Way too judgemental
By shravya
@Slayqueen (918)
India
May 25, 2017 11:40am CST
My friends made a plan to meet up and hangout at hukkah centre. I don't like hukkah, so I didn't do it.
So we were sitting here and they were supposed to meet up an old friend, I didn't knew her. She came with her sister. For like first 10-15 mintues everything felt awkward. As no one had anything to talk about and it was super awkward for me as I was meeting them for first time.
Anyway, I decided to start a conversation with them and asked them about their plans and stuff like that. I really liked these people, they were free and confident. Now after a while, it was time to say goodbye..
After they left, my friends started laughing on them, making jokes on them and totally saying mean things about these girls?. I said "I think they're not as bad as you all are describe. They're really nice".. and then they made fun of me saying that they're not good, they're fake and put too much makeup..
I felt weird.. They are way too judgemental?. If someone does put on makeup, they're mocked by that. If someone does like to talk, they're claimed as "fake" 
What is wrong with them! 
What is wrong with them! 6 people like this
8 responses
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
26 May 17
@Slayqueen that was something bad they did. Did you talk to.your friends about it
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
I don't like backbit*hing too. It's not cool. And they even met these people once! And they judged them so quickly.
@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
@Nawsheen at that time I told them that it's not so cool. They seem really nice. And they said "they were being fake and look at her makeup.. oh god.. is she going to a wedding or what" I stopped talking.. 
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
26 May 17
Gosh..I have some friends like that 
..but in a way they are just expressing their own point of view and I respect that..I hope they will realize that when someone will do the same thing to them..
..but in a way they are just expressing their own point of view and I respect that..I hope they will realize that when someone will do the same thing to them..1 person likes this
@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
26 May 17
@Slayqueen I guess you are right..they might not realize it..
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
@m_audrey6788 yes.. so it's just waste of time. And waste of my mind's energy to think about it.. 
@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
That's why I don't say anything to them, I don't want to offend them in anyway. I don't think they will ever realize that. And if they still do, I don't think they would care..
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
25 May 17
You should tell those guys they are jealous and losers.
Not nice friends there.
Good you were very nice to the girls that came in.
You are different from mean guys.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
I can't say these things to them because they are still my friends and I don't want to hurt them. And if I do say something, I would be just all alone.. no one to support me.
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
25 May 17
I know right? Who judges people based on their makeup? I find it so stupid..
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@CRK109 (14556)
• United States
25 May 17
@Slayqueen I love people who can be individuals, whether it's their makeup or clothes or what. And people who judge them should look in the mirror first.
@Slayqueen (918)
• India
25 May 17
@CRK109 exactly. I don't think anyone understands that.. they just find it easy to dig up negative points rather than positive..
they just find it easy to dig up negative points rather than positive..
@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
25 May 17
It happens. There is such a thing as too much make up. But your "friends" arent that great of people either apparently
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@Courtlynn (67081)
• United States
26 May 17
@Slayqueen so maybe you shohld say soemthing. And if they get mad, then scrw them
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
Yes. But those girls did normal makeup, like every other girl does. I didn't think it was too much. My friends should realise that they're not perfect either to judge someone..
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
@Courtlynn I can't say anything to them, I don't want them to feel bad. They're hypocrites though.. but still.. I can't get new friends anymore..
@deepamukherjee (120)
• Bangalore, India
31 May 17
Hi friend,
I am not sure if I should say so or not but your friends are sick and they are not unique. U would find many such people with these mind sets . There are people who love to backstabs people. If any girl is applying
applying? make up and is speaking friendly to guys then she is not wrong but the people who took her for wrong are sick... I hate these kind of people. If you don't like anybody why to pretend to like this person.
No idea...just hate double minded people :-(
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@Slayqueen (918)
• India
1 Jun 17
Yes.. even I don't like these type of people.. they're hypocrites.. they all watched a web series where a girl is very much modern.. they instantly liked it. But when they see such type of modern girls in reality, they judge her.. I mean what is up with that?
@Slayqueen (918)
• India
26 May 17
Yess.. I don't know what's wrong with people nowadays.. why can't they be positive and think good stuff about other people. I am not saying that be positive all the time but sometimes in situations like this, we should be..
@Slayqueen (918)
• India
25 May 17
Maybe you're right.. they might be jealous or insecure of something..
