Are You A Pessimist, An Optimist Or A Realist?

Singapore
May 22, 2017 2:49am CST
I heared this story from a friend that a pessimist is one who only see the darkness inside the tunnel; while an optimist see the light at the end of the tunnel; while a realist does not only see the darkness inside the tunnel and the light at the end of tunnel but see what goes beyond the end of the tunnel as well.
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
22 May 17
I believe that I am a realist. I try not to let pessimism get the best of me. but there are certain situations it rears it's ugly head. I find Optimism is great. Give you hope and helps you plow thru situations.. I try to see the world thru both of these conditions
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@minx267 That's a good point of view!
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@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
22 May 17
@magnumopus I believe it is healthier than being overly pessimistic. and really, who wants to be around a Debbie Downer all the time.. ? lol
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@Elisa1234 (7607)
• Philippines
22 May 17
I am a Pessimist!, For I always expects undesirable outcomes
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@Elisa1234 It's alright for being a pessimist, an optimist or a realist involves no moral judgment upon the person nor does it reflect how "good' or how "bad" we are as a person.
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@Elisa1234 (7607)
• Philippines
22 May 17
@HAPPSINGH If I have a future
@Elisa1234 (7607)
• Philippines
22 May 17
@magnumopus yeah you're right. How about you?
• Austin, Texas
22 May 17
Optimistic realist.
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• Singapore
23 May 17
@cmoneyspinner That's good to know from you.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
29 May 17
I would classify myself as a realist.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
29 May 17
@magnumopus I think I am also a moderate person.
• Singapore
29 May 17
@marlina It's good to be a realist since you have a sense of balance.
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@Kandae11 (55162)
22 May 17
My answer is the same as @responsiveme
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• India
22 May 17
• Singapore
22 May 17
@Kandae11 Tha's fine.
@VyckyT (64)
22 May 17
I feel like I'm a hopeless optimist. This is usually not a good thing, since things don't always have a happy ending
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@VyckyT We also need to look at the brighter and sunny side of things.
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
22 May 17
Very well said..hehehe..I guess I am a Realist
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• Germany
22 May 17
• Singapore
22 May 17
@m_audrey6788 I'm also a realist.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
29 May 17
in that case i guess you would call me a realist. i see all that but at times, i am pretty much a pessimist also cause sometimes there is no light any can see
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• Singapore
29 May 17
@bunnybon7 It's ok 'cause we have a different perspectives in life.
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• Preston, England
23 May 17
@magnumopus The light at the end of the tunnel is that of the oncoming train - I see myself as a pessimistic realist
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• Singapore
24 May 17
@arthurchappell Ok thanks for your response.
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@just4him (317241)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 May 17
I know I'm an optimist, but with this definition, I could also be a realist.
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@just4him It's good that you don't entertain any negative thoughts.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
22 May 17
A realist is also a pessimist.
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• Singapore
22 May 17
Yup, so the equation for you is Realist=Pessimist.
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
29 May 17
Then I am an optimist and a little of realist
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• Singapore
29 May 17
@ShifaLk Ok thank you for your reply.
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@BloggerDi (3113)
• United States
23 May 17
I've been referring to myself as a realistic optimist for a long time.
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• Singapore
23 May 17
@BloggerDi That's cool.
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@Essjayd (1567)
22 May 17
I think I can be all 3 it just depends on the situation I'm in at the time!
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@Essjayd Yep, you can be 3 in 1.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
22 May 17
I am all at different times
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@responsivime You're so adaptable I guess.
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@shaynas (5487)
• India
22 May 17
I don't know about the tunnel, but i feel i am a realist
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• Singapore
22 May 17
@shaynas That's great!
@Julie555 (4155)
• Russian Federation
30 May 17
Most of the time I am realist with periods of optimism
• Singapore
30 May 17
@Julie555 That's good to hear my friend.
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@EMuhungi (1712)
• Nairobi, Kenya
1 Jun 17
I used to be an optimist but from today i am a realist.