~The Adult Interaction~

Valdosta, Georgia
May 2, 2017 2:50pm CST
Many of us are here at Mylot for different reasons. Some for the little bit of money we earn, some are here to have somewhere to vent/rant, some are here for friendships and some are here to learn new things. Me? I am 90% here for the adult interaction I have here! With that of course comes friendships, which I adore! I am usually around little ones all day and night which I love but I don't have much adult interaction offline. My husband gets home late most nights, we talk for a little bit then it's bed time. Other than that I get the adult interaction I love right here on Mylot! It is wonderful for me. =) I never feel lonely since I have many friends right here.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
2 May 17
What a dramatic photo! Did you take it?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 May 17
@MALUSE I wish! No, sadly I didn't but I love it. =)
@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 May 17
I hadn't thought about that but I can understand how people with small children would sometimes be glad of adults to talk to.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@JudyEv Yeah all day I have my babies to talk to but it's not quite the same as having adult conversations.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
2 May 17
I fully appreciate what you are saying about finding adult interaction here on the site. At school I spend most of my days alone in a room with 12 and 13 year olds. Even when I talk to the other teachers it is about kid related matters. My wife, much like your husband, often comes home only in time to eat dinner, watch maybe an hour of TV together, and then she's off to bed.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@DWDavis Yes you know exactly how I feel then! It's so nice to be able to have adult conversations here. =)
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@TheHorse (217922)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 May 17
True. I also interact with kids a lot during my day. Here, I can interact at a different level.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@TheHorse Yes exactly. =) I enjoy being around little ones but I do love being here as well.
@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 May 17
About 8ins below chin level, of late. Oh, yes, I forgot - we'd decided to close that avenue of interaction after hearing the lady talking about the robots' interchangeable parts...
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@TheHorse (217922)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 May 17
@pgntwo Oh oh, have I been slacking in my reading again?
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 May 17
The computer is my escape from real people and since Tony is sick he sleeps a lot so its about interaction too, plus a little money is always good. I can buy me a book or CD or a shirt, nothing big but something I would have not bought if I did not earn it here.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@andriaperry Yeah it is nice being able to get something for my kids now and then with Mylot money. I wouldn't be able to do that either if I didn't make a little money here.
• Peoria, Arizona
2 May 17
I love being able to interact with other people. I really have no real life friends, I am not very fond of my age cohort on certain apps, where here, even though many are not close to my age, I can actually talk to them. Everything is civil. We teach each other things and we can socialize. I love it!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Desirousdreamer I don't have offline friends either. I know the feeling. I agree, I feel like I have many great friends here no matter what their age is.
@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
4 May 17
I can relate to this, I spend most of my day around my son. My boyfriend is here but it's not quite the same at times. For the most part, I'm here to get some stuff off my mind, I'm a fairly quiet person offline and I need some place to get everything off my mind.
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
5 May 17
@LovingMyBabies It makes it tough when you mostly talk to kids all day, I know how that gets.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@sissy15 Yeah, it's nice to be able to talk to adults too during the day! =) I am the same, quiet and around my kids.
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
3 May 17
I live alone, and comint here is good for me, as I don't talk to anyone, unless it is on my cell phone. I can't talk to the dogs, a they don't answer back, so coming in here and interacting, I know that people are going to talk back to me so I don't feel as lonely that way. I am here basically, for the interaction as well, as with it, I have learned a lot, and made a little money along with it.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@rosekiss Yes I agree, having adults to talk with here is so nice. =)
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@rosekiss (30414)
• Eugene, Oregon
4 May 17
@LovingMyBabies It really is and I have made so many freinds here anc conttinyue to make more. It is really great, as it makes me feel how specia I am to others, and they are special to me a well. We are all family here, and pretty muh all of us are here for the same thing, and that is to interact withs others, and learn from them as well.
