I can't find a good a reason not to hate this person, but I just can't develop hatred towards him

@waflay (2737)
Nairobi, Kenya
May 5, 2017 2:07am CST
This person is a friend of mine. He is ever in wrong places at the worst moment. He lies a lot and amazingly, he is as genuine as how a friend should be in deeds. At one time, we were young and adventurous, we could do stuff and go scot free just because someone stood there for us when we ran into a deep mess. In my mind, I though his younger blood was driving him to be that careless. But as time went by, I changed into a cool guy but he never showed a slight change in him. He still pulls off funny, annoying stuff and expects me to back up his wrong doings. I have talked to him several times to make him change his ways but I guess his mind just can't comprehend admonitions that bring him 'fun'. Guess what! I have to be three for him or he might not live long enough to see tomorrow. In other terms 'a danger to himself'. Now you see my dilemma? I need a reason to end our friendship... but I am afraid he might get hurt and for sure, I can't stand that. What next? Have your say!
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
5 May 17
aww that's sad, but you have leave such people otherwise you will be in danger, hope he understands and mend his ways soon
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 17
He is like a parasite that feeds on you knowing that if you dare do away with it, you will live to regret it. I guess it happens in my mind, or maybe I am not too cruel to let him suffer the fate of his actions. Someday, I hope the world will teach him right ways..
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 May 17
I'm at the stage of my life where I rid myself of people I don't want in my life anymore. I have no qualms about it. It has set me free.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 17
I should learn a thing or two from you then. I just wonder how to do it safely without feeling a doubt in my mind. And that is my weakness which drives me to keep helping him outer tight corner.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 17
@DianneN That is one powerful message that I have to keep in mind whenever someone comes for more and more.. Thanks
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
5 May 17
@waflay Don't let people take advantage of your kindness and generosity.
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@Shavkat (139827)
• Philippines
5 May 17
Well, I think your friend is still a childish person. Perhaps maturity hasn't intervened into his senses.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 17
Sometimes I think a mature body without a mature brain is like a thorny, poisonous tree with sweet fruits... either way you have to be very careful when handling one. Anyway, he doesn't like being reminded of growing up and ditching his childish ways.. I guess I will keep pressing on it until he either change his ways or part ways.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 May 17
@Shavkat he is like a loyal puppy when he wants something, but when he is out there he behaves like an abnormal person.
@Shavkat (139827)
• Philippines
9 May 17
@waflay I hope it is not empty can.
@JediYoda (1646)
• Samoa
5 May 17
You need to part ways in some stage. Yes telling the truth is hard and it also hurts.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 17
Yeah, I know I have to let him go least to give him a chance to grow up.
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@JediYoda (1646)
• Samoa
10 May 17
@waflay That's the right thing to do I guess.
@breine (97)
5 May 17
Say you are on proscription therapy, he will leave on his own hehehehe
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 May 17
Good idea.. Oops! I wonder if he would understand that either. I worry that his mind does not work like a normal human being.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
5 May 17
haha..may work out
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