Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage?
@lali8380 (22)
Durgapur, India
May 18, 2017 12:26am CST
Different people have different opinion about it.Some thinks that Arrange marriage is good.The parents can check properly whether the Boy or Girl is suitable for their child or not.
Where as some believes that Love marriage is good as they them self can check the person they are going to live for ever.
What is your preference my friend?
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
18 May 17
I always preferred love marriage because even two very good people cannot be suitable for each other. when it's love marriage, you know the person and the compatibility level. In india, divorce is a big thing, so better choose the right partner.
But see the irony, i had an arranged marriage !!
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
18 May 17
@HAPPSINGH yeah, fortunately it did not go wrong. And the best part is i can yell on my parents if anything goes wrong ever, i have someone to put the blame..lol
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
18 May 17
@HAPPSINGH Thanks. But you know, fights are important too, else life becomes so monotonous
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 May 17
What do you think? It depends on your culture and how you value the will of your parents. Some would wish to go for love, but they fear to go against parental wishes...hence accepting an arranged marriage. Others like me have no choice but to hunt for love in all terrains. Parents have nothing to say, and would not be there to make the decision for you. But they will be there to either accept your choice or decline you your dear love. Either way, it is up to them to make the final say... and it is upon us to take heed or to go against them.
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@Sweetyt05 (484)
• Ranchi, India
18 May 17
@HAPPSINGH search for a perfct guy....whom my parents like....but as per indian rules ....same caste ....heheheheee
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
18 May 17
Marriage is becoming more-&-more like 'just the next-level of dating,' and I would rather turn it back into the life-partnership that God is said to have meant it to be---makes me mad at Christians who claim to get into marriage 'for love alone,' when Our Father (if they want to stick to their story) obviously wanted us each to marry 'the spouse our parents bring to us.'
The "Love" develops later ... if you're lucky.
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@cmoneyspinner (9219)
• Austin, Texas
19 May 17
A marriage whether arranged or by individual choice is not a marriage without love. A loveless union is just two people legally attached by a piece of paper or a custom or tradition or whatever it is that took a single person and made them "not single" and united to another person.
@GrannyGee (3517)
• Louisburg, North Carolina
18 May 17
Truthfully ... I'm not sure what to think as in our country we don't do that. If it's done here ... I'm not aware of it. I respect the customs of everyone.
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
20 May 17
Both have pro's and con's... Rest depends on choice of the individual
@Elisa1234 (7607)
• Philippines
18 May 17
I would choose love marriage. I wanna marry the person I loved
For the arrange marriage If I'm in love with that person at first sight, at the same time I am single, then I'll go for it.
For the arrange marriage If I'm in love with that person at first sight, at the same time I am single, then I'll go for it. 