Why are people so fake?

i will say me my life seems fabricated but its not im just a very lucky guy and i dont care if people dont believe me because at the end of the day i know its true. everything i said on this site is true i have no reason to lie. and yes people arnt nice that way wtch out they will eat you alive

Everyone is different, those of us who are phonies or superficial are probably insecure or have childhood issues that haven't been resolved. If your interested you might want to checkout Dr. Phil's book, "Self Matters". Lasting friendships are hard to come by or you may just be having the worst luck in gaining friends. In any case, if we just take care of ourselves and support each other, we are doing the best we can and that's all we can do. From a friend.

I think that people just try to build themselves up, try to be something that they are not. I tell people that I only know how to be one person and that is me so, there is not any fakeness here. Some people are just embarrassed at where they are in life, or jealous of where the other person is so they make themselves look better. It's a shame. To thine own self be true. How horrible is it when you can't even be true to yourself???

Most people want to impress others. Especially if they think the other person is actually better than they are. Get to know people before you invest to much into the friendship. Make sure you are meeting people in the right place as well. That has a lot to do with the type of people they are.

Those types of people are usually insecure about themselves. I think it's just the way some people are unfortunately.

It's a fact of life, it's already been given since the start of life, you should not be concerned about it. It's a human nature you can't fix, but the best thing that you can do is be your self.

they are trying to be accepted, generally speaking

There are going to be a lot of people you encounter in life that are like that. I'd even say 85%. I'll tell you what I was told a few years ago that helped. Don't go telling everybody your business because that lays out the welcome mat for back stabbing, be friends with people outside of work and only be friends with people who are as honorable as you are to yourself. If you have any reservations about a person, you're probably right so stay away from them. good luck to you..

You'll be rich when you can answer that question lol. honestly I dont know why people are the way they are. sometimes they thing they have to or that its a better way to things than being, real, genuine, and honest. no its not just you. some people are natural born jerks, then theres the compulsive liars and such. thats life ya know. youll meet good friends soon

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