How many times did you count to 10 and nothing happened?

@gilggg (2538)
Israel
May 15, 2017 7:40am CST
How many times have you been angry at someone, but you did not want to start a fight with him, so you counted up to 10 to calm down, but nothing happened? I always try to avoid a quarrel and to try to solve it diplomatically or creatively to calm things down, But it does not always work out for me. How do you deal with such a situation?
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@Shavkat (139694)
• Philippines
15 May 17
I just get away first and deal with it after.
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
15 May 17
Thank you - That's nice approach to deal with the situation
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@Shavkat (139694)
• Philippines
15 May 17
@gilggg I think this is the best way to prevent worsening the conflicts.
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• United States
4 Jun 17
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• Scranton, Pennsylvania
15 May 17
I've never really been a "count to 10" type of person... too much steam can build up in those ten seconds. :-) Seriously, though, I either deal with things immediately or leave the situation until I *can* deal with it rationally.... no counting needed,
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• Scranton, Pennsylvania
15 May 17
@gilggg No, it's not the same... I'm saying i don't stick around long enough to count to 10. :-)
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
15 May 17
You are saying: " leave the situation until I *can* deal with it " -Isn't it like "count to 10" ?
@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
15 May 17
@Katharina Got it
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
2 Jun 17
I try to keep my calm then I go somewhere where I can be alone and vent out all my anger. I try no to vent on people as far as possible
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@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
2 Jun 17
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
2 Jun 17
Thank you good idea
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• Valdosta, Georgia
4 Jun 17
When I'm angry like that after counting to 5, I pray about the situation.
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
4 Jun 17
What are you praying for?
• United States
16 May 17
Oh that counting to ten crap never works for me either. Either I am going to tear into you or not hahah
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• United States
4 Jun 17
@gilggg Yeah I wish something would work but nothing unless I leave the scene away from the fight.
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
4 Jun 17
lol
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
4 Jun 17
I try my best to control myself, but once in a while I must admit that I lose "it".
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
4 Jun 17
Sometime I'm also lose "it"...
@dhoyalahoy (1414)
• Philippines
15 May 17
Enjoy and have fun! Interact and exchange ideas with co-mylotters. For sure you will learn a lot here.
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
15 May 17
That's what I'm doing..
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@JediYoda (1646)
• Samoa
29 May 17
If counting from 1 to 20 don't work then I simply go away or keep my distance, otherwise if will be a different story for me.
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@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
29 May 17