Annoyed and Upset : (

Banks, Oregon
May 6, 2017 1:08am CST
I was so looking forward to finally having a nice weekend with friends, i even found out my friend Tammy is going to see our mutual friends Kim and Alex on Saturday, and Sunday... This all sounds great i can catch a ride with Tammy and we can go have a fun weekend with our besties, only problem is apparently this is a girls only event as they are having a "Pure Romance Party" What a major bummer, it has been 5 weekends since i have gotten to hang out with my friends and i was so looking forward to seeing them all this weekend, i have never had a party and not invited them, i understand this is a girls event apparently but it still hurts... And i know next weekend i will not be able to hang out with them because we have my nephew for the weekend, so once again it's a no fun weekend for Chris... I guess i will have myLot to keep me company this weekend.....Sigh My life is so exciting.......NOT!!!
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
6 May 17
Even my weekend is boring.. I chose to make it boring.. I hate going out.. specially in summer.. I don't feel like talking to anyone nowadays..
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
I need occasional time with real life friends....
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• India
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom I know how it feels.. but you can always go out and enjoy being alone for a while..
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
6 May 17
we should listen to our heart and do what ever we feel comfortable.
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@crossbones27 (49401)
• Mojave, California
6 May 17
Welcome to the club here or jail for me. Glad you have other options. Not that I am like that but town has a thing for when I go out in public. Ducking and dodging police. It has been many years but still certain my mindset ends me no where but jail.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
I Spent one night in jail, stupidest moment of my life lead me there, lots of community service, lots of fines, lots of therapy, lots of wasted time..... ugh But now i do not drink very often and i've never been a bad drunk just make some stupid decision, luckily i have good friends whom make sure i don't.... I guess i am going to there party after all but i am hiding out watching netflix upstairs while there stupid Pure Romance sponsor is there then when she leaves the actual party starts, because the party don't start till i walk in lol
@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 May 17
I'm sorry to hear that you won't be able to hang out with your friends. It's not always fun when fun plans change like this at the last minute. I hope things work out and you can still have some fun.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom At least you are able to hang out with them, which is good. Hope it works out and you have fun.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
@dodo19 I hope so I need fun outing with friends
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
We we're able to work out where i am going to hang out with them just got to disappear for a few hours which shouldnt be a problem....
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@Shavkat (139702)
• Philippines
6 May 17
My weekend is so boring for some people. But I love being in mylot and do some online classes.
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@Shavkat (139702)
• Philippines
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom I agree. We need to socialize too. It can balance our lives.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
It could be worse my friend, i do enjoy me time and mylot and online classes is great, but every few weekends i need friend time...
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
@Shavkat yes helps with depression
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• United States
6 May 17
Yes at least we are better than nothing hahah
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• United States
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom Oh are you going to them now the girls or? Well have a nice time whereever you go see you later Chris.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
I will be going out after all but I will try to stop in here a little bit throughout the day
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
@TiarasOceanView I guess the party is Sunday so we are hanging out tonight then tomorrow to but for a few hours I will be upstairs or next doors
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
6 May 17
Dont worry now that my little cousins dont come on the weekends, my life is boring too.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom nope. My "bestfriend" is two circles down and doesnt bother to make much time for me. We are barely talking nevermind hanging out. Lol. But rhats okay cause ive learned not everyone will be true to you like you are to them.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
@Courtlynn yes some friends always expect you to be there for them but are not always there for you
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
I am sorry do you not have a close friend who might come visit you?
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@MGjhaud (23240)
• Philippines
6 May 17
is it Tammy the mylotter?
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
Nope
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
6 May 17
You are not the only one. My weekend is not going as planned. There is a flood over here and we can't go out
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom I can understand how it feels like when your plans get cancelled. Let us hope that things get better for the next weekends
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
So sorry much worse then my problems
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
@Nawsheen agreed I will B going out after all I guess
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• Valdosta, Georgia
6 May 17
I'm sorry your weekend plans were ruined. =( I usually stay home on the weekends as well. Sometimes I wish we were able to get out of the house more but this is life.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
Yes it's sad when plans don't go as we hoped
@Juliaacv (51060)
• Canada
6 May 17
That's no fun that they are having a girls only party, they should have put it off and had it another time so that you could visit with them. But, thankfully there is the website here. And its open 24/7.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
Well we worked it out, apparently the Pure Romance representative that comes out it is in there guidelines no men allowed at there events, so it's not my friends fault but still upsetting, i am going to go and chill out upstairs and watch netflix with my other guy friend who will be there and when representtive leaves we can go downstairs and join the party.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
6 May 17
I am sorry to hear that @chrissbergstrom , I don't get why after a certain age friends can't just get together without themes. I would rather just be with my friends male and female without worrying about a all girls all guys kind of thing.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
6 May 17
@chrissbergstrom , yes, I am sorry to say, but it is silly to not spend time with all your friends, no matter male or female, when a person can get a chance. I hope you still have a good weekend.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
It is silly isn't it
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
@bluesa thanks I think I will
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@Freelanzer (10743)
• Canada
6 May 17
It sucks to be left out of things like that but good that you are still friends and can meet up again.
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
Yes we are and we will meet up later
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
6 May 17
So very sorry. Boo hoo! We cancelled plans for tonight, so you can hang out with me an myLot!
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• Banks, Oregon
6 May 17
My friends are having a party with me instead I am loved :)
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@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
9 May 17
Well that's a drag. Girls seem to do this sort of thing a lot.
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• Banks, Oregon
9 May 17
Yep it's annoying
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@sissy15 (12290)
• United States
7 May 17
Sometimes it happens. There have been a lot of things I wasn't invited to but I figure that's time I can do something I want as I am not a fan of social gatherings anyway. I actually don't like being invited to things lol. I just use those times as a way to find something else to do that I might enjoy better. 5 weeks is still better than how long it has been since I've seen my best friends. It's been over a year since I saw one and about 3 or 4 months since I've seen the other. I've learned to deal with it. While disappointing, it's not like you can't figure something else out for later, maybe you can see if they'd like to do something after if they have time.
• United States
7 May 17
That is a bummer. There is always next time hopefully sooner than later!!
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
6 May 17
Now that is not cool. Anyway, atleast you have some people who would keep you busy and before you know it, it will be fun just as you expected. Have a funful time Chris.
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@prashu228 (37524)
• India
6 May 17
weekend is already planned so well. Hope you have a great time ,unlike what you think. I like to spend my weekend with my family always.
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• United States
7 May 17
Well I remember long ago , that was the thing have a party like that, it was called something else, don't remember.. All girls, but 2 men were invited and attended. I think everyone , just went to visit and eat, sales were not big for the hostess.
@spiderdust (14761)
• San Jose, California
7 May 17
We're happy to have you, but I know we're no substitute for hanging out in real life with friends.