Women should learn to treat women right........yes its true.

Roorkee, India
May 11, 2017 10:11am CST
I went nuts at my mother-in law's reaction when my husband misbehaved with me, she said- "This happen, don't expect your husband to be like your father. This is not a big deal,men usually misbehave more than this."
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
12 May 17
Girl.. I gotta tell you. These mother-in-laws are hard to understand. They just want to tell you who the boss is in this house. But.. listen to me.. if your husband misbehaves with you again.. just tell him straightaway that you're not going to tolerate all this.
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• India
12 May 17
@Himanshi27 exactly..
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• Roorkee, India
12 May 17
Ofcourse, I am not someone who will accept this behavior just for the sake of staying together.
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@manasamanu (3746)
• Bangalore, India
12 May 17
That's bad but believe me this is what happens in most of the families in India. Women speak of man ill treating them but on the other hand the women itself doesn't treat another women with respect. Indian mother-in-laws wants only to prove their domination over daughter-in-laws. They fails to see that they were also once in the same position and what it had felt for them to be there.
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• Roorkee, India
12 May 17
They want us to go through d same humiliation as she herself did. And that too without any complain. Seriously unbelievable mindset.
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• Bangalore, India
12 May 17
@Himanshi27 Yes they never feel the other way
• United States
11 May 17
Mothers will always stick up for their kids, usually, not always but usually. This is why there is so much contention with mother in laws and daughter in laws. I agree though, if a man does something wrong then call it.
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• Roorkee, India
11 May 17
As per me she should have advised him to behave properly with his better half, but the reaction was totally opposite.
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• United States
11 May 17
@Himanshi27 Yes she should have it is not right that she did not, I agree.
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@Kandae11 (54986)
11 May 17
I agree, women should be more thoughtful of the feelings of other women.
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• Roorkee, India
11 May 17
Good to hear that you feel this way... mother in laws expect us to go through the pain just because they did it too.
@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
12 May 17
I agree with other members responded here... So what did your husband say to you about his misbehaving?
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
13 May 17
@Himanshi27 Maybe you should forgive him this time... at least he said sorry (even if he didn't mean it). You live with your parents in law?
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• Roorkee, India
12 May 17
He said sorry...but after seeing his behavior I wasn't in a mood to accept his sorry.
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• Roorkee, India
13 May 17
@atoz1to10 No currently at my own house.
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@dragon68 (757)
11 May 17
@Himanshi27 Case of tolerating the intolerable? Maybe its about time to teach your mother-in-law about women's right or human rights, but I doubt if she'll understand. From what i gathered from your post, she is a prison of tradition.
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@dragon68 (757)
14 May 17
@Himanshi27 Ok I got your point. Thanks.
• Roorkee, India
12 May 17
Traditions- are all in men's favour. No man keeps fast for her lady. It's only women who are bound in the name of traditions.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
12 May 17
I am so grateful my husband doesn't speak with his mother-because of how she treated me and our children. Makes my life much easier.
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• Roorkee, India
13 May 17
Great, good to hear that you are happy.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
11 May 17
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