Manage conflict in a workplace
By JM12
@jnesperos (269)
Davao, Philippines
May 28, 2017 2:51am CST
In a certain field of work, when problems arise in different situation, we have to remain calm. First in ourselves. We must try to understand his or her side. If ever the conflict is between you and to a certain co worker, try to be open to him or her,talk with him in a nice manner and open our ears to listen to his or her point of view. We must show a very constructive discussion so that conflict will be solve and we can work together in a god sense. We don't reject the opinion of other people. We must make helpful comments or suggestions,then try to find a point of agreement. We don't need to bring the conflict into a bigger situation, it should be settle as soon as possible
How about you? Are you at peace with your co worker?
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11 responses
@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
Yes, sometimes only one person is the root of the big problem,maybe there's a problem with his or her personality
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
@VyckyT ooh That's difficult, I reckon that's normal for the boss? Coz he is the boss but we should treat each other fairly, even if you're a boss or just a normal and and innocent one.
@gilggg (2538)
• Israel
28 May 17
@jnesperos I meant that we were turning to the opinion of a third person to mediate between us in the debate, ?ut it's rare that it happens
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
@gilggg o yeah I understand, sometimes in office issues third person is also being involved to say something or whatever
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
It's nice to solve your problem earlier and never let it bigger. And what do you mean about third party?
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
No, for me it's hard to work wellif you have problems with your co worker or in a workplace, we should talk about it in a nice way
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
28 May 17
@jnesperos There are two groups in my office and they are hostile to each other.I have joined neither, but have good relations with Co workers in each of them.However it's not that easy.LOL!!
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@else34 (13515)
• New Delhi, India
28 May 17
@jnesperos Okay,I'll try.Thanks a lot.
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
@else34 you're always welcome I hope you're doing good :)
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
For me you should hang out with them, you should express yourself, and have a lil chat with them every day,i guess that'll help
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
28 May 17
When I'm at work I tend to be by myself...but I'm happy to chat with others and help out any way I can... If there is a problem and it's not big, I will keep quiet... I'm lucky that no one really bothers me yet..
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
29 May 17
@jnesperos I remember there was a time this person talk behind my back about something I did. It was ok if she only said it one time, but she went around saying it to every one and then another person came asking me about it. I confronted her with another person as the witness... she denied.
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
29 May 17
@atoz1to10 oh I think she wants you to be fired? Or somethiNg,coz one thing I'm sure, she's just jealous and can't accept the fact that you're better than her, that's normal, you'll have to stick what's right and say the truth,thats all I can say
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
I like the way you handle that issue but if something bothers you,you should tell hor her so that she or he could somehow be aware of what he or she'd done
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@popciclecold (38919)
• United States
28 May 17
Its a good thing for problems to be worked out. I have seen where police have to get involved.
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@popciclecold (38919)
• United States
28 May 17
@jnesperos I am not in the work force, like before, I help older people. But from watching the news and seeing all that goes on, its really scary.
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
Yes even the little ones, coz big problems always started with a small ones
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@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
28 May 17
But if your co-worker doesn't want to see your point of view, then screw that guy. Maybe the problem is not with you, but with your co-worker instead.
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
I totally agree with you coz I've been in that scene, but a lot of patience is a virtue and so we overcome the problem
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
28 May 17
Mostly because I teach and it's more about students.
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
Ah good to know that you're teaching, you should have be more patient especially youreein that field
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@Margaret29 (100)
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28 May 17
My work place is very horrible because of my partner, who always wants to be at the top. And for this she plays some tricks in which others get trapped. Workplace politics is very difficult to handle....
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@Margaret29 (100)
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28 May 17
@jnesperos yes you are absolutely right...no denying that fact. Anyhow I have to manage and keep on...
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@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
Oh I hope you two would overcome this problem sooner. Competition will always be part in academic matters in schools and also in any work at office, we can't deny the fact that there are still people who possess crab mentality, am i right?
@jnesperos (269)
• Davao, Philippines
28 May 17
@Margaret29 yes sometimes we just have to ignore people's rubbish attitude and just go with the flow, we're not working to please them, right?
