for being amicable with me
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
5 May 17
That was very well done. I admire your writing style. I enjoyed reading this post.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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5 May 17
Thanx for your praiseworthy comment that might help me a lot to improve my writing in future sir...if you can find out any flaws in my writings please inform me I will try to rectify them
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@lookatdesktop (27134)
• Dallas, Texas
5 May 17
@ranan1989 I think you did a good job. I am not so much critical of misspellings or grammar as I am interested in the basic depth and meaning of a post. But there is always room for improvement. To see if you are doing a good job you can always test your posts by using GRAMMARLY at the following link:
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@ranan1989 (385)
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5 May 17
@lookatdesktop thanx a lot sir...i have came here to improve my writing...i am not bothered about money ... So plz guide me going through my each post thoroughly sir...I posted here a day after a day...thanx again sir
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 May 17
This was so beautifully stated. I hope you are reunited with your mom someday soon. There is always a special bond between a mother and her son. My mom has been gone for many years. Not a day goes by that she is not in my thoughts and prayers.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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5 May 17
@DianneN not a day might be a wrong word here....it would be not a moment...because in my case I am always thinking about her consciously or unconsciously
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@aninditasen (16505)
• Raurkela, India
11 May 17
@ranan1989 Hope that day comes soon.
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@ranan1989 (385)
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11 May 17
@aninditasen thanx for your good wishes and pray soul heartedly for that
@ranan1989 (385)
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9 May 17
@aninditasen now frequent visit is not possible...but after getting a job I'll definitely bring her in my residence...nice to meet you here..
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
6 May 17
I miss my mother every day too though it is so many years that I have lived away from her
@ranan1989 (385)
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2 May 17
@Mareena it's hard fact but more hard to believe from the inner part of the mind... but one question always arise in our mind why the childhood is too short for us?? there is no answer probably...
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