Time to Change my Profile Picture

@BettyB (4117)
Summerville, South Carolina
June 4, 2017 1:55pm CST
A few days ago I read and commented on one of All is Well... @manikarnika posts. She asked if we preferred black or white hair. As my hair is white and has been since I was thirty, it was easy to respond. Unfortunately it has bugged me ever since. My hair is white but I hid that fact for years. The day after I retired I sat in the beautician’s chair for four hours as she stripped all the color out of my hair. I was tired of coloring it, but I refused to live with the two tone look for a year. It’s been a year since I returned to my natural hair color (which is no color) but I was still sporting brown hair on my profile picture. I hate taking selfies but it was time to do it. So I have white hair and a face full of wrinkles. I am who I am.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
4 Jun 17
You don't look very wrinkly to me, and I like white hair. Here's what I look like with my own white hair.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
5 Jun 17
@DianneN How sweet of you to say so
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
5 Jun 17
You look wonderful!!!
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• India
5 Jun 17
@jaboUK Yeah...Really looking pretty
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
5 Jun 17
My hair also turned grey when I was in my thirties. Actually mine is silver. My hairdresser would not color mine. He said many women paid hundreds of dollars to get my color. So I've never colored my hair.Yours looks very pretty.
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@RubyHawk (99405)
• Atlanta, Georgia
6 Jun 17
@BettyB Before my hair turned grey, I put in red highlights but never any color afterwards.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
6 Jun 17
@RubyHawk My younger sister adds red highlights but she claims its natural. I know better.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
I'm happy with my hair but I do need a haircut. My husband is older than me, but he doesn't have a gray hair on his head. I think that's why I colored it as long as I did.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
5 Jun 17
my mother's hair looks better now that it's all white. your hair was all white when you were only 30?
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• Philippines
6 Jun 17
@BettyB do premature graying run in your family?
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
Yep. It started turning in my mid twenties. I colored it before my wedding and colored it from then on. The only time I didn't was when I was pregnant. When I went to pick my youngest son up from the daycare when he was an infant someone commented on my beautiful grandchild. I colored my hair again that night.
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@Juliaacv (51543)
• Canada
5 Jun 17
I just love your white hair, its beautiful. I have salt and pepper hair, and that darned grey is so stubborn, I look forward to the day that it turns all white. And, I prefer your current photo over the other one, I don't see a face full of wrinkles, you actually look relaxed-a side-effect of retirement from what I'm told.
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@Juliaacv (51543)
• Canada
5 Jun 17
@BettyB Mine won't hold colour, I used to have low lights put in, just to add a bit of definition, but even those wouldn't hold after a while. I get a lot of compliments on my salt and pepper hair. And like you, I don't want to live thru that two tone stage, I remember when my mother went thru that, and I couldn't believe what a long process it was.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
6 Jun 17
@Juliaacv I do not regret retiring.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
If mine was gray I would probably still be coloring it.
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@LadyDuck (472124)
• Switzerland
5 Jun 17
You have not at all a face full of wrinkles. I also turned grey very young and dyed my hair for years, but no more now. Silver grey is not that bad after all.
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@LadyDuck (472124)
• Switzerland
5 Jun 17
@BettyB You look great and you have not changed a bit, except the color of the hair.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
Photo shop is a wonderful program. I erased more than a few of them.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
6 Jun 17
@LadyDuck Thanks.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
5 Jun 17
To be honest, I love your light and bright shade of white hair better. It brightens your unwrinkled face and looks lovely on you!
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
5 Jun 17
@BettyB I'm sure it's better than having gray roots, too. Love it!
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
I knew it was white and not gray before I had the color stripped out. My sister's hair is white. She never colored hers.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
6 Jun 17
@DianneN So true. My hair grows fast. I had to color it every three weeks.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
4 Jun 17
Honestly, I think it suits you. You look great.
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
4 Jun 17
@BettyB lol. I can understand.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
4 Jun 17
Thanks. Sometimes I miss the old cameras that didn't pick up all the detail. I wish some of the wrinkles didn't show up on the picture.
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• United States
4 Jun 17
well, howdy beautiful lady! there aint nothin' wrong with grey/white hair 'n wrinkles! jest means we've lived 'n loved, won 'n lost. ya look jest gorgeous :) big hugs!!
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
Pretending to be younger than I am doesn't change the facts. I was ready to embrace my age and retirement.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
5 Jun 17
I love your boldness - you are beautiful with your silver cover. Soon, I shall be going silver soon
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
I was startled every time I looked in the mirror for the first month.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
5 Jun 17
You look awesome @BettyB ! Once I start going too grey, I think I will also stop colouring and revel in silver.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
Thanks. My older sister has showed off her white hair for years. Mines visible now, but my younger sister is still holding out. I think its because hers is gray and not white.
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@1creekgirl (41778)
• United States
4 Jun 17
I think you look even younger with your natural color!
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@1creekgirl (41778)
• United States
5 Jun 17
@BettyB No way!
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
I agree but my husband swears it makes me look ten years older.
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• United States
5 Jun 17
I think you look wonderful with your natural hair.
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• United States
11 Jun 17
@BettyB It's a pretty color of silver not just a dull gray
@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
It's easier to deal with. I was so tired of coloring my hair.
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@Kandae11 (55172)
5 Jun 17
I don't see any wrinkles - and the white hair looks gorgeous.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
They are there. I played with Photoshop just a bit. Vanity I guess.
@manikarnika (3236)
• India
5 Jun 17
Yeah...You're really beautiful...Also it may be anything that we get old with wrinkles...But it is not at all an issue.Because our beloved family and friends always like us even though if we are virtual.yeah...here soul matters...
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
The wrinkles and white hair don't change who I am. I have a loving family and that's all that matters.
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• India
5 Jun 17
@BettyB yeah...You're absolutely right
@Nawsheen (28643)
• Mauritius
4 Jun 17
You still look beautiful in this white hair
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
4 Jun 17
Thank you. It wasn't an easy decision to make, but I'm happy with it.
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• United States
4 Jun 17
I like it Betty! You look much the same just the white hair and it looks awesome on you Oh yeah that two toned while the color is growing out is for the birds.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
4 Jun 17
I have some friends that went the two tone route but I knew I couldn't do it.
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@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
8 Jun 17
We can't see wrinkles in your photo, and you look the same, but with white hair! No want should feel they have to color their hair forever. If it is something a person wants to do, great, but it seems like something a person would get really tired of doing @BettyB
@Tampa_girl7 (50579)
• United States
4 Jun 17
Your hair is a pretty shade of white
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
5 Jun 17
Thanks. I like the white but I don't think I could handle gray.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
31 Dec 17
I am glad you enjoy your white hair. I guess I am still not at that point so I color my hair.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
4 Jun 17
What do they use to strip color out of hair? I have always wondered that lol.
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@BettyB (4117)
• Summerville, South Carolina
4 Jun 17
I don't know what she used. I had to go to six different beauty shops before I found someone that knew what she was doing. She worked in the shop part time and taught at a beauty school full time. Most didn't have a clue as to how to tackle the problem.