How Many kids Are To Many?
@deseree (20)
Memphis, Tennessee
May 15, 2017 2:17pm CST
What's you all's limits on kids? I want maybe 5. I know a alot of men and women who argue on the amount of kids they want in their relationship. Men TYPICALLY want less while the woman wants more. Me and my husband have decided that it depends on financial matter's of course.
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@marguicha (223129)
• Chile
15 May 17
It depends on a lot of things although money is important. But I would be very unhappy if I had had a lot of chidren. Yet other people love big families.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 May 17
My husband and I never disagreed on the amount of children and we both wanted kids. Thank God. We have 5 kids. =) No one really has "enough" money for kids but if you wait until you do you will never have kids.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 May 17
@deseree Absolutely it's not always easy but God makes a way. And they are worth every sacrifice you have to make. =)
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
15 May 17
Well i have told my boyfriend i want kids, but since he already has two boys he doesnt want anymore, but me on the other end i have no children and would love to have at least one and experience it myself. He is a great father and i would like for him to be a great father one day to my child with him as well, but i dont see that happening anytime soon thats for sure even though i have told him, he still doesnt want any we will see if that changes down the road and im not getting any younger either.
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@deseree (20)
• Memphis, Tennessee
15 May 17
One more kid won't hurt . He has to meet you half way. If you are to have a kid with him it will all work out.
@Courtlynn (67083)
• United States
15 May 17
I think two or three is enough. But everyone is different.
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
15 May 17
If life would have been different, I would have thought 2 to be the limit. I only had one.
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@JESSY3236 (19941)
• United States
16 May 17
I don't want kids. My fiance doesn't want kids either. I think one is enough.
@DesirousDreamer (34776)
• Peoria, Arizona
15 May 17
5 kids is a lot haha but I also agree at the number of 4 or 5. I would like to have 2 or 3 kids of my own and also adopt 2 kids. But yes it all depends on financial means.
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
20 May 17
I think our mindset depends on the culture we have been grown up in. In earlier generations in my culture, having 4-7 kids was normal. Nowadays, here in India people usually restrict themselves in having 1-4 kids.
@spaceseed (2843)
• India
16 May 17
if kids are happy you feel like oh god i wish i have another one like this, other wise oh gosh how could i get rid of them.
I have 2 daughters when they are playing and contended I like and adhore them, and if they are fighting.........I feel like running away from that place
@stapllotik (1933)
• India
16 May 17
In my country people have more than 10 kids immaterial of their financial situation