Reject them, before they reject you
@allknowing (136540)
India
June 7, 2017 1:08am CST
We come across situations where you see people getting ready to reject you either in the real or virtual world.
This you notice when they do not return your calls or respond to emails, etc. The best is to reject them before they reject you for your own peace.
I have done that specially when it comes to my nieces and nephews and oh boy they are missing me and how
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
7 Jun 17
@valmnz For me it depends on the intensity of our past relationship. If it was great and a step is taken to wind it up for whatever reason I would like me to be the one to initiate it.
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
7 Jun 17
I am not sure either what you mean 
If you notice there is a drift in relationship - a sign that says - I have no time for you - before it becomes official I should be the one to say it (lol)
If you notice there is a drift in relationship - a sign that says - I have no time for you - before it becomes official I should be the one to say it (lol)1 person likes this
@valmnz (17097)
• New Zealand
7 Jun 17
@allknowing i always like to leave doors open
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
No one likes to be rejected or ignored. However, there are some who make you feel that either they are deliberately ignoring or they are going to reject you, if that gut feelings comes, it is wiser to reject/ignore them.
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
7 Jun 17
Two of my nieces want to be friends with me on FB. I have ignored it. They want a virtual relationship but not a real one.1 person likes this
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
7 Jun 17
@allknowing I think your made them feel disappointed by rejecting their facebook friend request. 
Now a days younger generation has no time for real relationship, virtual relationship gives them a kind of cover to hide themselves.
Now a days younger generation has no time for real relationship, virtual relationship gives them a kind of cover to hide themselves.2 people like this
@allknowing (136540)
• India
7 Jun 17
@dpk262006 Someone has to set a good example. Real life is vanishing
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
7 Jun 17
No one is attacking anyone here. It is what one feels here matters.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
7 Jun 17
@allknowing Who didn't - starting with my parents.
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@bluesa (15022)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
7 Jun 17
Your words are wise @allknowing , I hate it when someone does not return basic decency. I have to learn to reject them too.
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
8 Jun 17
When you notice indifference that is the time to move on specially when they have used you in the past.
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
10 Jun 17
It has to start somewhere and I will start. They have taken it for granted that we will always be there when they want us but not any more
@allknowing (136540)
• India
8 Jun 17
@DianneN Kids? They are married and have kids
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@allknowing (136540)
• India
8 Jun 17
And they want my friendship on FB They prefer virtual to real.
They prefer virtual to real.1 person likes this
@allknowing (136540)
• India
8 Jun 17
It is the indifference that indicates rejection and before it happens I like to do it myself.
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@atoz1to10 (6780)
• Australia
7 Jun 17
As for me, I like to give people space so if I contact them and hear nothing from them, I will wait. If they show me the sign that they don't like me, I will slowly disappear from their life... 
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@diosabella (4789)
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8 Jun 17
Thats the right thing to do. Don't stress oneself to people that stresses us. Let them get stress up when they don't have us in their life and don't want to come back to it like they always want.1 person likes this
@allknowing (136540)
• India
8 Jun 17
The youngsters think the seniors just wait for them to come back. It is time a message is sent to them
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@diosabella (4789)
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9 Jun 17
@allknowing Right! Some teens thinks that they are entitled to everything and that they can fool us.
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