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@divalounger (6066)
• United States
2 May 17
I remember when my kids were young and I was a single parent--I really craved adult conversation--glad this is filling some of that for you!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@divalounger Yeah I have my own kids and I babysit so I'm only around little ones usually. So Mylot helps so much being able to have adult conversations. =)
@Tina30219 (81840)
• Onaway, Michigan
3 May 17
I am here for the same reasons you are I am glad to have this site and all the good friends I have made here.
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@Tina30219 (81840)
• Onaway, Michigan
3 May 17
@LovingMyBabies Mylot helped me through my divorce if I didn't have mylot it would have been worse
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Tina30219 I understand, MyLot has helped me get through so many hard times. This isn't just a site-it's a miracle for many of us.
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Tina30219 I am so glad to have Mylot as well! =)
@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
3 May 17
Do you do mommy and mes or play groups at parks? Could be nice to get out of computer adult interaction as well.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Courtlynn That's not an option for me since I dont drive.
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Courtlynn Not with 5 kids and not much money.
@Courtlynn (67086)
• United States
3 May 17
@LovingMyBabies noone can take you? Uber?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
2 May 17
That is wonderful. This is a great place with so many wonderful people.I always looks forward to coming here each day just to see what everybody is up to.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Happy2beme There are so many amazing people here. I'm so grateful for all of you. =)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@Happy2BeMe Aw thank you! You are a wonderful friend as well. =)
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
3 May 17
@LovingMyBabies I am grateful to have you for a friend
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@YesWay (3674)
3 May 17
Same here. My husband is usually asleep by 7pm so I need someone else to talk to!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@YesWay Mylot always has someone here to talk to which is awesome. =)
@YesWay (3674)
8 May 17
@LovingMyBabies I should find more time to roam around here
@Kandae11 (54981)
2 May 17
I am the only female in the household right now and I work from home - so I am here for the interaction as well.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
2 May 17
@Kandae11 I completely relate! I love having so many friends here. =)
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@LeaPea2417 (37336)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 May 17
I come here for a combination of the friendships and the money.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@Leapea2417 Yeah the earnings are a bonus for sure. =)
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• United States
3 May 17
Since my husband knows all my stories and hears all my complaints I turn here to unload LOL! It keeps me out of trouble - it helps pass the time until the pool is open and I can get out of here!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@Abbygreenhill Lol, this is the perfect place to vent when we need to!
@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
3 May 17
we enjoy having you and i also enjoy hearing about your little ones,,,our little ones are older than you
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@hostessman Thank you, I'm so glad! =) How old are your children?
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@hostessman (11871)
• Tucson, Arizona
5 May 17
@LovingMyBabies two boys 50 and 52,,,and twin girls 47
@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
3 May 17
Super photo. Mine rarely work out that strikingly. I wonder what the remaining 10% yearns...?
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 May 17
@pgntwo Thanks I love it too! =) Well, I like venting now and then (5%) and the money we earn is a bonus as well (5%). So that explains it! Lol.
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@pgntwo (22408)
• Derry, Northern Ireland
4 May 17
@LovingMyBabies Venting, probably 20% of my myLot use ;)
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
2 May 17
I am here for fun and to write things out of my head. The adult interaction is just a bonus for me as i didnt expect much.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
3 May 17
@Plethos I enjoy writing too but I enjoy very much having adult conversations. =)
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@Plethos (13581)
• United States
3 May 17
@LovingMyBabies - same here. but with the censorship of certain words on here, i almost feel like im being nannied by a disgruntled 100 yr old nun.
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7 May 17
@lovingmybabies I understand what you mean. Adult interaction is so important especially when individuals may be stay at home parents, work from home, etc. I agree it is so helpful to be able to have interactions with friends online. I have appreciated this as well. I too spend a great deal of time with my babies and I greatly appreciate the time I have to talk with adults. I'm hoping to start snail mailing with other adults because i feel that interaction is important and I love to receive a letter in the mail writing it really is becoming a dying art.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
11 May 17
@katherinerose123 Yeah it is so helpful for me. I am always around kids-which I love but I need some adult conversations too! Lol. Here I get that along with amazing friendships and a little bit of money! It's awesome. =)
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